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i like older guys and i think its bad
okay see im 14 and i been hooking up wit this kid whos 18 and we always do things like he fingers me alot and he popped my cherry but i kno that we can neverr really be a couple because of our age difference but i dont really dont care i like doing things with him soo i jus continue to do itt .. is thatt badd???
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Yeah that's pretty bad ? he's only using you i doubt he'd wanna be with you he just enojoys the ride.
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It is NOT good and you probably have the reputation of being a whore. Sorry to break the news.
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This is most def not good . Your under age but if you really like this boy just tell your mom and just tell her he respeacts me . If you dont tell her or any gurdian he will get introuble . Just ask her permission and tell you understand how risky this is for the him with the cops . Or you can just keep it on the low and just keep doing what you doing : ]
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Well, it's definitely not good. Not only is it illegal, but it's not good for your mental health or reputation. This guy should be graduating high school and you should just be getting in. If he's not trying to pursue a relationship with you, you can assume he's using you for sexual purposes.
If your parents or the cops get wind of this, you can guarantee he's going to get into trouble with the law. You may think you like doing that stuff now, but how are you going to feel when he gets a girlfriend his own age? Are you going to feel like you've been used or are you just going to move along?
Put simply, it's just a bad thing to get started. People at your school will find out, if they don't know already. All the girls will be angry with you (for whatever reason) and call you names. And the guys are going to think you're easy and not respect you.
If this is what you want to do, so be it. But to answer your question, it is bad and you'll see how bad it is when he gets in trouble with the law or your parents find out about it.
Darby
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This most certainly will not be the answer you're seeking, but I feel I should provide you with advice anyway.
I'm sure you know that if your parents find out (or someone else) and call the police he could go to jail for a considerable amount of time.
There is always someone you're own age or younger than 18 that will be interested in you. It's not a crime to like older guys. It's just wise to wait until you're 18 to act on it, because it can cause major drama for both parties. Say you start to really like him, he won't/technically can't commit and your heart gets broken? What then?
Get considerable experience in relationships (whether they be romantic or not) before you go out with the "big dogs."
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That's bad.
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