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what gets a guy to come back...


Question Posted Thursday April 30 2009, 7:04 pm

which behavior is more likely to get a guy to get back together with you:

A. telling him you still love him and being clingy
or
B. pretending to have fun without him

i'm going to prom (with my ex)and i would do anything to get him back..any advice pleasee


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arytha answered Saturday May 2 2009, 12:49 am:
Well it really depends on how well you know him and and long you were in the relationship with him and the reason why you broke up in the first place..If you haven't been with him for very long before you broke up then saying i love you to him may not be such a good idea.. pretending is never a good idea. maybe you can try having a serious talk with him alone and asking him what he likes in a girl and try asking him what you can do to make it work with him again. ask him lil questions about him questions that you know will give you the answer on how you can get him back. Most guys don't mind when girls ask simple questions about them and family sometimes that gets them to feel close to you. Hope that will help. and GOOD LUCK!

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Razhie answered Friday May 1 2009, 9:19 pm:
Why are you choosing between lying to him and being clingy!

Neither or those work!

Tell him the straight up truth.
Tell him you want him back and ask him if you've got a chance and what it might take.
THEN have FUN! With him or without him. Do your best to have a backup plan, some friends to joke with or old pals to dance with so you can make sure you DO have fun.

No one wants to be with someone who only pretends to have a good time, and no one wants to be with a clingy person.

He'll choose whatever he does. You can't control his decision. Just let him know what you want, and then have a good time.

Be honest, and then go be awesome. If you do that, you'll have done all that can.

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annomous1424 answered Friday May 1 2009, 8:03 pm:
neither you should NEVER be clingy guys hate it but you should leet him no that you still love him but can live without him it will make him jealous and he will no that he can get you back if he wants to.

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KandiiHearts answered Friday May 1 2009, 7:41 pm:
Hun, he's your ex.
Was he the one to break up with you? If so, it's 99% certain that neither of those techniques will work.
Please find someone else.

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