I guarantee I've either done it or seen it! No judgement ! Ask anything you want and it will be my personal goal to answer with integrity and honestly. To make sure that whatever the case may be you have tools that will get you the best result which is success, peace, and happiness. Much Love!
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can the gyno remove my hymen? will it hurt? i can't wear tampons because i think its like completely blocking the hole because it won't go in i tried lube and different positions and everything... (link)
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I think that may a bit extreme but yes it can be done. Now if you lived in Africa and belonged to a tribe that removes girls hymen as a part of social ritual then yes it would hurt badly! I know of some in the Islamic faith that practice female circumsion as well. Now in the good ole USA it probably wouldn't hurt with all the drugs we have. Ok well maybe still a little afterwards.And I do believe that is an illegal procedure in America. But I'm pretty sure there is a better solution than female circumcision! Did you try changing tampon size/brand? Also next time you go to the doctor explain your issue and the doctor can come up with something better than you wacking off your hymen! Your gonna need that later in life anyways! ;) (wait til you're an adult single woman and you will understand! Keep that trust me on this!)
Much Love!
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My boyfriend and I will both be starting college in mid August and are determined to stay together. We have a strong relationsip and breaking up at the end of the summer has never been an option. I'm starting to get really sad and depressed knowing we only have a month left together though. We're used to seeing each other 5 or 6 days a week and now going to colleges 5 hours apart we will obviously not see each other that much. I'll be in college for six years and he only has to go for two at the most so the plan was for him to move near my school and then we'll live together. So I'm looking at two years of only seeing him once or twice a month during the school year and possibly the summer. He's going to a technical school that might not get summer's off.
Basically I need some tips on how to go day to day without driving myself crazy from missing him. I know you'll say 'keep busy' and I know I'll have tons of work with my major but he's still always going to be on my mind. He's not my first love but he's the one I've loved the most and I don't know how I'm going to do this. (link)
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Love can be so wonderful! And it will be hard you probably will feel like you are going crazy. So switch to the same phone company so you get unlimited calls between eachother and text. You can email as well. Then there's web cams too!
Now that I've answered your question, Can I be real for a second? Thank you :) You are going to college! That's great! I'm not even talking about that I'm talking about in life you learn and grow. There is no stepping around it, You will change and so will he. Don't hold yourself back because of a relationship of any sort! and I would tell him the same thing. I'm not sayin to go to school and perform in girls gone wild and never talk to him again.I'm saying know its ok to allow yourself to experience life and college. Now I know a lot of people have told you both that. Know this! Real love WILL NOT falter, waiver or fade! If it is meant to be it will be! However! I believe college may show you some new new! (Ebonics for new stuff!) You will see! ;)
Much Love!
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I was a thick girl with the nice big booty, over the months i lost my booty n now im really skinny. idk the cause of it...i was wondering if there was anything i can do to make my butt big again? or take pills to be thick? please help (link)
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I've been having that same problem! When I googled that question (yes I googled!) I found the answer carbs and protein. But also to make sure that it goes where we want it (the booty) make sure to do lunges and stair climbing to make sure it has some lift! I also enjoy being a thick woman! This man told me once and ill never forget! Bones are for the dog, Meat is for the man!
Much Love!
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ok so my friend has been dating online and she met this guy, who i dont think is right for her, and like he tells her stuff..which seems like a lie to me. he wont talk to her on the phone, all they do is text. he claims he's in college. meanwhile, she told me he goes from sept.-june. (like normal high schools)..he said his first class is homeroom?? and that he takes shop class or whatever. i told her it sounds like a lie but she's not sure and either am i because we're both in high school and don't know how college works..can anyone give me answers please? i really want to know what this guy is all about.
Thankyou! (link)
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Yea. Those are lies! There is no home room in college and my old university started in October (I went to University of Washington. GO HUSKIES! PAC 10!)Also the classes have numbers at the end like 100 or 235 something of that nature. Now college is broken up into quarters, technically you don't have to take summer quarter but some do. And if memory serves me classes end in May graduation (Commencement Ceremony) is in June. But don't quote me on that. This guy is either in highschool still or has never been to college before and is tryin to pass for younger than what he is. Please be careful! Don't meet up with him! Now if you don't listen to me, at least take someone else with you guys and in public like a mall. Try calling him out (In ebonics its known as G-checkin') and see if he texts back! Please, please be careful!
