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HELP !
Me and my ex still love eachother . We broke up a couple weeks ago because his ex came around and he thought his feeling were still there but turns out he wants me more than her . He's only with her because she will cry for a century ! I dont know what to do because he is the father of my kid . Me and my ex have alot a plans still . My ex is cheating on his new girlfriend with me and i think some other girls also. If they do break up should i go back out with him because his cheating on his girl will he cheat on me ? I really love this kid but i dont want to get hurt again . He said he loves me and he hasnt said it for a while and he said he feels warm and as if hes only suppose to love me . Please help !
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A lot of questions here! The main answer is going to be no. You don't want a serious relationship with this guy. You are being used and you deserve better.
First, "He's only with her because she will cry for a century !" B.S. He is with her because she is probably putting out. Staying with someone because they will cry if you leave is a weak excuse. She feeds his ego by making him think she can't go on without him. He loves it.
"I don't know what to do because he is the father of my kid"...You take care of your child the best you can. Just because a male donates sperm it does not make him a good father. If he is a good father, it doesn't make him a good husband or lover for the child's mother.
Promiscuous irresponsible men who fail to use condoms will leave a trail of kids they could care less about. They give other men a bad name and are not worth having in your life. If he wants to pay child support and take care of his child, he can do it through the court system. He does not need to be with you 24/7.
Men like this one always have " a lot of plans" most of it pure bullshit. It is in their best interest to keep you on the hook. Make you feel like you have a future. If he didn't play with your head that way, you would not stick around for more of the same.
"My ex is cheating on his new girlfriend with me and i think some other girls also." This is his life. This is what he does. Open your eyes and see he is a loser. I'm sorry. I realize you have serious feeling for this guy. But he is a cheater and probably always will be. He uses women. He is using you. For your child's sake wake up girl! Yes. He will cheat on you. He's doing it now and getting away with it.
Move on. Seriously. Find a man who will love both you and your child exclusively. There are men like that out there. You will NOT find that good guy while waiting for this loser to decide which lady on the hook he is going to give his attention to this week.
I have been on the planet almost 52 years. Life is way to short to waste time on this type of man. YOU deserve someone better.
I know it is hard to hear and even harder to step up and take control of your life away from someone you feel you love. You need to be strong and do it though.
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Did you just say that he's cheating on his gf with you and some other girls also? Are you serious?
Why would you want to be with that? He's playing games. If he wanted to be with you, he would be with you. He wouldn't not date you because his current gf would cry. He wouldn't even have to listen to it. He could just not answer his phone or reply to any type of technology she uses to get in contact with him.
How are you okay with him cheating on his gf with you, PLUS 'some other girls'. He's wanting to have his cake and eat it too, and then some. If he loved you, he would be with you and only you.
You shouldn't trust this guy. He's bad news. I understand that he's the father of your kid. That's even more of a reason why he should be solely with you.
Tell him that if he wants to be with you he must break up with his ex and every other girl he's seeing. If he does this and you want to be with him, go for it. But don't expect him not to cheat on you, considering the fact that he's cheating on his girlfriend with more than one person.
Darby
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