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Hey, I'm Ariana . I like giving advice and a lot of my friends say I'm good at it. They always come to me if they have a problem and need some good advice. I won't give you any of that petty advice like "look at the bright side." I mean really, that's wack. I hate when people tell me that. I'll give you honest advice that hopefully will get you on the path that leads to the right decision. I'm not going to sugarcoat anything. I'm going to give you straight advice. It might not be what you want to hear, but that's advice. Take it or leave it, it's totally up to you.I would love it if you would give me feedback/rate my answers so I know how I am doing, if I helped you out. Even if it's negative! It will tell me what I need to work on.
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i keep hitting my boyfriend when he pisses me off i dont just slap him i smack him in the head and hit him in the balls
am i in the wrong
he treats me bad and he says he will kill himself if i leave him
what should i do
im 14 he is 17
1st of all you guys shouldn't be hitting eachother because it will get serious one day and you guys are really going to get hurt . He should say that because your only 14 you need to live life your way and if you want to leave him go ahead you have the right to be happy . You need to take charge and stand up for what you believe in ! PRO-WOMEN CHOICE
Okay! Im 14 and my Question is Why are parents so over protecting Girls but not boys? I mean of course Im going to like boys. I can't help that.
Parents dont want there little girls to grow up to soon and have a boyfriend . The dont want to see us get hurt but they need to understand that we need to have some freedom and we need to have fun and be happy . They dont want us to get crushed and see us cry over a guy . Just let your parent know that you want a boyfriend and just give you space because your growing up !
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okay see im 14 and i been hooking up wit this kid whos 18 and we always do things like he fingers me alot and he popped my cherry but i kno that we can neverr really be a couple because of our age difference but i dont really dont care i like doing things with him soo i jus continue to do itt .. is thatt badd???
This is most def not good . Your under age but if you really like this boy just tell your mom and just tell her he respeacts me . If you dont tell her or any gurdian he will get introuble . Just ask her permission and tell you understand how risky this is for the him with the cops . Or you can just keep it on the low and just keep doing what you doing : ]
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Ok so like am a Bisexual and i have this friend is bi-ish but like i really like her and i don't know what to say like i think she might like me back just by the things she says damn you look hot in that pic or somone asks about me and she says am tappin that @$$ all night long or am taken and they ask by who and she says my name. But like when me and her talk about it shes like i just don't want to hurt me and hers friendship andcause we are really close and i want to say i like her A LOT but i don't want to hurt our friendsheip so should i tell her just to have it out in the open or just bottle it up?
i have had sex with girl but she hasn't but she has make out with girl cause she is like making out is making out
You need to tell because maybe you guys can go out and last forever . Just sit down with her girl to girl and tell I understand you dont to mess up or friendship but I like you alot and tell her you'll understand if she doen't feel the same . But you should really tell her you never know you might be suprised : ]
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I'm 15 years old, and I've never had a boyfriend. However, I know this really awesome guy, and I just know I have a crush on him. However, my friends and my family don't like him that much. They don't hate him, but they don't like him, either. What should I do?
Just why they don't like him . There has to be a reason why they dont seem to dislike him . Its probley the fact that you have a boyfriend . Just ask and see what they say if its something silly or untrue then ask them why they feel that way or just tell them that he is really a nice guy : ]
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How do i get over my ex-boyfriend when he is also a really close friend and always around because he is friends with all the same people as me.
You just can't get over him and you were with him all the time ! I went through the same thing . You have to know why you guys broke up in the first place and if he wants to be just friends its really upsetting and hard . You just have to try and move on . You can try by talking to another boy and it will help get him of your mind . Just know that he's happy so be happy for him . Maybe he'll come back because he'll feel epmytness because your not around like that anymore .
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Im 13/f. Iknow it sounds whorish but im with a guy ive known forever and were having sex. Hes 15 and he lost his virginity to me about 2 months ago. When im giving him blow jobs and/or handjobs it takes him a while to cum. But sex, on the other hand....he cums too fast. He goes slow and hard so he wont 'lose control' too fast, but sometimes i just NEED more than that, and i make him speed up and so snd so....but he doesnt really like condoms, so he ALWAYS pulls out ahead of time, [were safe and careful though.] I just want to know, how I can still get my little extra 'fun/pleasure' and make him last! PLEASE HELP ME! Thanks.
-Kayla.
This is normal all guys ejculate quicker when you have sex fast and hard . Just let him ejculate the first time and wait a while then have sex again because all men/ guys ejcualate quick the first ejcualtion . So dont worry its normal but the 2nd time you he goes back in there it will take longer for him to ejcualte !
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Im a female 15.
My ex is a male also 15.
We recently broke up for something really stupid. So stupid that I have no clue why we broke up. He pretty much said I was bringing his grades down, and that I wasnt the girl that he liked because ive changed a lot and then after blaming everything on me, he said, im sorry... its not you, its me.
