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Can I Be Pragnet?
hey im 15.f
i have 2 questions to ask in this.
so heres the story (and oh yea who ever answers ill rate high because i really need help)
my boyfriend and i have been going out for about almost 2 weeks and those 2 weeks he fingered me. i gave me head and we had sex. alot of sex. my question is can i be any chance pragnet since we didnt use a condom the very first time and we were in he shower and he felt like he was gonna cum so he pulled out and waited a little and then we went agian. but he never came. that same day we used condoms but we had sex twice after the shower incident. then i came over agian yesterday and we had sex twice again but with a condom he came but we had a condom and everything was fine. but im just worried that what if i am pragnet and if there is a chance i can be.. because since the first time in the shower my mood changed and i got a small pain like all the way in mmy lower stomach by my vigina. im really scared and i dont know what to do im going to wait ffor my period to come but i dont know by then it might be to late.
another question is i regret having sex with him so much he says he likes me a lot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast and it old him that he said everything is fine and that he wont leave me because we had a thing in the past where i was dating my other boyfriend and he tried to convince me to break up with him so he must like me but idont what to do bout the sex ...and the moving fast
any help ill rate high thank u so much =]
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After two weeks, he won't respect use as person. But anyway it is very possible you could get pregnant, the pull out routine rarely if at all works. Condoms can break. So I would do a home pregnancy test or go to your Family Physician or free clinic to get tested.
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All i have to say is sucked in. If you're pregnant its your own stupid fault. How can you have unprotected sex then say "im scared im pregnant"???
If its not on its not on. If you're not pregnant by some miracle... then next time use a condom!!!
Sorry for being so blunt but theres so many girls on this site who are just like you... Having unprotected sex and then whinging about possibly being pregnant. Use your brain and you wont get pregnant!
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Yes my dear you can be pregnant especially since the first time that you did it you did not use any contraceptives (condom, pills, etc.). I don't know about you but I despise waiting, not knowing what is to come next. If I am on your predicament I will not wait for my period to come, straight away I will go to a clinic to have myself checked if I am pregnant or not. Or you could just simply purchase a pregnancy test. In that way you would be able to know right away if your pregnant and plan ahead on what you should do.
An unsolicited advice, next time you will have sex you should probably consider taking necessary precautions to avoid getting pregnant. You're too young to be starting a family.
Talk to your boyfriend and tell him that you feel that you are moving too fast. An open communication is still one of the best ways to keep and have a harmonious relationship.
Best of luck =)
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yea, you can be pregnant.
you should take plan B just incase there's any risk anyways, it should decrease your chances!
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yess you can get pregnant. you can also get a disease. this boy says he likes you, & he probably told you he's clean...but you should go to the doctor with him & make sure he is. guys lie to fulfill their desires sometimes.
on your second question, i think you should leave him. he isnt listening to you & hes not taking your needs seriously. hes putting himself before you. if you two really have sex this much, im sorry but he just wants your body. that sort of relationship usually isnt anything but physical. it may be hard, but know that youre doing the right thing.
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yes there's a chance you could be pregnant. wait and see if you get your period or not and if you don't, get a pregnancy test at like cvs or something. i'm not trying to be mean but if you have to ask these questions then you shouldn't be having sex. not to scare you but there's also pre-cum, which does have sperm in it and condoms aren't 100% effective, they could break and a lot of other things can go wrong. you said that you did this after 2 weeks...i understand that people go at their own rate and i completely respect that but i quote you: "he says he likes me alot but i feel like our relationship is moving wayyyyyyyy 2 fast".. you're definetly right. i don't know this guy so i can't judge him but i know from experiences and a lot of my guy friends told me that guys that move to fast don't care as much about the girl as the ones who wait...sorry to bring me into this but i talked about this with my present boyfriend and when i said "i think we're moving too fast" he didn't say "everythings fine" he actually stopped and told me he wouldn't go anything until i was ready. just want you to know that it hurts when guys take advantage of you. i hope you make the right decision.
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Yes hun there is a chance there, Many people seem to get it confused about when a guy pulls out. There is always a chance of pregnancy if the penis enters the vagina because there is a chance of pre-cum. Despite whether you two used a condom or not condoms are not always 100% effective. If he fingered you and he ejaculated before than then again yes there is a chance of pregnancy because the sperm will be on his hands and no it doesn't die right away when it is exsposed to air. If you feel like your relationship is moving to fast than maybe you should tell him to slow down because honestly in my opinion I do think having sex after two weeks is a little fast yes. It is up to you whether or not you want to call it off, However remember if he is moving to fast make sure you tell him and let him know. I would suggest taking a pregnancy test just to be sure.
Be Safe
xx
Bahaima22
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Uh yes there is a chance you could be pregnant. Condoms are not 100% effective. And then again you guys didn't even use a condom the first time so there is a cghance you could be pregnant. Just wait awhile and see if you get your period.
And now...the best thing for you to do is tell your boyfriend you think you guys are moving too fast. And you need to slow down. Just express your feelings to him.
Hope I helped
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there is a chance you could get pregnant. if you are not married you should always use a condom and you should consider going on birth control. and to answer your second question...talk to your boy! if he really likes you he will understand that you want to slow it down a little.
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