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my boyfriend
i keep hitting my boyfriend when he pisses me off i dont just slap him i smack him in the head and hit him in the balls
am i in the wrong
he treats me bad and he says he will kill himself if i leave him
what should i do
im 14 he is 17
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1st of all you guys shouldn't be hitting eachother because it will get serious one day and you guys are really going to get hurt . He should say that because your only 14 you need to live life your way and if you want to leave him go ahead you have the right to be happy . You need to take charge and stand up for what you believe in ! PRO-WOMEN CHOICE <--We have to stand up for our selves : ]
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Both you and your boyfriend need to grow up. You should not be hitting him the way that you do because I'm sure you'd hate it if someone did that to you so do not do it to him.
Your boyfriend also sounds suicidal and very dependent on you. That isn't safe either. I don't think either of you should be in a relationship.
He needs to figure out his priorities and see a therapist. You need to keep your hitting under control because other people won't take your shit and will hit you back. Learn to respect them before you date them because it's likely that you have no respect for this kid.
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You are still very young, you still have a lot of growing up to do and hitting your boyfriend is wrong. No matter what age you are.
If he treats you bad, you should not be with him.
I suggest you talk to him maturaly and tell him whats bothering you. Tell him that you do not like being treated the way he treats.
Tell him that you realise hitting him is immature and it wont happen again but at the same time he needs to make an effort in treating you how you should be treated.
As for him telling you that he will kill himself if you break up with him, he sounds like he's trying to make you feel like you can't break up with him which is also wrong. He needs help if that's the case.
You are your own person, no one can make you do something you don't want to. These days there is only one person you can depend on... Yourself!!!!
If your not happy, do youself a favour and break it off. If you want to be with your boyfriend then you need to talk to him. Communication is the key.
Hope I helped :)
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It's wrong of you to hit him just because he makes you angry. People in life are going to make you angry, and hitting them is going to do nothing but cause more problems. You said that he treats you bad though, and there was no elaboration, so I don't know exactly what you're referring to. If you feel that he treats you bad, he's threatening suicide, and you're getting physical with each other; it's time to end this relationship. You're only fourteen and it's not healthy to get into a relationship that seems to be such a stresser. It's not your responsibility to keep him from killing himself. You're only one person and if he's got a deathwish, you're probably not going to be able to stop it. If you feel that he really will hurt himself, try talking to your parents, his parents, his friends, or a school counselor. Anyone that can talk to him and see what the problem is. If he is suicidal, he needs to go to a therapist to see what the root of the problem is.
Darby(:
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