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Love Story
Like Taylor Swift says "I got tired of waiting, wondering if you were ever coming along...my faith in you was fading"
well anyway my question i guess is how many of you out there still have faith in love... and i guess what are some of your theories on finding it, keeping it, and losing it. feel free to rant and leave long philosophical answers... i wanna hear it
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I believe in love. I believe that there is somebody out there for everybody. I believe that love will find you, but you have to believe in it. I believe that Taylor Swift's song is the epitome of love itself. The song is about how two people fell in love and were willing to do anything to be together, and that's what love should be.
I don't know that I've ever been in love (though, lately I think I'm getting a small snidbit of it...) so I don't know how valid my argument is, but I honestly believe in love.
As far as finding it, you have to let it come to you. You might fall in love with your best friend, your co-worker, your friend's cousin, who knows? You might just meet somebody one day and KNOW that they're special.
I could say so much more, but I don't have time right now. Hit up my inbox if you want any more of my opinions or whatever :)
-Laura (17-f)
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Well im young so ill give you my young answer lol
I have faith in love. but i dont know how a person could know they are in love [probably since i havent been]. I dont believe in necesarily finding love, i think it just comes to you. Keeping love is a good thing if you know its about to go away and your about to lose it. But i wouldnt say hold on to it to the point where your practically killing yourself to do so. Love is a two way street so I think if that person isnt willing to meet you half way than that love is worth losing. I think that some people never lose love for certain people. You might never see them again but they always have this special spot in your heart. I have not been in love but i have felt like my heart was broken. and even after that, this person still remains in my heart and i know im theirs and i believe that some people cant help but come back together so dont lose faith. I remember i felt like i hated this person and then someone told me that hate is like a form of love. I then realized that I must have some feelings for this person. They consume much of thoughts even though they were negative thoughts, so much of me was focused on them and people dont spend so much time tihnking about someone they dont care for. Im not in love with this guy but I do love him. Love in all forms [family, friend, and romantic love] is pain and happiness. There should be a word that means pain and happiness at the same time.. oh but then again couldnt that word be "love".
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I definitely have faith in love. For a while I didn't, I was like most people who liked someone who didn't even notice them. But then what has to be called fate happened.
After leaving a concert i walked past a really cute guy handing out fliers and right as I did another guy knocked the fliers from his hands. I helped him pick them up and he gave me his number. We got together a week later and are still together. I definitely believe that love lasts. You really can't find love in my opinion, it finds you.
Keeping love is a whole other story.
A lot of people have a difficult time keeping it.
Through jealousy, suspicion, fighting, and lying relationships all have their bumps and are hard to keep afloat. It's hard to keep it but it's worth it and possible.
Some people do fall out of love and I think it's really tragic, I have never fallen out of love seeing as I have only loved one person. I have dated other people but never LOVED them, just liked. So personally, i think you can only love one person.
Love is something held between two people and it's the most amazing feeling in the world. It's hard to find love but once you find it you never do truly let it go. It's the best feeling in the world to be in love, but the fear of losing the one you love is constantly on your mind.
That's what I have to say.
Thanks, please rate. :]
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I most definitely have faith in love. For a while, I didn't because a lot of things in my life happened and totally killed it, but last May I ended up meeting someone that I really cared for, and he kind of restored faith. Now, we live together and our one year anniversary is next month. I moved 2000+ miles away to be with him. :) He's my everything, and I'm very happy to be with him. I couldn't ask for anything more.
As far as finding it, keeping it and losing it goes, it really all just takes work. Finding it just needs you to be patient. If you go out looking for it, chances are you won't find it. Just be yourself and don't worry about love, and chances are it'll come to you.
As for keeping it, every relationship needs work & effort. A relationship is a 2way street and cannot/will not work if only one person is trying. If there's a problem, talk it out to solve it. Everything just takes patience, time, effort and communication. Honesty works too. If you want a relationship to work, those are the key ingredients. Without that, you have no relationship.
Losing love - Hmmm.. Everyone at some point in their lives will lose someone they loved. Whether it's by death, the end of a friendship, divorce, breaking up - whatever, it happens. There is no way to avoid it, but just because you lose love with someone doesn't mean you won't find it again.
