I'm a freshman at a community college. I'm majoring in Communications with a possible minor in psychology or woman's studies. I am an aspiring journalist and would love to be an advice columnist.
Gender: Female
Occupation: student
Age: 18
Member Since: May 6, 2009
Answers: 4
Last Update: May 7, 2009
Visitors: 522
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Ok, so I'm 19/m lost mad weight and now I'm trying to look alittle better everything on me is skinny for the most part but my belly and I was woundering if there's anything I could do to lose the belly.... also I was woundering what work outs I could do at home (I don't got a gym membership can't really afford that or weights) like pecs, bicep, calf, forearm.. so just any little thing just to help me look better would be a big help. THANKS! (link)
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Exercisetv.com is a great website that has over 80 free workout videos. It has videos that target certain areas. I'm sure you can find what you are looking for on this website.
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Lately, it feels like my girlfriend is constantly saying hurtful and/or disrespectful things to/about me. And I can't tell if she's oblivious or not about how it affects me.
How do I make it clear that I still love her, but that what she says affects me a lot. (link)
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Tell her you love her but make it clear that when she says hurtful things it makes you feel like you're not important to her and that you're feelings aren't being taken into consideration. Just be honest about how you feel. If she still doesn't understand it maybe you two should take a break from each other. You can't have a relationship without understanding and compromise.
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i've always been a really shy and quiet person. people who don't even know me think i'm weird because of it, am i? i'm not unfriendly or antisocial, i talk when people talk to me, i'm just not always the first one to speak up. i'm not very confident but when you get to know me i open up to people. i'm afraid of how other people percieve me and it makes me shy sometimes. is there something wrong with me? am i weird because of this? or is it their problem if they don't like me? (link)
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I completely understand. I've been shy all of my life and people think I'm strange and suicidal, and I'm definitely not. There is absolutely nothing wrong with you. If everyone was loud there would be many more headaches in the world. I say do what makes you feel comfortable and forget what other people think. If someone asks you "Why are you so quiet?" say "I'm more of a listener then a talker". It puts a positive spin on being quiet. A good listener is always appreciated.
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okay im back i mean we are so in love ( i think) but things are kinda changing i mean dont get me wrong im so in love with this guy and he loves me to i knw he does but the thing is im so feed up with him telln me to make promises tht i wont start seeing anybody else and that im not havng intercourse with anybody else but its like he is breking a promise he made to me by talkn to other gurls but his is what he always say to me " baby dont get mad if u see me talkn to another girl cause you my baby and you my #1 gurl" at the time it be sweet but when i really think about it i be on some moe type stuff but i love him and im kinda feed up so what should i do please tell me (link)
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This guy is all about control. He's very hypocritical. Loving someone is all about trust and if the only way he is happy is if you make these "promises" to him you shouldn't be together. In all honesty I don't think what you have is love. If he really loved you he would let you have your own friends, whether they are male or female. By controlling you he feels a sense of power. Don't let him have control over you. You deserve a guy who let's you have your own friends and doesn't try to control you. You deserve better!
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