We went out for 5 months and I like him a lot. And this time im not going out with a guy because of looks, but because he is who he is. And im a really pretty girl, once guys found out i was single again they went crazy. Not ugly ones, but cute guys, But the only guy I like is HIM. Does anyone know some advice so that I could get him back, or how to forget about him ?
Thanks in advance.
This guy doesn't seem the type you should be with ! If you get back with him what else is he going to blame on you . You have to be with a guy that makes you smile and makes you feel good about your self . His grades and other stuff are his bussiness . Its his fault there low . Honestly girl get out there and be with someone worth wild . You live life once so move on and be happy sista : ]
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Ok, so when I flirt with a guy, sometimes I likke make fun of them for like stupid stuff. & I'm not sure if they like it or not. Do guys like it when girls are nice and happy all the time? or what? I'm so confused with everything.
Sometimes its good to flirt but don't make them feel crappy . Just tell how cute they are and some boys like that kind of talk . Most guys will not take it as flirting some will . Just keep it cool and be smooth
17/f. I recently started having sex with my boyfriend with condoms, and we decided I should go on birth control. I got it from my local Planned Parenthood and realized it was making me moody and crazy. This could have just been my body getting used to it, but I decided to stop taking it after a week and a half. I still have two packs left that I could use if I want, but I'm afraid of getting moody again.
Should I continue to just use condoms? Is it safe enough, or should I take the pills just incase, even though they might change my personality a little bit?
I take birth control pills it does make you moody at the first two months . Listen just take the pill and always you a condom because birth control prevents being pregnet only 75 % and use a condom to prevent any std's or sti's and If you get really moody tell your boyfriend that the pills give you mood swings so he has a clue why you act different .
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I dont know why but i think i may be losing my friendships with my friends. A lot of my friends aren't talking to me anymore and when i try to talk, they ignore me. This never happened before and i dont know why or how this started. It started a few months ago in my freshman year at high school and just keeps increasing with more friends as time goes on. Many of the friends i had before are now just acting different around me. They seem to dislike me and keep distance with me. If i try to talk, they just say nothing. I dont know what to do and im scared about this situation. They used to text me, talk all the time, and we used to hang out and now its stopped. Whenever i try to hang out with them, they are always with the other people there and if i try to talk they just answer and get back to the other kids. I feel really depressed and i dont know why this is happening. They act like they dont like me when i'm around and even ignore me. They act like i'm invisible or as if i'm not there. I need advice on this and want to get back to how everything was before. I dont know what is wrong with me, or why they are like how they are. I really want to fix this so please give any advice you have.
Listen its hard in High School everyone goes through this . Your not alone people lose friends everyday . You say you have more friends everyday maybe your acting differnt and your friends like the old you . Or its just the fact they knew you first and longer and they don't want to to forget about them . You have to try and talk to them if they don't want to talk just say "Hey I talk and you just listen !" its simple as that . If they don't seem to care or understand how you feel then maybe there aren't really good friends . Because good friends try and work their friendship out. Like I said before your probely doing somthing different then your normally doing . Just try and talk with them and see if it works out and if it doesn't you have a lot of other friends .
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so my best friend and brother just started dating. i hate that so much! i cant be a bad friend to her though and say how i really feel about them. i just dont want to lose her because everytime we are together she is texting him and they are in the same house and she wants to go to his room to be with him when we are supposed to be having "best friend time" however everytime they are together she never texts me or even splits her time between us. she promised me he would never ever take her away from me but i feel like he already is..what should i do?
Listen don't worry . Just sit down with the both of them and tell them how you feel . If you feel upset at the fact your friend is ditching you for your bff then talk to you brother . If your friend is really your bff then she can give him space and be with you at times . I know sometimes you feel left out maybe you can talk to a guy and go on a double date and you guys can all hang out together . So your bff can be with her boyfriend and you at the same time .But honestly just talk it out with them . They should care how you feel because ones family and ones a bff .
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Me and ex are both 17 and seinors in high school! We had been going out for 3 years and two months until one day on Christmas eve when we were giving each other presents, she said she does not love me like she used to and we should just be friends. I had no idead it was coming and it hit me like a trian. We were perfect for each other, we did everyting together for 3 years and she just decided she does not want to be with me. Whats killing me indside is I think it was my fault that she stopped loving me. I wasent myself the past couple months before we broke up. I started to take her for granted and stop doing nice things a boyfriend should do. I blamed everything that went wrong on her, and that will make anyone fall out of love. About a month after Christmas we went to the same party and i did horrible things. I walked around the party threating to kill any guy that would talk to her. two days later we went out for breakfast where i gave her a letter telling her how i feel. she said i would have to get use to her seeing other people. Now i cant get anything done, im doing bad in school, i cant ever sleep for more then an hour or so and this pain has to stop. Now i know we could fall back in love, but i dont know what to do to get there. I am trying sooo hard but nothing i seem to do is working. I feel like it is up to me to get love starting again. She is my dream girl and i really dont want to let her go. We loved each other so much and its my fault she stopped. She meet me for lunch today and it was a little weird, but overall we had a good time. She said we cant just meet like this every weekend. I just dont want to give up hope that we can be together some day because we loved each other so much. What can i do to make this pain go away????????
