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My Dad has a great job oppurtunity that he just accepted & that means I have to move about 14 hours away. Don't get me wrong, I'm really happy & kind of excited to get a chance to start over but I'm kind of scared. I've never moved before... I just started at a new high school this year as a freshman but I had a lot of people I knew around me. I don't know what to do! I've worn uniforms to school my whole life & next year I'll be at public school...I have no idea how I would dress! Can someone relate or help me out? I'm 15, female, soon to be sophomore. I'm moving to the Princeton, NJ area. Thanks! (link)
well it doesnt realy matter what yu wear..but if your like a tombo yu can wear like shorts and a shirt and snap pants but if your like a girly girly a skirt and a shirt and jeans.

im at a catholic school...i have been my whole life..so i am not lik for sure what to wear.sorry


hi,
well i hadnt got my periods for quiet some time.. and i was then told to take the home pregnancy test.. i did that..and the result was negative.. i actually landed up getting my periods after 15days ...
all i wanted to know is.... should i try the test again after my periods are over...
and what time should i take it..i had taken the first test early morning..coz ive heard the early morning urine is the best... well can i take it any time of the day or so? do lemme know..
thanks (link)
well if yu had sex there is a chance yu may be pregnant but otherwise the pregnancy thingy is probally rightt


i've had a crush on this guy for what feels like forever. he seems perfect for me and he flirts with me. he's really nice and really like him. i wish we could go out but both of us are extremely shy about that and so i don't know what to do. if i don't tell him how i feel i'll feel like i'll never be able to tell him. what can i do? (link)
just act casual and talk to him...its just a guy hes not big of deal..just go up to him with guts and flirt with him..tust me sooner or later he will think yu are mazing and ask yu out..but he wont ak yu out if yu never confront him


thers this guy, who i kinda kind get my eye off of, well i want to hang out with him soooo bad, but i just dont know where to go or how to ask him, and just make it normal? if it helps im a 14/f and hanging out at my place of his is not an option. and im from Salem...so ya any ideas help... thanx

-Me (link)
just be like soo if yu dont have any plans tongith or this weeknd maybe would could hang out or something and hang out with some friends too..ifyu wantt


my friend gave me her e-mail and her password
because she has no internet in her house. does she trust me or what? sometimes she goes online if she can. (link)
i think that yu need to be loyal and not do anything that yu would regret or like that she would get mad at yu about bc if she gave yu that info she absolutely trusts yu


whats leading them on means? is that also means a player?

im from jamaica (link)
leading them on kinda means like they want yu and they are leading yu on to do soemthing..



Whats the best way to get over my shyness and ask this girl I like out? How can I make it easier on myself? She plays hard to get. (link)
umm talk to her more and just be urself..girls hate fakes..just take the goos with the bad if she says no.it will hurt..and girls love playing hard to get even tho they love yu..they think its kool



How do swimsuit models get their stomachs so flat, like is that like having tight abs or is it just that they dont have any fat in that area. is it because they workout by running or crunches?

thanks (link)
truly i think they are anerexic..bc they re all so tall and skinnyy...



I am 13 years old and me and my bf have been datinf for about 8 months. I started my period and I get so cranky. I don't know if he thinks im mad at him or what. Should i tell him tha I started or do you think that he might want to take the next step.

thanks,

Jordan (link)
truly i think yu need to tell him. bc yu have been going out with him for 8 months so i think he will understand. but i dont think he will understand if you dont tell him. even tho when girls start they dont want anyone to know well i think you should just tell ur bf and then he will understand that ur on yur period and nothing else is bothering yu.