Much Love!
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What the hell are bum fights all about? My friends joke about something being bum fights or something and I'm SO clueless. What in the world are they talking about? Is it an inside joke? I feel stupid. (link)
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I didn't even think any1 still did this but a bum fight is where folk will go pay homeless people to fight eachother. Comedy to some terrible to others. If you want to see one try you tubing or googling "bum fights".
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I'm a 16 year old girl, not allowed to talk to boys, not allowed to have a boyfriend, and not allowed to hang out with guy. It's not that I like a guy and want a boyfriend, because I don't, but I have some guy friends that are strictly friends, but I'm never allowed to hang out with them. I've snuck around and have done it anyway, but I don't like that. My friends that are girls get mad when I always "ditch" them when they're hanging out with guys because I can't. I'm even going to a sleep away chorus camp, and my mom asked me if boys would be there. Of course there will be! Then she said that maybe I shouldn't go. The only guys I've hungout with are gay/pass as gay, and one of them is my neighbor that I've known forever, and she still got mad about that. I can understand why she doesn't like guys. Her sister got pregnant at a young age, and she doesn't trust any guy because of that, but that won't happen to me. I'm really self conscious about my body, so I'd never let a guy see me naked, I would be killed if I got pregnant, I want a future that includes college, and I don't even want kids of my own. I'm planning on adopting. What can I do to convince my mom to let me be friends with guys? I'm going to be a junior in high school and no guy is going to ask me to jr. prom because I'm not even allowed to talk to guys. It happened this year with the sophomore dance, and I just want to have a social life that includes guys. (link)
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Firstly I understand how you feel. Listen to this though. Being pregnant at a young age can be a lonely scary thing. That and that alone is the reason why your mom is acting this way.I know a lot of women including myself that got preg. At a young age and its hard. She doesn't want you to have that kind of life because she loves you.so for that much your mom deserves some credit. However I do believe her actions are stunting your social growth.I know you say that you don't like any1 right now, but that will change. You should experience dating so you don't fall for the first crazy that tells you you're pretty. Not saying you're not of course but there are men ready to take advantage of naïve women of all kinds and you need to be prepared for that.But you should experience the good in real love and healthy relationships and how a man should treat you. Also don't give up on kids just quite yet! You have plenty of time to make that decision. Try having a conversation with your mom about trust. You sound like your mom has done a good job with you so far. Its time to convince her of that as well! Oh and no body consciousness! (sp)? You are allowed to love your body just the way it is! I checked!
Much Love!
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15/f sorry for the longness its just so urgent i dont reallly know what the category of this is, but i need help asap...my boyfreind and i broke up 3 weeks ago after going out for more than 6 monthes. we're very close, like best freinds, i still love him, he still loves me, but he doesnt show any signes he wants me back, he says we broke up for a reaon bla bla bla, but i dont care i know it will work this time around..its my birthday in 3 days and he told me that he's getting me something, i dont want him too get me a gift, its going too make it so hard for me...i'm so not over him yet and it hurts too know me and him wont be together in the summer, i miss him so much and just want him back, all my freinds tell me i'm crazy, but i'm not...i'm just crazy in love with him. and a week after he broke up with me my best guy freind in the world! tells me he loves me. lets call my best freind jeremy. so jeremy and i have a history: i loved him for three years strait not on and off, i loved him for three years, my best girl freind knowing that i loved him goes out with him for a year or two on and off. in the summer we where so close, physically and mentally...his ex girl -my best freind- went crazy on us, we denied everything, but the thing is that i have loved him for three years before my boyfreind asked me out and now he finally loves me but 1. i'm not ready, 2. i still love my ex boyfreind. p.s sorry so many questions in one but i seriously need major help, everytime i see my ex i just want to cry.
-confused and lost in love. (link)
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Well firstly, breathe and relax believe it or not this will all work out. Now in my honest opinion reading what you wrote, your ex boyfriend is trying to keep his options open, playing with your emotions in the meantime. Guys do this when they don't know what they want and mainly because they juss can! Don't make him a priority when he only makes you an option! Now you're friend Jeremy, I would just make sure that he really means what he says before you jump in that! He could be rebounding! And since its not a best friend quality to steal your love intrest, I believe she can be added into the possible hater category and watch her close if you do decide to go with Jeremy. If I were you I would drop both of them and find a new boy that doesn't make me cry or feel bad but makes me feel good and I have fun with! Hope that helps a bit but really the decision is yours! Juss protect your heart! Much Love!
