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im kinda feed up
okay im back i mean we are so in love ( i think) but things are kinda changing i mean dont get me wrong im so in love with this guy and he loves me to i knw he does but the thing is im so feed up with him telln me to make promises tht i wont start seeing anybody else and that im not havng intercourse with anybody else but its like he is breking a promise he made to me by talkn to other gurls but his is what he always say to me " baby dont get mad if u see me talkn to another girl cause you my baby and you my #1 gurl" at the time it be sweet but when i really think about it i be on some moe type stuff but i love him and im kinda feed up so what should i do please tell me
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This guy is all about control. He's very hypocritical. Loving someone is all about trust and if the only way he is happy is if you make these "promises" to him you shouldn't be together. In all honesty I don't think what you have is love. If he really loved you he would let you have your own friends, whether they are male or female. By controlling you he feels a sense of power. Don't let him have control over you. You deserve a guy who let's you have your own friends and doesn't try to control you. You deserve better!
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AWw sounds like what i went through..i know your inlove with him and think he's in love with you. guys are different from us like that. Some guys say one thing and do another. If he's making you keep all your promises and not his then you have a big problem. You should ask him straight out next time he talks to another girl, how would he feel if you went and had intercourse with another guy? and of course he's gonna say that talking and having intercourse are not the same thing and that's when you remind him "PROMISE IS A PROMISE" if he really cared and love you like he says he does then he would have respected you and your feelings. If he doesn't then you should break it off and if he really does love you then you will see him begging for you to get back together and he will learn that you are serious when it comes to your promises..hope you find that helpful..let me know how it goes with you two. xo
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This guy sounds like he wants you on a VERY short leash and that is not okay. he is bossing you around, but you can't do the same to him? I mean, he makes you PROMISE all of that stuff, and you don't break any promise you've made, but he can break yours and go around talking with other girls and making up for it by telling you that you're his only one?
no way.
If he loves you like you love him, then talk to him. tell him that you dont want him talking to those girls, and that if he keeps doing it, then it's not going to work out, because the cold, hard truth is that it probably won't end up working out if he keeps acting like this. You need to trust him and be able to know that he will respect your feelings and not be so controlling. the only way to work this out is to talk to him, sit him down, face to face, and SERIOUSLY tell him what you just told all of us advicenators on here. and trust me, if he lies or keeps acting the way he's acting now AFTER you've talked to him, then you should just let him go and find someone ten times better who will treat you the way you deserve to be treated. yuh know?
good luck! if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me :] dont worry, just talk to him and see how it goes. hope i helped! xxo
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I think you're wrong. I don't think he loves you.
I think he likes you for you body.
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