My friend is 13 and ran half a mile in 5 mins and 13 seconds. Is that slow, regular, or fast? (link)
well idk..bc like i can run a half a mile in like 3 or 4 min. but this might be her way of running...i would say regular i guess


ok so a few days ago i caught my almost 16 yr old brother looking at porn on the internet...and he caught me spying on him. and i promised to him i wouldnt tell cuz god only knows what my parents would do... so idk what to do like is this normal .. it probably is but what should i do its just kinda freaky ....
help! (link)
truly everyone has an urge..i bet yu will get one sooner or later..dont worry about about it. seriously theres nothing yu could really do.just let it go


Ok, So I am 13 years old and since May 2005, I have found myself madly in love with no other than a 20 year old McDonalds worker. He has started to open up a little more in the past couple of months, and he gives me lots of hugs, flirts, and shows all the "signs" of love back. Yet he has never told me. This week we are supposed to go to the movies. My question is, Should I open up and tell him I love him or should I just wait until he does? (link)
your 13 and hes 20..thats against the law..dont do anything..


I am not huge but I have a little fat around my stomach and thighs, and I have love handles. I never wear tight shirts and I feel weird in swim suits. I really would love to make my love handles smaller and my thighs that is my main goal. I have been working pretty hard but it seems like even though I am eating more healthy and working out more than I ever have, I am just gaining weight! I do situps every day and I play sports every once in awhile but the main reason for my weight gain is that I am taking Seasonal, birth control pill, and it makes you gain weight easily. I am 14 and I have always been so small but recently I gain weight so easily. I eat healthy every once in awhile but I still LOVE my junk food. I try my hardest to cut back and I wish I could still eat the way I do and lose weight. With that said I am going to have to work extra hard and excercise twice as much because of the pill and my not-so-good eating habits. Now that you know about me, what I need help with is how do I lose weight quickly and how do I lose a lot without making myself miserable? Please help me. I keep gaining more and more weight and it makes me so sad! Thanks. (link)
running is really good for your body..bc yu sweat and which that helps lose fat in your body.. ill try to think of more..



I've been waking up say 5 or 3 in the morning for the past few nights.

I don't even know why, it's so weird.
I usually wake up with my covers kicked off my bed.

I don't remember having a nightmare or dream or anything. I don't know why this is happening?

Any ideas on why it's happening and how to prevent it? 5 stars to anyone who helps! (link)
like ppl do really weird things in their sllepp..they talk they can even do anything andnot even rember anything he next morning..yu can also like be flipped the other way..in your sleep yu dont really know whats going on so dont really wory about it..just go along with it..your like half dead when ur asleeep


OK, what does it mean when a grown man has naked barbie dolls in his apt. with their hands & feet tied & tape over their mouths? (link)
that just sounds weird


I use Ban brand deodorant, which is supposed to be a good quality brand Im told, but I still sweat under there. I put it on once in the morning, but it wont work all day. I was wondering if there is a "magical" deodorant that stays on all day and works great. I also dance, so I need one thats strong. I cant seem to find the deodorant that is right for me. Maybe there are some other ways to stop the sweating. Thanks for the help! (link)
well there is this really good smelling stuff but i dont know what it called..secret i guess..
or if yu like carry a purse around yu coukl like oput it in there and when yu feel yu need more just go in the bathroom and put some more on..



(13/F)

I'm going to my school's graduation ceremony on Thursday (I'm not graduating, just coming to watch) and I don't know how to wear my hair. I'm wearing a strapless dress, but I'm wearing a long-sleeved shrug/sweater thing over it. My hair is moderately dark, brown-purple (I dyed it), medium-long, thick, and a little wavy. I need a hairstyle that's very easy to do, will stay for a few a hours, and doesn't take much product. I'm considering just wearing my hair down and doing side bangs, but I'd rather do something more interesting.

Thanks in advance! (link)
umm well i wish i knew yu bc i love playing with ppls hair.
well if theres cute guys there yu wanna kinda get their attention well heres 2 idea that would would be pretty cutee... i like this one better..
kay well you can like do a half head where yu just take the top of your hair ( above the ears) and just put thst uinto a ponytail. and yu can do no bangs or bangs..yu can do some curls to it or straghten itt..i think that might would look really cute..
or yu can put it lik down and put it to the side a little and yu can bread it or just wear it in a ponytil..but like do it loose and mayb have bangs down or do a little twist with ur bangs and put them back with clips or bobbypins.. i think yu will look cutee..