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Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"
well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it (link)
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For myself No! For other people most certainly! Me personally I don't trust the opposite sex at all! But I've been pregnant twice both times the men left. I've been cheated on more times than I can count. My fiancee for one, I been abused physically and verbally. And as much as I don't trust men I don't pick myself to choose the right one. But that's my crap life based on decisions I made. I believe it can be better for you!
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this is a VERY long story, but im gonna try to lay this out as short as possible and please, im desperate here, you have NO clue what i've been through these past few months, and i need all the help i can get..
last year i met a REALLY sensative guy. he was 16, about to be 17, and i was 14.. he was soooo shy, hes VERY insecure. when we first started dating, all he said to me was how i saved him and pulled him out of his misery because he has had no luck with relationships and was treated like shit by girls his whole life. hes not even that cute and popular, and i have a waaay higher social status in my grade/ school then he does in his grade.. but ive been known to have wierd taste and i can look beyond looks and things like that very easily. i think when we first started dating him i was just excited over the fact that he had a car and he was a junior and i was only a freshmen.. but i actually did end up falling in love with him. and he was COMPLETELY in love with me. we lost our virginities to eachother and ill tell you, im smart, and not at all a bit naiive.. i knew this kid loved me. & we did NOT have a sex based relationship whatsoever.. we became eachothers best friends. both of us lost all of our other friends because we were only with eachother 24-7. he called my mom 'mom' and i did the same with his mom.. we were incredibly close.. and sense he was older, i felt so comftorbal and secure with him, and i went to him with all my problems, and he would help me.. ive been suffering from depression for years and me and my mother never had a good relationship, and my father left me, and i was molested as a baby.. but when i was with him, he made me feel so comftorbal. we told eachother EVERYTHING. and i was postive he was there to stay. he promised me forever every single day. we dated for a year. i messed it up, biggest mistake of my entire life.. he started getting very annoying and up my ass. you know when youre in a bad mood and you just want to be left alone? well he would never leave me alone. he'd be like 'its okay babe i love you' bla bla. all mushy, when i just want to be mad!. i tried talking to him about this many times and all he could say was im sorry i just love you soooo much i cant help it.. all my friends called him whipped cream and everything.. it was BAD. but anyways, one night i was out with my friends the day before a cheer competition, and my ex was there.. and somewhere along the lines, we kissed.. my boyfriends friend was there and told him that if i didnt tell him, he was going to.. i knew he wasnt going to break up with me or anything.. so i told him.. but the thing is.. i think i was looking for a fight with him because our relationship was so boring. when i told him, it pissed me off how he was crying instead of being mad, yelling at me. so i started saying things to make him mad.. i said TERRIBLE things. like i was gonna keep cheating on him because he basically lets me, and how i know i take advantage of him because he trusts me so much but i shouldnt.. and he was like well maybe i have to break up with you then.. and he was like i really dont want to. and i was like fine just do it idont care! yelling at him and stuff.. and then he did. i was thinking we would get back together in a couple weeks.. so after we broke up, we still talked because we obv. still loved eachother and everything. we acted like we were going out, and we even 'hooked up' a few times.. but when he asked me back out, i kept saying no, i wasnt ready.. because the relationship was SOOO akward after we broke up.. he was acting so different. and i knew why. it was because i broke his heart. and i did, bad. so one day after we hooked up, my friend told me that her brother saw my 'boyfriend, x-boyfriend, whatever u wanna call him' at a store.. and he was saying how he was done with me and he was trying to get with this new girl 'leesh'.. i was FURIOUS. i called him up screaming at him asking for all my stuff back and it was over for good and everything. but really, i wanted an appology from him, not my stuff back. btw, i was very remorsful for cheating on him and saying what i said to him, i mustve appologized a million times.. but he didnt say anything, he justgave me all my stuff back and acted like it was nothing.. and then i kept trying to get him back, but he kept rejecting me. i was litterally down on my knees for this kid. until one day i found out he had a girlfriend. not just some girl.. the girl who dates ALL the boys that i date after me.. but thats a whole nother story.. anyways, i was devistated. i couldnt eat, i couldnt talk, i couldnt sleep, i couldnt go to school,, nothing. all i did was cry and cry and cry and cry. i tried talking to him seeing if we could be friends and stuff, but he hates me now. if i send him one text, he shuts his phone off. he goes all different ways in the halls so i dont have to see him in school, he wont even look my way. he saw me practically drown in my own tears and he didnt even care. i wrote him long long letters, i tried everything i could just to be able to talk to him when i need to, so i wouldnt be so hurt about the situation.. now, i have two weeks left