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Letting him down.


Question Posted Friday June 1 2007, 6:56 pm

Okay, so, i think i kinda have a boyfriend, but im not so sure, because he's been in rehab for...18 months now. I havn't seen him in 2 months, but the last time i saw him, he pretty much informed me that we were in a relationship. Heehee, pushy i know. But just a few days ago, my ex-bf started talking to me. A day later, he broke up with his gf of six months, and has been trying to hang out with me ever since. I know he still likes me, but i dont feel that way about him. I also dont think he knows that i have a "bf". How do i let him down easily? I feel bad because he told his friend he broke up with his gf for me. I really dont think its his buisness that i have a bf, because this is like, the first time i've started talking to him in like...2 years. But i dont know what to tell him. So, what should i say to tell him im not interested. ESPECIALLy if he asks me out.

Much luv,

~Abigail~*

*name changed for privacy reasons


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christina answered Friday June 1 2007, 10:54 pm:
If you don't like him, just tell him. Whether you decide to tell him or not, he's gonna get hurt so either way you're gonna feel bad & let him down. Just swallow it and tell him.

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CheerCandi answered Friday June 1 2007, 7:28 pm:
well u havent seen your bf in 2 months. and your ex wants to get back with you. well just tell him. tell him that you have a boyfriend that you realy like. you still want to be friends with your ex. and you think its sweet he broke up with his ex just for you.(are you positive thats why he broke up with her)you havent talked in 2 years and all of a sudden he wants to be friends (somethings not right)i dont think you should tell your boyfriend about your ex. but if you have one of those relationships based on honesty then maybe you should.

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