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do i like him enough?
mk so first off i'm 17/f, and the guy i'm dating right now is 18. we go to the same school, he is a senior i'm a junior. for about the past 4-5 months he's had a crush on me.. we didnt really start talking that much until valentines when he asked me to be his valentine. i said yes. and ever since we just gradually started to talk and hang out more.. probably 2 months ago i realized i liked him back. he asked me to jr/sr banquet and i introduced him to my parents and brother. they all loved him. he's a really good guy, he has good morals, he's caring, trustworthy etc.. he seems to have it all together. he's like the perfect bf.. BUT here's my question.. some days i cant wait to see him..i'm so happy when i'm with him and just have fun.... then there's days like yesterday and today that i just dont feel the butterfly's. like i know i like him, but its like i'm not sure if i'd actually like to go out with him and be an exclusive couple.. the thing is my friends told me hes planning to ask me to be his gf sometime this weekend or next... and i need to know if these feelings are normal, or if i shouldnt go into a relationship w/ him. part of me thinks i'm just so used to having "bad boys" and he's not one. so part of me is bored, cuz theres no risk.. idk what to do.. PLEASE help. thanks in advance.
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The fact is the "butterfly's" don't last long in any relationship. So not having that feeling anymore is perfectly normal.
You like each other, you're comfortable around him, no need for the butterflies. Those who expect for that feeling to continue throughout the relationship don't have long term relationships. They are always chasing that temporary feeling. Don't get caught up in all that.
You have to ask yourself if you enjoy being with this guy. If you do, give it a chance. If not then move on to the next guy. Its just that simple. :)
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Okay, My friend was in this same situation.
Well she was always the one to sneak out and have that thrilling rush of dating a "Bad Boy".
Well she soon started to date this guy who was really nice like the guy above you are talking about. So she gave him a try ause she felt really good with him.
They have been lasting for almost 3 months now so i'd say its good to try something new every once in a while. But if you get bored you should try to lead him on to diffrent ways of doing things or you could be straight up and tell him you want a more exciting relationship.
Hope I helped!
-Ray. (:
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