of school and im failing 4 classes.. and im an honors student. i DONT fail. its not me. and im grounded because of it, so i cant even go out and try to forget it. its been sense thhe end of february... and still,all i can think about is killing myself.. people say they are heart broken.. but this gives heart broken a new definition. there is litterally a hole in my chest. and i keep getting maaaassive anxiety attacks in class, and i do go to counceling wich is sort of helpful but we mostly talk about my parents.. three days ago, she broke up with him. and he was very upset from what i heard.. he hasnt tried talking to me or anything but i dont know what to do, i want to talk to him but he'll just ignore me.. i love this kid and care about him with my life. today i thought i was going to DIE. it was the last day of school for the seniors. the last time ill EVER see him again. the last time ill ever get to look for him i the halls so i can walk by him.. that was the only time i ever got to see him, and today was my last day. and when i walked by him for the very last time of my life today, he didnt even look at me. it was so painful. he couldnt even have the heart to say bye to me considering im his first love and helll never see me again. i havent been able to stop crying sense i last saw him. i dont even know what to do with my life any more. someone PLEEEEEASE tell me what to do to get him back. ANNYTHING. I AM DESPERATE FOR HELP. we had such a good relationship till i cheated and we Never ever had one fight. but you dont even understand. this kid wouldnt even look at any other girls, deleted all the girls in his phone book, couldnt go an hour without texting me just saying he loved me, couldnt go a day withouth seeing me, brought me flowers randomly, did EVERYTHING for me. how can you love someone so much and go through everything we've been through together, and then just completely shut them out of your life? (link)
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Well every1 else pretty much hit it dead on! But firstly you're only 15, slow down shorty! I don't think you love him as much as you hate losing! If u don't relax a bit ure going to give ureself a heart attack! Every one loses at some point every1 that's how you grow and learn. What trips me out is that after he told you every female he's messed with has done him dirty, you went and did the same thing! Remember karma, cause now ure feeling some of that pain! Which will happen to you again probably a couple more times in you're life. So give him some space, if you really care about him!
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me and my boyfriend have had sex a handful of times and the thing is welll ... u see i lost it to him not too long so sex is still hurting for me but he's experienced and when he has sex with me he never comes does that mean he's not getting pleasure? does he have to come to get pleasure because we could do it for a full hour different positions and stuff but hes never come before so does that mean hes not getting pleasure. thats what i thought and if he isnt why does he always wanna do it with me if he gets nothing out of it. he knows i dont get anything it hurts for me.. :S CONFUSEEDD! (link)
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Well firstly I'm concerned about you. Mainly because firstly painful sex can be a medical issue, Especially if its happening frequently. Now my second concern is that overall you're not enjoying your sexual experience which is definately no good. The reason I mention those things first is because men have an even better"time" when they know they are pleasing you. So first thing find out if you're really ready to have sex, u don't sound 2 comfortable with him. Then you have to ask him why he doesn't come when he's with you. And if he says I'm afraid of hurting you, tell him how he can help you relax. Or it could be he's afraid of pregnancy. Men have sexual anxiety as much as women do ya know! Hope that helped! Much Love!
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I'm running into some hard times in my life. I fell in love with my wife pretty much at first sight. The problem was that I didn't have a lot of experience with relationships. I didn't do things properly and I let my family get to much of a say in our relationship. They didn't like her from the very beginning and didn't even try to be nice to her. My mistake was that I didn't stand up for her like I should have. which led to a lot of problems between us. we started fighting and have split up multiple times. we now have 2 children but we recently split up again. when we split up I was devastated but instead of just being hurt I took out that hurt on her. I called all sorts of names and refused to talk to her for a while. but we recently started talking again and when we were talking on the phone everything seemed like it would be ok. but then we met up again and she said that seeing me changed things. that she didn't feel the same for me. I love her with everything in me and can't stand to let her go. but she isn't sure if we can be together again. I need help with what I should do. I'm lost here. I can't breath I've been having panic attacks I'm losing everything with her gone (link)
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Dear Heart, coming from a woman, get your knee pads out because you have some groveling to do. I'm talkin flowers and consistant apologizing. That is if you really want her back and if you're ready to let your relationship with your wife be just that between you and your wife. U have to let ure balls drop and be a man and don't let your family run your relationship. If a woman feels like you don't love her, you can't protect her and if you don't put your kids and her first then she will leave you period. Stop crying! Man up and get your wife back! Much Love!
