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Boyfriend Trouble


Question Posted Monday May 18 2009, 3:39 pm

Im a female 15.
My ex is a male also 15.
We recently broke up for something really stupid. So stupid that I have no clue why we broke up. He pretty much said I was bringing his grades down, and that I wasnt the girl that he liked because ive changed a lot and then after blaming everything on me, he said, im sorry... its not you, its me.
We went out for 5 months and I like him a lot. And this time im not going out with a guy because of looks, but because he is who he is. And im a really pretty girl, once guys found out i was single again they went crazy. Not ugly ones, but cute guys, But the only guy I like is HIM. Does anyone know some advice so that I could get him back, or how to forget about him ?
Thanks in advance.


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Sami143 answered Tuesday May 19 2009, 11:55 am:
Well think about it this way. School is out soon, summer is here, forget your ex and have fun. Thats the best part about summer is having fun and messing around. You can go to one party and kiss one guy and then the next night kiss another guy just for the heck of it and no one can say anything because you have a boyfriend. I know that it will be hard but keep yourself busy with other guys, flirt a lot and just live life. Your 15 im sorry but your probably not going to spend the rest of your life with your ex so i say dont worry about it. I know its easier said than done but if you keep occupied it will be a lot easier. Hope i helped =]

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latinabbyx321 answered Monday May 18 2009, 7:12 pm:
This guy doesn't seem the type you should be with ! If you get back with him what else is he going to blame on you . You have to be with a guy that makes you smile and makes you feel good about your self . His grades and other stuff are his bussiness . Its his fault there low . Honestly girl get out there and be with someone worth wild . You live life once so move on and be happy sista : ]

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Trauma answered Monday May 18 2009, 4:00 pm:
This guy doesn't sound like someone you should be with. To me, it seems like he can't take responsibility for things that go wrong in his life, so he wants to blame them on whoever's closest. If I were you, I wouldn't get back with him. I know you may think about him a lot, it's normal. But you're young. You may not want to believe this, but you will get over him eventually. I've gone through the same thing. I thought I'd never love again, but I did. It just takes time. As for the guy you're dating, if you're still having feelings for your ex, it's not really fair to him. It may be best for you to just take a break from relationships for a little while to give yourself time to have fun & get over your feelings for your ex.

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