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Haha im horrible with relationshipps
-Sorry if its kinda long..:)
ok so i like this guy for bout 3 months. and never told him or anything. well then about a week ago he asked me to our school dance and asked me out. Well i better tell you that im a loud, happy, outgoing, kinda popular, crazy, fun person who has lots of guy friends because girls just cause to much drama. Iv been in both the school plays and iv had lead roles. Im a select soccer player and i play the whole game, lead goal scorer. Im a computer geek lol and i guess people consider me realy pretty(dont like to say im pretty cause that just seems "bigheaded") i laugh alot and i like to tell perverted jokes cause i think they are super funny. Well my boyfriend is tall, not exactly the cutest, shy, quiet, realy deep, he goes to church all the time, and idk hes kinda serious. and he wont hug me or anything. so the way he talks to me is just like, super serious alot of the time and im a silly girl. I mean i liked him alot but the more im getting to know the real him the less im likeing him. But i feel bad because im not shure how i feel towards him. I dont want to seem like a mean person or anything because im really not. But im not shure what to do. We are so different but kind of the same. Im so Confuseeed right now >.<
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Let Me start off by saying .... Who isn't terrible at relationships ....
Relationships take work and you need to nuture them!!
Calm down and stop thinking everything through so much, you're only young so nothing serious has to come from this relationship!!
You should give this relationship a try and see where it goes. Maybe try asking him where he wants to go and go there but whatever you do don't joke about his choice you never know you might enjoy it!!
Him being serious may be a good thing, if you have exams coming up he might be able to offer you that extra hand which you need in a certain lesson and who cares about how he looks!!
I've been in the exact same position except what I did was finished My boyfriend because he wasnt the "coolest and most good looking guy" .... want to know what happened .... Well I didn't see him for afew months after he went to a different collage and I'll tell you something when I saw him I regreted finishing it, he was HOT and TAKEN.
Don't make the same mistake .... stick it out .... There might just be a honeymoon period around the corner when you realise just how great he is and remember why you liked him in the first place!!
Let Me know how you get on.
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opposites attracks but you got the one that is just like you. it may sound mean but if it isn't working why keep going? i know you'll try to keep it going by making up excuses for him that he doesn't mean it and blah blah. but really why your a smart girl as i can tell of your discription about yourself.
just tell him that things aren't going the way you thought and you two need to break up because it just isn't working for me. or just tell him the truth the more you hang with him the more you don't like him.
i hoped i helped good luck
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