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Bleeding after sex
18/f
My boyfriend and I started having sex last weekend. He is really big and I am really small. The first time I bled a lot! There was blood for almost the whole rest of the night. The second time I bled for about an hour and then I was ok.
We just had sex again last night and I bled a tiny bit less than the second time.
Does this seem normal? How many times should I bleed before I go see a doctor?
The first and second time were a little painful, but the third was not.
Help! Thanks!
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Like everyone else said, you're hymen is tearing. But it could also be from being too 'dry'. Lubricant can help that. :)
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- The hymen doesn't always tear fully the first time, and subsequent romps can finish it off, resulting in more bleeding.
- If theres a serious size differential, areas like around your former hymen are going to stretch alot, possibly to the point of slight skin tearing. If you sleep together pretty regularly, usually it just heals over and the new tissue stretches better.
More than likely, after a few weeks/months of sex with him and it won't be as much of a problem, though one thing you want to consider is extending your foreplay. The vag stretches, but also eventually goes back to its normal size. A week without sex and you can go from being stretched out to tight again, making it hurt a bit to get things going.
More foreplay means more excitement, more excitement means you're more flexible (and more wet) which helps when you've got a guy with a pretty big unit.
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it is perfectly normal. your bleed when your hymen tears. It may have not been fully healed when u had sex again, and that would cause bleeding again.
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