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i dont know about him anymore
alright, well me and my boyfriend brokre up because of alot of random things. But he says that i am his bestfriend still? Yet the inly time he talks to me is when he either is bored orr needsd somethiing. its never "hey ____, how're you". ughh i dont know anymore
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That sounds a lot like what my mom went through with her first husband. Since this is definitely fishy, maybe try talking to him and tell him what you are feeling about this.
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Hmm... Well, that's most deffinately is fishy. He might still like you and doesn't know how to deal, I know the pieces you have to put the puzzel together: Him, You, Friendship, Like, Hate, Horphomnes.
The more I know the better I can give advice, for now I totally say wether he 'likes' you or not he's not sure how to act ('approach') you anymore.
-Lily :)
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just because he says that you're still his best friend, does NOT under any circumstances mean that he actually means it. sometimes boys just tell you what you want to hear so they can get stuff from you, whatever that may be. yuh know? Just don't pay any attention to this guy, he doesn't seem like a very cool person, and I know you deserve better. and you already KNOW and have told yourself that he basically just uses you for entertainment and when in need of something. My ex did the same with me. He always gets bored and randomly texts me saying, "im bored." like okay, what would you like me to do about it? I stopped talking to him, and i feel so much better. it's like im not dragging his weight around for him anymore yuh know? I know it will be hard, but ignore it until he actually does something about it and tries to see how you're doing, and tries to be there for you also. not just using and abusing your emotions.
trust me, you deserve 1738496 times better. like that's not a best friend, thats not even a friend if it doesnt go both ways.
hope i helped! good luck and don't sweat it :] xxo if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me.
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Seems like he's keeping you around as somebody to unload on and nothing more..Friends and bestfriends communicate both ways and has the same concern for the friends and they do for themselves. If he never asks how you're doing or seeing if your okay then, maybe you shouldn't ask him how he is. You can treat him the same way he treats you.
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