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i have to go to church and i dont want to


Question Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:55 pm

ok well me and my family havent been going to church lately for the past 4 months, (maybe longer) anyways this couple from the church came by and talked to us about how they missed us so much and how they all wanted us to come back. then they asked my two brothers if they were going and they said yes, then they asked me and i said yes. they didnt ask my dad. anyways im not ready to go back. i mean i dont want to at all. i dont like the preacher and i dont like the church. i mean the people are nice but i mean i just dont wanna go back. i mean what was i supposed to say? but anyways the question im asking is how do i get out of it. im going this sunday and i cant decide how to not go. i mean i cant tell my dad because then he will say WELL YOUR NOT CLOSE TO THE LORD and i am i just dont want to go to that church. how do i get out of going? (and no i cant call the church)

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321ch answered Wednesday June 4 2008, 5:27 pm:
you are using the word church as a routine a church is not a building it is a family of christians you cant just ignore god if you dont like or belive in what the preacher is preaching you need to tell your dad that and find a church that is christian and go to it to be with god and other christians

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jazzifizzle answered Thursday June 7 2007, 1:38 pm:
even if you dont like your pastor very much, that doesnt mean that you should give up on christianity alltoghether. i've been going to church since i was...well...born. i happen to love my pastor and my church so maybe you should try another church nearby. since you're close to the Lord go to church and get even closer. find yourself a young adult who can be your mentor and help you through this problem with your dad. just remember, dont give up.

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CheerCandi answered Friday June 1 2007, 7:33 pm:
well sweetie chursh is only an hour and a half. if you dont want ta go then you shouldnt have to. if you did tell you dad and he said you werent close to the Lord calmly tell him that thats not how you realy feal. you just dont like that church, but you would like to go to another church. he should understand after you tell him that you would like to go to another church.

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