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Would this make me a bitch? ;3
16/f
Right, so i really like this guy(who is 16), but the problem is he has a girlfriend, but liek two weeks before he started dating her he asked me to be his girlfriend and i said no cause i didn't think i lieked him liek that, anyway now i do. Would it be so dreadful for me to flirt with him a little and try n win him back? Any tips are useful, ty.
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You are not being bitchy, just jealousy maybe.
I say bring your Flirt on!
Go for it Girl, make him your own!
-Lily :)
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Although it may seem fun right now to play your cards and try to steal this guy, it will definitely not be fun when his current girlfriend finds out about it. Plus, you don't even know if it will work. Can you imagine if you tried it and he told her about it? Then, not only would you have this girl extremely angry with you, you would also still be single. It would be very embarrassing. If I were you, I would wait until this guy is single again. Try to remain his friend though, that way when things in their relationship mess up, you'll be their to comfort him. Catching my drift? XD
Hope this helps(:
Darby
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Honestly, if that happened to me id probably try to win him back to. Anyways, talk to him more, be more attentive, so it will be more obvious that you like him and im sure you'll get him back, i mean he liked you first didnt he?
im 15, and i would do it, youre young and in high school too! have funn!
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I would say yes that doing that would make you a bitch.
You wouldn't want someone to flirt with your boyfriend so don't do it to another girl. It only causes trouble & brings along a lot of unnecessary drama. Save yourself the drama & just wait until he's single again, but just remain his friend.
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sameeeee exact thing happened to me, and the 2 of them have been together for 5 months now. great, right? yeah, i know. *sarcasm* well. i still talk and flirt with him. like, i dont think that's bad, considering that his girlfriend also does that to his friends.. but anyways. if you still like him, i say why not? you're not stealing anything from anyone, so I'm going to have to disagree with the previous advice you were given. the guy you like isn't a piece of property, she hasn't claimed him, and they aren't married, so trying to get him back isn't going to give you abad reputation, you're not doing anything wrong. Maybe some people will side with his girfriend, but come on, you're only 16, i mean i wish i would have tried harder to get the guy i [still] like back. but do what YOU feel is right, just follow your heart. [i know that sounds corny, but still.. it's so true.] keep talking to him flirt with him, try to hang out as FRIENDS first, i mean, she can't keep him on a short leash.. so just go for it :] but don't make it so obvious, yuh know?
kayk, hope i helped! good luck and have funn. xxo :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me anytime.
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are you sure you don't just want him because now he's taken? we tend to want what we can't have. before anything else, just go over that possibility in your mind. i do agree with the other person that you should wait until he's single again to make any sort of move. also, maybe you will have a change of heart before that point as well. but if you did want to win him back. well you had him before. you shouldn't have to change how you act at all. i dont' know if this guy will ever ask you out again. personally, if a girl says no to going out with me i never ask a second time. i'll let myself be rejected once but not twice. at some point you may have to just tell him that you made a mistake.
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Spell like right.
And don't try to steal the guy from the girl. You don't want that as your reputation. Just wait until this little fling is over with them and then go for it.
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Spell like right.
You had your chance. You should wait until they break up. You don't want to get a reputation of stealing guys from girls. They won't be going out for forever its just a highschool fling.
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