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my mom has cancer !
okay my mom has cancer and im scared that i might lose her any day . I love my mother alot i dont want to be alone . All that will be left is my sister and me but my sisters going with her dad and im all alone because i dont have NO contact with my real father . I dont want to leave alone im only 15 and im only 1 month pregno . My ex boyfriend said i can leave with him . But he has a girlfriend I dont want it to be weird because what if a boy wants to come over with me ? Im super confused because i wanted to have this big family but it just gets smaller and smaller each day. What should i do ?.
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you just need to have faith and pray andthat is sad. stay with your mom she need you when somw one is ill or in trouble they would be thier for you never let go or leave them you nevr no what could and you are 15 and you are goin to have a baby you have a lot to think about your life ahead of you. your education this baby your mom ect you are young and you are alone it take alot to raise ababy i no i was twenty i was to be married but i wasnt ready so i got a open adoption this means you get to see the child. see my dear im not blame you at all thier just alot goin in your life and you gotta think about what good for that baby and you and your mom i know you dont want to see somthing happen bad but what if somthing did hapeen what ould you do its hard for you to get a job at your age but you can go to altertive school they will help you and they have daycare you need alot of friends around you try getting invold in a church god can help and peol will pray for her do the best you can you mom needs jo and love and so do you but a child needs a father and a mother in thier life i mnow my mother past away 2 years ago of and offer does its hard my grandmother died to but mabe this baby is a good thing but you do need to do somthing with your life and fast because you got a baby coming ok hope this helps and i hoe the best for you and your mom and your baby bye now.
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I'm sorry to hear about your mother, but I want to get this point across:
Cancer is not always a death sentence. Not all people survive it, but not all people are killed by it too. There are a lot of details that go into what ends up happening. Please do not immeadiately tell yourself that your mother is going to die because if you surround yourself with negative thoughts & jump to conclusions asap, your life will only get harder when it doesn't need to be. Stay positive for your mother, for your family, and for yourself. This is a time where being positive really counts and matters. You need to be positive or you will get nowhere.
I suggest you talk to your mother. Ask her what's going to happen with you IF she happens to pass away. Does she have any siblings? Maybe she has a brother or a sister that she can pass on custody to. Certainly she will have to talk to them and see if they're willing to help, but I'm sure they would be considering the situation. If she doesn't have siblings, is there a really close family friend around that wouldn't mind taking you in? I'm sure there's someone. I'm sure you will not end up alone.
As far as living with your ex goes... I don't see that as a serious option. Neither of you need the drama of having the other around, especially if he has a girlfriend. It will only cause problems & you don't need the added stress when dealing with the situation at hand, and when dealing with your pregnancy.
Please do not worry though. Stay upbeat, and positive. And remember to talk with your mother. Everything will work out for the best.
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I'm very sorry about your mother. I would try talking this out with your sister and tell her how your feeling I'm sure she'd be happy to have you with her. Unless her father does not like you. In that case I would talk to your mother and ask her what to do. Who know if she might accusly past. Always think of the positive and just have the best days with her. Be sure to be there when your mom needs you the most and always cheer get on! If u need help just ask me I'd be happy to help
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