okay im gonna make this as simple as i can. (i hope)
so theres this guy lets call him jake. me and him went out and broke up because he was pushing me to do things i didn't want to do. well he's been trying to get back with me. but i keep saying no. because honestly im not happy with him and im not gonna be with someone who im not happy with. well like i said he keeps trying to get with me. well the other night he calls me. and is like "i need a favor" im thinking something simple you know like borrow money something like that. but no. he says. "see my friend rodney needs a date to the dance" (were having a 8th grade dance at our school they call it the farewell dance.) okay but anyways i tell him no. because well first off. i dont know his friend. and i dont even know if im going. he keeps begging me and begging me. but still i tell him no. and i told him that if i was gonna go im gonna go with someone i at least know like this kid named...lets call him taylor. but thats a diff. situation that im gonna ask in another thingy. but anyways why is this guy jake gonna ask me to go with his friend when he's been trying to get with me for ohhh i dont know the past hmm THREE weeks. ugh i dont know. and im confused. im not gonna go with him or any of his friends. so i guess i just want to know why you think he did this??
i would say its a really stupid move!!!!!!
anyways please and thank you.
-cuttechick24
Honestly, just stop talking to him all togeather. Don't take his calls, ignore him online. He's a jerk and a bully who just wants to see what he can get from you. [ Razhie's advice column | Ask Razhie A Question ]
Bayouchick answered Friday May 8 2009, 12:24 am: Well he obviously still likes you.
But i think its wrong that he was trying to get you to do things that you didnt want to do when you werent even happy with him.
And to me it looks like he is coming up with the stupidest reasons just to talk to you.
And if you want him to stop annoying you with the stupid stuff like with his friend just tell him stuff like how you dont like him talking to you and asking favors like that. And that if he did want to talk just to make it a normal friend to friend conversation. [ Bayouchick's advice column | Ask Bayouchick A Question ]
Darby answered Friday May 8 2009, 12:24 am: He must have moved on if he's trying to get you to go to a dance with his friend. He probably saw that you weren't going to get back with him and his friend was in a situation where he needed a date. So he might have just thought of you because you're single. OR he could just have wanted to see what you would say. He probably doesn't really want you to go with his friend. He's only, what, 14 years old? People at that age do random things all the time. Things that make absolutely no sense. Just tell him no and tell him not to ask you again. If he keeps asking, ignore him. He'll get the hint.
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