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My boyfriend wants me to have sex with him. I don't think I'm ready... see he's not pressuring me, but he wants me to... I can tell. It's gunna be my first time (if i do do it) could anyone give me any tips (gross i know, sorry) on what to do?
*Thank you<33
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I may not be the right person to help you with this question because I lost my virginity when I was 13 years old, yeah I know really early. But I don't regret it. I wasn't pressured and if you don't want to have sex then tell him he will respect that and if he doesn't then he was just using you. If you do have sex, have protected sex because I learned the head way. Good Luck!
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If you aren't ready, even the LEAST bit, then don't do it. If you aren't ready for it then you will feel guilty, invaded, & gross about it for a while. Just simply tell him no. If he's a good boyfriend, he will be okay with it, and you guys can wait until you are ready. But, personally, I would wait until marriage.
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First off, do you want to do this? If not, then why ask for umm, pointers?
Anyways, I don't know how old you are or anything, so i'm afraid to say to much. But I was fourteen when I lost my virginity. (i'm just fifteen now.) And even though I was young, I knew, & still know that I was ready. But everyone becomes ready at different ages & if you are having any doubts what so ever, then I wouldn't consider having sex just yet. There are many other things that you & your boyfriend can do that can express your feeling towards each other. And if you are ready to have sex, then there's not many tips I can give you. Except that it hurts like hell the first time - yikes.
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Hi there :]
Well everyone below me has given very good advice and I will continue and say don't do it if your not ready.
Im not really sure on what your asking. Tips on what to do? Im not sure I could help you there unless you send me an email. (check in profile)
If you do decide to have sex with him then make sure you are relaxed and ready. Make sure to use a condom, or pills, sponge, etc.
Good luck and if you need anymore advice then just let me know in my inbox :]
-Shelby♥
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Don't do it if you aren't ready! I know most people regret not having waited, so really think it through before you make any decisions.
I hope you know that if your guy gets mad at you for not doing it, then you should leave him. A good boyfriend would respect your desicions.
Good luck :]
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If you don't think you're ready.. DON'T DO IT. It is definatly not worth having sex unless you are with someone you love & you are ready, because it's an awful experience. It's painful & people tend to get very nervous. I'd wait.
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Make sure you love him, and MAKE SURE HE LOVES YOU!!!! if you dont love eachother the first time its gonne be REALLY hard to cope with later. My first time I really loved him but he didnt love me. and I didnt see it before I thought he did and he didnt so that broke my heart into a million & 1 pieces!!
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Hi, Well done for asking this sort of question, it must have took some courage.I pressume you mean how to have sex. Its just a matter of humping your genital area onto his genital area and moving back and forward until you feel pleasure. Maybe you could try other sex such as Oral. Remember its your body and you decide who touches it. Daniel.
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Alright everyone here has given good advice. I just want to say two things:
Do not do it if you are not ready because you will regret it and it's not something you can take back.
Don't use the condoms at Planned Parenthood I have talked to many girls who say they have broken numerous times.
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We can't give sex tips here or we will get banned. There are a lot of 13 year old users and it is a legal issue.
I can give you a site that will help you decide
if you are ready for sex or not. And another with just some good to know info on it. :)
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I know a way you can find out if your boyfriend really loves you, and remove any pressure you're feeling to have sex with him, all in one swoop.
Tell your boyfriend that you have decided you don't want to have sex until you are married.
#1: Once he knows that, you don't have to feel pressured about it.
#2: If he leaves you or tries to talk you out of it, you know he was just hanging around waiting to use you, and he didn't really love you. A man who really loves you will wait for marriage (mine did!).
Kills two birds with one stone. ;-)
If you have sex with him, you will never know if he really loves you. Remember a LOT of guys will lie for sex, so just because he says something, doesn't mean it's true! Especially if it leads to him getting sex.
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To have sex or not? It's probably one of the most important decisions you'll ever make. This choice can change your life. It can bring both happiness and unhappiness and, in some cases, engage you in serious decisions and possible, lifelong consequences. if you still feel ready for sex, get protection. You need to use condoms to protect against sexually transmitted infections and birth control to protect against pregnancy. You can visit a family planning clinic to learn more about your birth control options and to get condoms. To find a clinic near you, call Planned Parenthood at 800-230-PLAN, visit their website at www.plannedparenthood.org And in answering your question about wanting tips, I can think of a few but only 1 that seem's to be the best... The secret word for great sex is spontaneity. Be spontaneous and don't plan everything out or pencil it in for an appointment!
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If you are not ready, don't do it. Just be honest with him and let him know that you are not ready yet. If he truly cares about you, not just how you can pleasure him, he will understand. Remember, saying no and waiting is never wrong. You can always change your mind in the future. Not doing something you are not sure you are ready for eliminates the possibility of regret. If you do decide to go through with it, remember to use protection.
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well like truly..if your like below 16 dont do it if your not ready bc like yu could get any type of disease and it could really be bad or yu could get pregnant which is horroble bc i bet ur still really young..but like if yu really want to and yu think your ready jst make sure yu have a condom..and brong extra just in case bc it could break..
<33 hope I helped
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