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what the hell?
so a guy I was talking to he was very flirty i spent the night with him a few times slept in the same bed cuddled, told me hed be so lucky to be with me told me im part of his life, saying hes happy as long as hes talkin to me, told me i was gonna move in with him, said theres always been something about me, said wed make pretty babies (i kno stupid), but anyways he up and got back with his ex fiance sayin im his best friend and that he likes me but doesnt want to date me right now. what the hell??? what does he mean?
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He said he doesn't want to date you right now?? hmmm sounds to me like he's got game (player) he wants to have let you go but keep you on a leash at the same time. He's leading you on but at the same time your not getting anywhere with him, well not until he's ready for you and then who knows he'll probably go back to his fiance, which im sure will hurt your feelings. My advice is to steer clear of him, if you want you can stay friends but anything more is maybe not such a good idea, i know it might sound harsh but he's really not considering your feelings and that makes his a jerk =)
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His fiance is putting out.
You're cuddling.
He's a jerk!
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He wanted you, but then when his ex got back in the picture, he decided that he would rather have that. If its his ex fiance, he must have been really close to her. He probably wanted the feeling that he had when they were at their highest point in their relationship. In order to get to that point with you, it would take a lot of time and effort. As the person below me said, his ex is most comfortable to him. It's also the easiest person for him to love and feel love from because they've been there and done all of that before.
Don't waste your time waiting around for him. He was just confused and telling you what he felt at the time. There's no point in waiting for him to break up with her. You need to move on and find a guy that can treat you how you deserve to be treated.
And, with the best friend thing, he was trying to lighten the blow. Instead of just saying, 'Yeah, I ran back to my ex.' It's easier to say, 'You're my best friend and that's all I feel for you right now.' It just sounds better. It's letting you down easy.
Hope this helps,
Darby(:
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He doesn't know what he wants to do relationship wise with anyone, so he ran back to what was most comfortable to him.
I wouldn't waste time waiting around for him. If he's that unsure and doesn't know what he's doing, don't keep an interest in him.
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