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hello, im 15 f, and im cuban.
my boyfriend is 18 black and mexican.
heres the thing, my parents just recently found out that me and him are dating, and they fliped out. they say im nasty for liking a black guy, and that im only putting myself down and that im too pretty and light skined for him and etc.. i really dont know what to do cause i like him alot and i dont want to loose him over something so dumb like his skin color. and he isnt even that dark! hes like chris brown dark. and he dresses very nice, and is a good kid. i have to talk to my parents today. how can i convince them to let me be with him? oh and my dad was saying things like what would people think? and how it looks bad for someone whos white to be with someone whos black. (link)
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Now I'm coming from a black womans perspective. Your parents are coming from a place of ignorance. They don't understand black people and rather watch cops and MTV to get their info. Now for you, if he treats you right and makes you happy then go for it. Its not in my DNA to be a hater. However, I am a black woman and it can be hurtful to other black women to consistanly see every single black man go for anything that isn't black. Now since that has nothing to do with your happiness in your relationship as well as your poarents thoughts do u boo boo. You're only 15, who knows what kind of men will be there in your future. Your main goal should be to find someone who loves and respects you. Seeing as that is soo hard to find, keep ahold of your relationship and keep it strong because there are folk in this world who will not understand it and because they can't find love they will try and make things hard for you two. Also keep in mind that your parents want the best for you, but they are missing knowledge to properly judge the guy u r with. Just don't get in trouble and good luck! Much Love!
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I dont believe in god but i am beginning to believe in angels sometimes i feel something around me and it feels like something good. Can anyone explain this to me. I feel completly alone and then all of the sudden I feel something good there with me. Please give me personal opinions about what i am feeling. (link)
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Well keep in mind there is a difference between believing in God and then standardized religion. Religion is man made, God is real. I have had the same experience and its God letting you know that he is there. So next time you feel bad just close your eyes and call on him! He'll show up! Much Love!
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Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:
Sincerly
CueTheLights. (link)
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You have two choices. Don't tell him and let him keep thinkin everything is good when its not. Or, just tell him and get it over with then you don't have it on your shoulders any more. You gotta tell him! So you guys can both move on.
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How can I reverse the effects of masturbation? (link)
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Well, first I'm 15/female.
and I know zits are normal ,but for a few years now. Maybe since I was like 11 but it was never this bad- it got really bad maybe 2 years ago. My vaginia and upper inner legs are FULLY covered in zits....white head, black head- you name it. Lately the actual zits look like brueses... Do I have some 'sexual' disease? For the reacord I'm still a virgin and have not had my first date even.
Should I be worried? (link)
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No you don't have a Disease! At your age acne even body acne is normal. Now if you shave down there then they are just shave bumps! It happens! If not, its acne it will calm down when your hormones level out. In the meantime check on some Proactive and also Neutragena (sp?) Has body acne wash that may help. Don't stressB its hormones!
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Hey everyone, i am 15/f and i had a boyfriend that wasn't talking to me for about a week and a half, i didnt know why, then today at school he texted me and said he got a new girlfriend on saturday and that he just didnt know how to tell me. Yet he says he still loves me and that im his best friend in the world... I dont know what to do he is the only thing that has kept my living the past 9 months... Im a very depressed person, and he was the only one that was there for me, and i knoe he will still be there for me, but i also know he wont be there as much as before, and to top that off his new girlfriend hates me with a burning passion, and doesnt want hiom talking to me. Im scared i might lose my best friend because of his "girlfriend". ):
Any advice? Please help...
thanks inn advance (link)
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I'm sorry that happened to you. It sucks but you gotta let him go. Take time to figure out why you're depressed and change that. If you want help with that ill help you personally. As far as the guy goes, you don't have to cut him off entirely but gaurd your heart with him. If he is truly your friend he will always b there 4 you. Remember some people are not meant to stay in your life but just to help you get to a certain place. And youre young babe, you have so much life ahead of you! Seriously the bigger issue is your depression tell me why you feel that way! I want to help you. Nickslick1@msn.com email me and we will work it out! Much love!