Out of all my friends if you were to ask them about me when were hanging out with our "whole group" guys and girls that im shy. i dont do it on purpose its just how i am i wish i wasnt like that. because all i hear about is how this friend hooked up with his friend but its never me. i mean im not into the whole hooking up thing but i mean i would if i liked the guy but im to shy to even get into that. i feel like im the good girl because when we do things i always make sure were not going to get into trouble. I bothers me all the time that im the way i am. they do know this, should i talk to like my close girl friends about it next time its just us together.. like how im always shy and dont know how to get over it. i hate it so much i dont know how to explain it. what should i do about it? anything i could do to "break out of my shell"??





p.s. my sister plays travel soccer where they travel to places obviously to play and theres this girl on her team whos brother was at a tournement this past weekend(only to one game though) and i saw him at the begining of the game and i dont know i wasnt like attracted by his looks nessisarily but like it was a feeling like "wow i want to talk to him and meet him" but because im so shy i didnt talk to him. he kinda saw me at the begining too i think but he was with his dad and went down to sit with him, but like after the game too the team was having their like "after game meeting" and he was looking like in my direction im not sure if he was really looking at me if you know what i mean but i hope he was. i dont know what to think what if wasnt looking at me i would feel like an idiot if i just went and talked to him and he had no intrest in talking to me at all. i really want to talk to him but i dont know how to not make it awkward. i know nothing about him other than his sister is on the team. they have a game tomorrow and im going to go to see if hes there but i have no idea what to do. (link)
I really think it' time to break out of your shell, because you can not saty the goody miss too shes forever! if all your friends are doing stuff I think its time you start to too! Well I dont really care about getting in trouble but like I dont want too eitherr! But like if you dont want to get in trouble its time that yu do something bad for once. I mean like if you always make sure your not gona get in trouble thats kinda rediculous..sory but like everybody once or even a million times will egt in troule uin their life time.

and about the boy..dont be shy anymore. sorry to say this but just get the nerve to talk to him, hang out with him until he really knows yu. bc he wontdo anything or say anything to yu until he really knows who yu actually are.



Sorry if this is long.

I dated a guy (We'll call him X) a few years ago. For me, it was fantastic. I loved him very much. I've dated alot of guys since him but I've never felt that connection with anyone else.

We broke up. It was just too serious, too fast and we were too young.

All of a sudden, he pops back into my life (we're both in college now) and everything is completely crazy! I feel as though nothing has changed inside me as far as my feelings for him go.

We hugged that first day for a long time (we hadn't talked for years). He put his face in my neck, rubbed my back. Later when we talked he told me I'd gotten really pretty and kind of played with my hair a bit.

***He knows I'm seeing someone. He was seeing someone then too.***

Anyway, now we keep in touch through letters as he's away right now. I just can't tell if he feels the same about me or if he doesn't.

He says he still thinks about me and wonders if I'm happy. He's said I'm still very special to him. After that first day we talked, he came back to tell me that he'd thought of me that entire day but didnt know if it was a good thing or a bad thing.

I know he's in a place right now where he can't have a relationship. I can't make a move because of that. He needs to be HERE for me to do that.

But I just don't know. I don't know if he still feels something for me or if I'm just imaging it all because I have feelings for him. I don't know if maybe he's holding off too for the same reasons that I am.

What do you think? (link)
I really think that he still has feelings for because he keeps doing all that. I don't think your imaginging it, I think it's really true!



The past few days ive noticed that a lot of people writs love and hate on their knuckles...what does this mean and is it bad? (link)
sorry i dont know..ive never heARD THAT BEFORE




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