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what do you do when i friend says they want to be left alone
yesterday my best friend was really upset and she said she wanted to be left alone..should i do anything and if so what? i feel kinda bad just letting her be alone. help please?
the same thing happened to my guy friend. what should i do?
thanks soo much.
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If a guy wants to be leaft alone...I suggest you give him some space, but in doing so let him know that you are there for him if and when he needs you.
As far as your other friend goes, don't try to push her into talking to you, tell her that you respect her and will give her space, but that you'll always be there for her saying everything will be okay! And never feel bad, every once in a while, people need there space...trust me. If you push to hard, you might start upsetting her even more.
Don't worry, once she gets her space/time; she'll be cool again. Everybody needs a break...its in our nature.
I hope this helps! Good Luck
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If i guy says he wants to be left alone you should. He wants to gather his thoughts and maybe he will tell you later. Just tell him you hope hes ok and leave him alone for a while.
With the girl. Sometimes they say they want to be left alone, and they think they really do. Do just think. But when your gone sh emight feel like shes too alone and no one cares about her. But On the other hand if you bother her she might think your annoying and really just want to be left alone. Try just leaving her alone for a while and calling her or talking to her. Juts asking if shes ok. And if she wants to talk. if she truelly dosen't. Just let her breath.
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i do that all the time, i just want to be left alone cuz i don't want people seeing me when i'm sad, you shoud let her be alone for awhile, but if you see her and she seems sad hug her, really tight and for awhile, it'll make her/him feel alot better ^.^
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Let her know that you're here for her and that she can call you any time if she wants to talk.
That's about it. You should leave her alone and don't feel bad about it. Sometimes you're not in the mood to have somebody around. Maybe there's something going wrong with her and she needs time to think it out alone.
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You should just leave her alone. I know it may be tough, but she is probably going through something tough, and if she wants to talk to you, she will. Just let her know that you understand that she wants to be alone, but that you are there if she wants to talk, (and tell her you'd keep it confidential).
Good Luck!!!
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mabe she really does want to be alone. i know when i cry , i want people to just get away. she understands your there for her , she justs wants some alone time probably. I mean dont totally leave her alone , you can talk to her and check on her.
- kaylaa
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maybe a family problem maybe you should try showing her you would helo out any way possiable
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