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HE JUST WONT QUIT.
Hey. I'm 13/f, he's 12/m. This kid has had a crush on me, a really bad one, since the beginning of this school year. [It's two weeks until the end.. :D!] But he really likes me, and he flirts with me A LOT and he's nice to me and everything but it gets really annoying. I don't like him, I just like the attention that I get from him. But as for his actualy personality, there's nothing besides a friendship there. I told him like 6 times that I don't like him, never have, and never will. (in nicer ways than that obviously). And my friends have told him. He just won't quit.
What should I do!? PLEASE HELP ME!
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well because you like his attention he likes you more and more and because he is flirty towards you it makes it worse because you like it soo it makes him think you like him. the best thing to do is not talk to him for a while sooo he backs off a bit and after that while if he is stilll crazy for you then just don't talk to him he will stop. i know it is mean but if he is annoying and you want him to stop then that is the sorta mean thing to do idk if it is the best but it is up to you if he annoys you like once a week then just let him go he will have less and lesss feelings for you as time goes by.
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He must be noticing that you like the attention and is thinking you like him back for it. Alot of girls have guys that have crushes on them and act flirty back to them because they like feeling special and the attention, then they'll bitch about him to their friends saying "omg hes so annoying". Even though you enjoy the attention, try and get it from someone you want to show it, not just a guy who becomes annoying after a while. The point is he probably thinks your playing hard to get or thinks he has a chance because of the way you might act towards him. Has he actually asked you out and is he continuing to? Just keep saying you would only like him as a friend and you want to keep it that way. Sooner or later hes going to get over you so dont worry. By the time you get a boyfriend, he will have moved on. if hes not listening and keeps bugging you say he is annoying you, not in a mean way though. Anyways if you need anymore help just ask! love xXxPunki-PixiexXx
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tell him to stop askingyou out! if he doesnt get the hint maybe you should say it more strongly. if you still want to be his friend then tell him. but if he continues to as you then say your either friends or your not friends at all. plain and simple. he should get the hint if you stick to your guns and dont let up.
hope that helped! if u have any more question just ask me whenever on whatever. tell others too =)
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Hi, thanks for your question.
You told the guy that you didn't like him, and your friends have told him too. You said that you like the attention, but you don't like him. This could be sending confusing messages, so I would suggest that you make up your mind. Since you don't like him, you should give up the attention.
Have you told him that you don't like the attention you are getting from him? Try this, and if after you have told him, he still continues to flirt, you should report him for sexual harassment. It sounds harsh, but you told him you didn't feel the same way, and once you told him that you don't like the attention, you will have cleared away the confusion. Therefore, there would be no excuse for him continuing the behavior.
Does your school have an anonymous reporting system? In my old school, it was called the Bully Box, and in it you would put the name of the person who was bothering you, and maybe what they were doing. Teachers would watch out for them and see if they do anything wrong. If not, maybe you could tell your parents or guidance counselor, or you could have your friends do it for you. Either way, get an adult involved. You have tried the best you could to handle the problem and it still won't go away. And because of the Title IX law, sexual harassment is not allowed.
Don't worry about getting him into trouble. He might not be meaning to hurt you, and someone may just talk to him and get him to realize that you seriously don't want him bothering you anymore (and realize that you aren't playing hard-to-get, if that was what he was thinking). This could be what he needs to stop.
Good luck with everything, and write back if you have more questions. :)
-Hannah
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