Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:
Kasperfern answered Saturday May 2 2009, 11:11 am: I think the more you lead him on the more he will be hurt when he finds out the truth. You need to tell him that its over straight to his face, i know it may hurt him but he'll be hurt more if you carry on just letting him believe that you are dating.
Hope i helped
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NikkiD answered Saturday May 2 2009, 12:06 am: You have two choices. Don't tell him and let him keep thinkin everything is good when its not. Or, just tell him and get it over with then you don't have it on your shoulders any more. You gotta tell him! So you guys can both move on. [ NikkiD's advice column | Ask NikkiD A Question ]
ShortyBug answered Saturday May 2 2009, 12:05 am: Well what i would do is..
when he is on msn, message him and talk to him and tell him that yall arent dating or that you need some time or whatever..
tell him that your not trying to hurt him or tryint to be mean its just that you need space or time to think or watever..
Or..
call him so he has to talk to you and tell him those things. or talk to him in real person or whatever..
but you gotta talk to him if you dont want to date him because you cant just let him tell everybody that yall are dating which yall arent..
i would just talk to him and tell him that your not wanting to be mean.
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