|
my boyfreind and i broke up, i still love him. my best freind loves me now.
15/f sorry for the longness its just so urgent i dont reallly know what the category of this is, but i need help asap...my boyfreind and i broke up 3 weeks ago after going out for more than 6 monthes. we're very close, like best freinds, i still love him, he still loves me, but he doesnt show any signes he wants me back, he says we broke up for a reaon bla bla bla, but i dont care i know it will work this time around..its my birthday in 3 days and he told me that he's getting me something, i dont want him too get me a gift, its going too make it so hard for me...i'm so not over him yet and it hurts too know me and him wont be together in the summer, i miss him so much and just want him back, all my freinds tell me i'm crazy, but i'm not...i'm just crazy in love with him. and a week after he broke up with me my best guy freind in the world! tells me he loves me. lets call my best freind jeremy. so jeremy and i have a history: i loved him for three years strait not on and off, i loved him for three years, my best girl freind knowing that i loved him goes out with him for a year or two on and off. in the summer we where so close, physically and mentally...his ex girl -my best freind- went crazy on us, we denied everything, but the thing is that i have loved him for three years before my boyfreind asked me out and now he finally loves me but 1. i'm not ready, 2. i still love my ex boyfreind. p.s sorry so many questions in one but i seriously need major help, everytime i see my ex i just want to cry.
-confused and lost in love.
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Well firstly, breathe and relax believe it or not this will all work out. Now in my honest opinion reading what you wrote, your ex boyfriend is trying to keep his options open, playing with your emotions in the meantime. Guys do this when they don't know what they want and mainly because they juss can! Don't make him a priority when he only makes you an option! Now you're friend Jeremy, I would just make sure that he really means what he says before you jump in that! He could be rebounding! And since its not a best friend quality to steal your love intrest, I believe she can be added into the possible hater category and watch her close if you do decide to go with Jeremy. If I were you I would drop both of them and find a new boy that doesn't make me cry or feel bad but makes me feel good and I have fun with! Hope that helps a bit but really the decision is yours! Juss protect your heart! Much Love!
]
More Questions: |