Listen its not your fault that she stopped being in love . You cant control what she thinks and how she feels . You cant only control your self . And yes maybe you could of calmed down for those couple of months you guys were together . Maybe she need some time to think about her decsion maybe shell come back
Hi, My bestfriend started going out with my brother ablut 2 years ago and he broke up with her three weeks ago because he had trust issues with her and because of the way she was treating him, which i wasn't aware of until now. He told me everything about how she's always rude and makes him feel that he can't trust her with all her stories she tells him everyday after work about all the guys that asks her out and give her flowers and even ask to have sex with her..he has talked to her about the issues they had and about how she would'nt stop txtn alott of guys and not to mention talk to them on her cell phone and when she does she goes to a corner or hide from him while talk to them on her phone, which i think is really dodgy on her part. She deliberately tries to make him jealous and to the point of him breaking up with her, she played to many mind games and he could'nt tell the truth from a lie when she's talking. but to cut it short..when he broke up with her she used me to try and get him back and asking me for advice, which was hard for me since it's my brother that she went out with. I told her to ask him for one more chance to prove to him how much she loves him and that she'll change, but at the same time, my brother was telling me to tell her to get over it that he doesn't wanna be with her anymore,and called her a lier and that he is over her. that put me in the middle and i hate taking sides, that was until recently i found out she punches and hits him when she doesn't get her way with him, that just made things even more hard. I have stopped hanging out with her but she still txts me. I really wanna tell her off about her attitude and about the way she treated my brother but i don't know how..What should I do??
i think that you shouldnt yell at her even though thats your brother and she hurt him by cheating on him. Family comes first I know but what happened between your friend and your brother is between them . Just let him deal with her on his own .
i dated this guy for almost 9 months. he ended it with me last saturday and i was completely devestated. he said that he doesn't have that "spark" anymore but he still loves me "more than a friend but enough to be in a relationship with" and he wants to hang out alot over the summer and still be really close friends and he said that fate will take it from there and if its meant to be blahblah...so my question is do feelings really change like that? and can i do anything this summer to help get them back? like maybe take him to the place we first hung out? idk help pleasee.
17/f
Just have him on the side ; and just talk to other boys . If fate brings you guys back together then you guys are ment to be . Just let time take it . I understand that you want to be with him but just take a break he'll come back soon dont worry
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Alright here's the deal.
My boyfriend (16) and I (15) recently took a break from each other because I found him too clingy. It has been nearly a week, and.. let's call him chuckNow chuck thinks were dating again. But we are not. I've tried talking to him but it doesn't work. He has my name in his MSN name again, and is telling everyone were back on, I usually have no problem with confrontation, but in this case, I simply cannot tell him were not dating. Now I've sent him a e-mail telling him were not dating,
but I don't know if he'll get the message in time and i don't want him to be to hurt..
Any advice you can provide will help a lot, i am sure..
Thank you so much in advancw (:
Sincerly
CueTheLights.
It may hurt you by breaking his heart but its the only way to completly end you guys . Dont just say were not going out . Just explain to him exactly what and how you feel about it . Maybe he'll understand
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Okay so i was in a relationship with this guy and he was so sweet he was funny amazingly cute and would always make me happy and he told me he loves me,But we met online and i really liked him,but he just stopped getting online and i don't no if i should call him,But now im in a relationship with this other guy and hes really sweet and caring but no really cute and likes to talk to me,but i don't no if im just with him cause the way he acts reminds me of my ex,Please help me,What do i do?
Just forget about your ex he is in the past now . Just move on to the new guy your talking to . Its not always about the looks . If the new boy your talking to really makes a differents to your heart ; if makes you happy and he is sweet then talk to him .
My ex is talkinto me alot i ask her if she loves me she says yes and she says she is going to break up with her boyfriend for me and of course i love her and i wanna be with her but she is leaving him for me and because hes a jerk and i dont want her to get hurt bye me i love her to much pleae help me!!!
Look if you really love the girl you should let her come back .But you shouldnt rush you should take it slow . If you really dont want to break her heart tell her to really think about her decsion .
see my bestfriend meet a guy and she has falln in love with this guy and i mean in the begining things were goin great but then out the bkue one day we found out he has been texting our other best friend (at the time the other best friend didint knw about her) so we set him up and when we al pop up together he looks really stupid but anyways he ends up act n funny after the whole thing goes dwon so im jus sayn should she stay or should she go but keep in mind that she is so in love with him
She needs to know that if he really loves her back he wouldn’t want to hurt her . She needs to talk to him about that problem and see why he’s talkinq to other girls. Its hard to love some one who doesn’t care about how you feel I understand how she feels. But sometimes you have to try and let go . If he loves her he will change for her and understand that he is hurtinq her but talkinq to other girls and flirting or what ever he is doing .
p.s tell me what happens .