i am a virgin but i really want 2 have sex,but i cant find any 1 2 have sex with wat shud i do have sex with a random person or just keep masturbating 13/f
666 answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 6:57 pm: your only thirteen, man.
your not ready for sex.
just get a real nice vibrator. [ 666's advice column | Ask 666 A Question ]
dottie4 answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 12:24 pm: Just from the way you asked this question, no I don't think you should be having sex. You can't even spell.
krazy_lady33 answered Tuesday May 5 2009, 2:43 am: whoa, definitely wait. You just feel like you need to have sex because you're going through a stage where your hormones are changing. It's kind of like a "horny" stage. [ krazy_lady33's advice column | Ask krazy_lady33 A Question ]
mxpimpette26 answered Monday May 4 2009, 12:18 am: whoa! you need to wait to have sex. i lost my v-card on a one night stand (5yrs ago i was 15) & i still to this day & i wish i had waited till i found someone who cared about me. So just keep masturbating. plus the more you masturbate the more you know what you will want when you are ready to have sex. =] [ mxpimpette26's advice column | Ask mxpimpette26 A Question ]
Matt answered Sunday May 3 2009, 1:33 am: Just because you can spell masturbating (seriously impressed) doesn't mean you're ready for sex. [ Matt's advice column | Ask Matt A Question ]
sml111992 answered Saturday May 2 2009, 12:51 pm: yo your like really young i know how badly horny you might be but seriously not worth it wait till your like older much better. trust it! [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
Disconnected answered Saturday May 2 2009, 7:51 am: Honestly, if you just want to have sex, not considering the consequences or the purpose, you're not ready for it.
Sex is, or at least used to be something meaningful between two people that love each other.
At thirteen, you shouldn't do it. You are too young.
Having sex with a random person is probably your worst thought...you could get pregnant with a random person's child or whatnot. Or you could just end up being called a slut.
Wait until you meet someone you care about, learn the emotional and physical consequences of sex, then you should consider this.
Until then, masturbation will be your best option. [ Disconnected's advice column | Ask Disconnected A Question ]
christina answered Saturday May 2 2009, 7:27 am: You should not be having sex at 13. You're a baby still, and sex is for adults. There is no need to be in a hurry to grow up. You will eventually experience the things other people do if you're patient & can let yourself learn first.
Sex brings on emotions that are not for anyone your age simply because you cannot handle them. Sex can be regretted if done when not ready, or too young. Sex also can bring STD's and pregnancy along & there are no taking those mistakes back. Honestly, keep masturbating. It's a whole lot safer, and you don't need anyone's help. Having sex with a random person will make you look like a slut & you will highly regret it. Sex should be with someone you love & should be meaningful.
uberlou answered Saturday May 2 2009, 5:18 am: What's with the rush to grow up? You're 13. Have fun being a kid! No one should be having sex at 13 and if you have friends or know people that do it doesn't mean you have to as well. There's a lot of emotional baggage that comes with sex and someone at 13 is not prepared for it or at least shouldn't be going through that.
Give yourself more time to mature into things and wait it out a few more years or so or else you'll end up in a horrible situation you can't get out of (i.e. pregnancy or sexually transmitted diseases). Learn to appreciate the simple aspects of dating (getting to know boys, hanging out, taking part in interests you share, watching movies, etc).
Like I said, having sex this soon only sets you up for trouble and you will without a doubt regret it later in life. Stick with masturbation if you're that curious. It's harmless. but don't allow yourself to get pressured into sex. Please.
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