I would just be patient and have a little faith. You'll see it gets you pretty far if you keep an open mind.
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I, personally, do believe in love. It does exist, and it most definately will reach or hit everyone at a point in their life, I don't know if it will happen twice in a life, but I'm sure once at least. I'm only 17 and I've met two guys, both turning 20 this year, who have seen the best in me at all times, they are my exes now; the first one had to leave to another country for university and I had to leave the second one for university too. We're all in 3 different continents at the moment. I must say, real love is SO VERY close to infatuation, many people confuse infatuation as love, and convince themselves that is IS love, when it isn't. And they usually end up hurt. I've got to say that real, healthy love is a two way thing, if you think you're in love with the guy, he should be too, if he isn't.. This isn't the healthy love, as one will get hurt. But definately, love does exist and it will hit everyone at least once in their life. Love isn't something you can rush, it's like true beauty or amazing art, it takes time and no one can or should rush it! Rushed love or forced love, is not love at all. I personally feel love should come way before sex, but not many people follow this nowadays, everyone is different and has their own philosophies, I can't blame them.
If LOVE hasn't FOUND YOU yet, don't give up.. It will happen when it is time to, don't worry and have faith. There are some people that haven't found love yet, and they are quite old. Well, that only means you have met and been through all the non-worthy love material, and on your way to finding your love, the love of your life! It's never and it will never be too late to fall in love, the main thing is to never lose hope. I have been blessed with two amazing guys, that have touched me positively and they are my friends now, my closest friends. I never know, I might marry one of them in the future. Keep doors open, chin up and a smile, and I'm sure love won't be too far.. It's hit me twice and I'm only 17. You never know! Picking the right guys obviously matters here, so wait and pick the best out of the lot, as these healthy decisions lead you to a future healthy love life! I have always gone for a little older guys, like 3 years older than me, not any more or any less. I think maturity on this LOVE subject with both parties matter too.. Hope you keep the faith! ;)
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I believe that if you want something bad enough... and you have faith in it.... then it'll happen.
Also, I think that you find what it is you want when you're not searching for it. I've noticed that every time I've found the right boy to be with (and I say every time because for that part of my life, that boy has been right, but as I change, so do the men lol) it's cause I wasn't looking for him. When I spendd too much time thinking about it, I dont find what i'm looking for.
When I lose it, I still keep my faith, because not all of them are the same. Some actually are worth while. And the ones that arent dont deserve me =]]
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For myself No! For other people most certainly! Me personally I don't trust the opposite sex at all! But I've been pregnant twice both times the men left. I've been cheated on more times than I can count. My fiancee for one, I been abused physically and verbally. And as much as I don't trust men I don't pick myself to choose the right one. But that's my crap life based on decisions I made. I believe it can be better for you!
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I am a big believer in fate, if you are meant to be with someone then it will happen somehow, some way.
Finding love is something everyone wants to do. And its not an easy thing to do. Once you find that someone it is really hard to let go. But people fall into love and fall out of love. You can fall in love more than once.
Keeping it is a whole other story. It is really hard to keep a loving relationship going. If you care about someone enough you are always worried about what they are doing and how they are doing and you get jealous really easy which causes fights. Couples do go through stages and eventually get over this.
Losing the one you love is the hardest thing to do. I believe that once you love someone you will never forget that person. If you date other people you will compare them to the person you loved, and so on. It is really hard and takes a lot of time to get over.
Hope i helped
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Ya know, I'm already 18 and I've never had a boyfriend. I feel like I owe it to myself to figure myself out before trying to make sense of who someone else is. I know I'm going to find the truest love out there because I didn't get caught up in having a relationship too young and I won't have baggage to carry forth to the relationship I actually want to settle into.
There is someone out there with a lot of love to give. Just make a believer out of yourself!
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i myself i have been in love myself and its a very strong thing but if you with a person that you love and they not in love wit you then there no purpose for trying to make them fall in love wit you because love takes time the best thing for you 2 is just wait until it finds because if you go lookin for love your not gonna find it because love is unexpecting so just be patient and wait
~Alluring Arnissia~
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well, i have really strong faith in love. and in terms of finding it,i always say "dont search for love,let love find you" and if you cant keep the love that you are feeling then it isnt true love
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