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I dated a boy for about 9 months three years ago. We were 'in love', even though we were very young. about 7 months after we broke up we dated again for about 3 but we were always fighting so it didnt last long... now two years after we finally broke up and i've had only 2 kind of serious relationships since, he has had one; he told her he loved her. We never had sex because we were really young but he had sex with his last girlfriend (the one he loved).
Now i am talking to him a lot lately and i hate that i'm falling back in love with him but its nothing that i can help. the only friend that knows about it hates that i am falling for him again but i can't help it.
should i tell him that i like him again and potentially be heart broken or should i keep it to myself and try and move on?
advice please... =] (link)
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You really do have to gauge out if he's worth potential heartache. I want you to think about what you want in a relationship and his ability to give that to you. If you think he can, then think if you yourself can forgive and forget whatever situations that caused fighting. And lastly make sure that you are in love with him and not just missing the love feeling. If you can say you're ok with all the above then tell him how you feel. Much Love!
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Ok so heres tha thing... Im 18 and Im engaged to a 32 year old. Yes I do love him. But at the same time I have feeling for one of my best freinds. I have been around allen(my best friend) longer and I at one point thought I loved him... But he has a baby on tha way. And all the baby momma drama is driving me crazy. She stalks me and everything. He is always going to have her in his life and he drinks a lot. Hes a great friend but when i told him I loved him tha first time he told me that he was always going to be a cheater. so I got it. I said fuck it and we were just friends until the other day he told me that he has fallin in love with me and we wants me. and now im stuck in this situation. I dont kno what to do. :( I dont know how to let him down easy. I dont even know if I want to. Im just so damn lost..
the man Im marrying is in jail right now. but I love him. we have plans. we are going to move back to Florida.. and Im going back to college down there. and he loves me.
allen well he lives with his mom and dad hes 23 and he just got a DUI and he works at a factory. hes more than likely gonna be living here all his life. Not what I want to do
ugh I need advice :( (link)
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My question is why? I think you can do better than a cheater and an xcon. At least your friend is honest with you and told you he really aint about shit. Leave him and his babys mom alone. Let her trip off him. She's stuck with him you're not! And of course guy in jail wants to marry you and say sweet things to you! Why? Because he's in jail! Of course he would pick you. Why? Because you're 18 and he knows he can run game and morethan likely you will accept it. You don't have to. You're only 18! Go to spring break or something! You should be having fun and not worried about two straight suckas! You can do better than that! Much Love!
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I know, there are assloads of guy questions here, but after a month of talking to my friends, I still haven't resolved my problem.
I got to know this guy quite well over the last two months, and I'm kind of interested in him but the thing is, I have no idea what he wants.
First of all, he finishes school in like a month, because it's his final year...
He has a super secret girlfriend who sees once about every two months, just because she's in university and her parents don't let her have a boyfriend.
Me and him flirt so much though, we talk every day, he kisses me on the cheek and at least once a week we go to get lunch together from the sandwich bar near school.
On Friday we went out to town together and we spent like five hours together, just talking and flirting.
All my friends have noticed this and are asking me if anything is going on...
The thing is that I have no idea what he's thinking, but I don't really want to ask him because it may make things awkward, for the last months that he's still here for, until he goes to uni in another country.
One thing I know though is that he's not a player, he was with his ex for a year and a half until she moved away, and I don't know much about his current girlfriend, because he never talks about her.
So what do you think he wants?
I was considering saying something like "We should stop this whole flirting thing because you have a girlfriend and I'm getting tempted" but I don't want to ruin our friendship...
I just need help, I'm so confused but I can't forget about him.
Thank you so much to anyone that answers. (link)
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Ok so he has a girlfrien he won't talk about, he's leavin the country in a month and u already know he wants to kiss on you. Sounds like he's having fun with you since his woman is not around and he's leaving soon. The way you describe him, it sounds like you can ask him about his plans for u and him and he will answer truthfully. If you want to know you have to ask! But honestly sounds like he's just having fun with you and he doesn't have any serious intentions at this point in time.
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