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How to tell her


Question Posted Thursday May 21 2009, 2:43 am

Ok so like am a Bisexual and i have this friend is bi-ish but like i really like her and i don't know what to say like i think she might like me back just by the things she says damn you look hot in that pic or somone asks about me and she says am tappin that @$$ all night long or am taken and they ask by who and she says my name. But like when me and her talk about it shes like i just don't want to hurt me and hers friendship andcause we are really close and i want to say i like her A LOT but i don't want to hurt our friendsheip so should i tell her just to have it out in the open or just bottle it up?

i have had sex with girl but she hasn't but she has make out with girl cause she is like making out is making out


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latinabbyx321 answered Thursday May 21 2009, 10:05 am:
You need to tell because maybe you guys can go out and last forever . Just sit down with her girl to girl and tell I understand you dont to mess up or friendship but I like you alot and tell her you'll understand if she doen't feel the same . But you should really tell her you never know you might be suprised : ]


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Darby answered Thursday May 21 2009, 3:19 am:
It sounds like she's interested. I think you should tell her how you feel, but not all the way. You shouldn't bottle up your emotions, but you shouldn't go all out and say, "Yo! I like you A LOT!" You know what I'm saying? You want to make it casual while still getting your point across.
Tell her that lately you've been crushing on her a little bit. Don't make it seem like you're totally obsessed or like she's all you've been thinking about. Even if it's so, you don't want to damage your friendship by going too far with it.
You two have talked about it before and she's said that she doesn't want to hurt the friendship. Maybe she doesn't know how you really feel about her and she doesn't want to hurt the friendship by fully opening up about how she's feeling.
At any rate, just try to bring it up casually when you're together in private having a deeper conversation. Don't just spring it on her out of nowhere. Make sure that she gets that you do like her, but that you also understand that neither of you want to mess up the friendship.
By being open and leaving it as a sort of open-ended statement, she should feel more comfortable to at least talk about pursuing something more. Let her know that you care about your friendship and that no matter what, you're not going to stop being her friend.


Good luck

Darby(:

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