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Q: Hi i have a problem with under arm sweat. everytime i put on deodorant it makes my armpits smell bad and i sweat. i use that clinical strengh stuff and that works but i forget to put it on at night alot of the time. i could be in a cold room and my armpits would still sweat and nothing else. even when im freezing it sweats. all of my shirts have sweat marks on them! please help!! thank you. PS if anyone knows how to get the stain out of clothes that would be very nice of you to answer!! thank you!!

Hey, I can't answer this but I wanted to let you know.. Your not alone lol. I have this EXACT same problem! And I hate it! like jaslksjnfv bad. But where do you get the clinical protextion stuff from?

Q: k so this question probably goes out to a guy...
what is it that gets a guy hooked? or is there one thing that gets him hooked?....

Well the guy im talking too at the moment says that the thing he loves most about a girl,
Is that if she can be confident about herself and laugh at herself thats the only thing that matters like she could look at her possible worst but still have enough confidence to walk around in puvlic with her head held high.
P.s. He said looks dont hurt either. lol (:

-Ray (:

Q: okay im gonna make this as simple as i can. (i hope)

so theres this guy lets call him jake. me and him went out and broke up because he was pushing me to do things i didn't want to do. well he's been trying to get back with me. but i keep saying no. because honestly im not happy with him and im not gonna be with someone who im not happy with. well like i said he keeps trying to get with me. well the other night he calls me. and is like "i need a favor" im thinking something simple you know like borrow money something like that. but no. he says. "see my friend rodney needs a date to the dance" (were having a 8th grade dance at our school they call it the farewell dance.) okay but anyways i tell him no. because well first off. i dont know his friend. and i dont even know if im going. he keeps begging me and begging me. but still i tell him no. and i told him that if i was gonna go im gonna go with someone i at least know like this kid named...lets call him taylor. but thats a diff. situation that im gonna ask in another thingy. but anyways why is this guy jake gonna ask me to go with his friend when he's been trying to get with me for ohhh i dont know the past hmm THREE weeks. ugh i dont know. and im confused. im not gonna go with him or any of his friends. so i guess i just want to know why you think he did this??
i would say its a really stupid move!!!!!!
anyways please and thank you.
-cuttechick24

Well he obviously still likes you.
But i think its wrong that he was trying to get you to do things that you didnt want to do when you werent even happy with him.
And to me it looks like he is coming up with the stupidest reasons just to talk to you.
And if you want him to stop annoying you with the stupid stuff like with his friend just tell him stuff like how you dont like him talking to you and asking favors like that. And that if he did want to talk just to make it a normal friend to friend conversation.

Q: Lame,Yes I know,
but what does it mean when people say
they are "talking"?

I dont rlly know what it means :(

Please Help Me :)

Don't feel bad, I didn't know at first either.
But when people say they are "talking" it means they are like flirting and getting to know each other really good.
Like on the verge of dating (If everything works out well)

Q: hi, i'm a 19 yr. old female and i have a bit of a problem. i have these thick ankles that i'm self concious about. they're definitely not cankles because my ankles are still skinnier than my calves, but lets say my ankles are just a little thicker than most which i think is unusual. anyways, are there any exercises i could do to make them skinnier? my mom also has similiar ankles to mine but hers are a little more thicker if that helps with genetics or something. thank you for the advice in advance.

My friend has that! And her dad has it!
Its something passed done from genetics cause she went to the doctor about it and he told her that its just that the muscle in her ankle right there is bigger.
She says its from dancing but she was just born that way.

People always pick on her about it & if you wanna good excuse for it you could just say that you have stronger ankles and thats why they are bigger. Thats what my friend says.
Hope I helped.

-Ray. (:

Q: mk so first off i'm 17/f, and the guy i'm dating right now is 18. we go to the same school, he is a senior i'm a junior. for about the past 4-5 months he's had a crush on me.. we didnt really start talking that much until valentines when he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes. and ever since we just gradually started to talk and hang out more.. probably 2 months ago i realized i liked him back. he asked me to jr/sr banquet and i introduced him to my parents and brother. they all loved him. he's a really good guy, he has good morals, he's caring, trustworthy etc.. he seems to have it all together. he's like the perfect bf.. BUT here's my question.. some days i cant wait to see him..i'm so happy when i'm with him and just have fun.... then there's days like yesterday and today that i just dont feel the butterfly's. like i know i like him, but its like i'm not sure if i'd actually like to go out with him and be an exclusive couple.. the thing is my friends told me hes planning to ask me to be his gf sometime this weekend or next... and i need to know if these feelings are normal, or if i shouldnt go into a relationship w/ him. part of me thinks i'm just so used to having "bad boys" and he's not one. so part of me is bored, cuz theres no risk.. idk what to do.. PLEASE help. thanks in advance.

Okay, My friend was in this same situation.
Well she was always the one to sneak out and have that thrilling rush of dating a "Bad Boy".

Well she soon started to date this guy who was really nice like the guy above you are talking about. So she gave him a try ause she felt really good with him.
They have been lasting for almost 3 months now so i'd say its good to try something new every once in a while. But if you get bored you should try to lead him on to diffrent ways of doing things or you could be straight up and tell him you want a more exciting relationship.
Hope I helped!

-Ray. (: