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I can try my best to give you my advice, ask me what is on your mind and i can give you my opinion.
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i'm very worried about my grades in school. i'm a f/sophomore.
i have all honors and a.p classes...i usually get very good grades, and last report card, got all As and Bs.
this grading period...two of my grades are slipping to Cs...and I don't know how to pull them up..i try my best. i just can't do well in those subjects. and this makes me hate myself...really badly =| i don't know what to do..i really do try. and the worst part..is that i know i'm smart, but i see other people doing better than me and it just makes me hate myself even more! i used to be one of those students that always got the highest score...but its as if i got lazy and i'm on a hiatus or something.
what can I do in this situation? I know that i can do better. but there are way too many distractions.
i guess this could be called "smart person's block"
lol. please help. anyone with the same experience?
Well I am a JR college student. I only took one class this semester and it was math!! I didn’t pass on my first part so I couldn’t continue. It sucks that I have to pay for the class again to re take it. But now I know what I need work on and to get someone to help me with math.
You didn’t say what class subject you are stuck on but I say to go to googgle.com and type in homework help. I saw a ton of website.
Good luck and don’t worry I had trouble in high school everyone dose. Once you fall you get right back up again...hope I help ;)
So.
I sit next to Adam in reading, forced to but if we had the choice I probably still would. Well for the past week of sitting together, we've flirted. I wasn't sure at first, but the nudges.. pinches.. Footsies!.. and just what were talking about. Becky even called it flirting. Then PJ Stamas, the most rudest ignorant JERK ever asked "Are you going out with Katie???" Looking directly at Adam, because im not the best thing to look at.. and Adam didn't say anything so then Pj looked at me and asked if we were and I said No were not because were not. So Pj said oo and looked away. And me and Adam went back to flirting.. =D Wellthat was Thursday. Friday at lunch because I sit next to Adam because we are friends.. some random girl I couldnt tell you her name to save my life asked HOW LONG we've been going out..! Then today DJ didffrent annoying kid asked if we were.. Well I dont see why Adams not going "Gross kid! No I am not going out with this Hella Fat cow!" But all 3 times he hasnt said anything.. i've had to correct them. The Steven goes around telling Adam that he's all I ever talk about which soo isn't true!
Adam said something to me I forget, about "us."kinda and I was like ahh not now Adam later.. just joking around and he was like yayyy now i have something to look forward to and It was funny and I laughed and stuff and I guess I have a laugh AND a giggle. Ive heard this from my Best Budd in the whole world Becky. Well I dont control it. because I dont know I even had a **gigle...
Well, Beckys made a huge deal out've reading and me and Adam flirting. I say its not.. even tho it kinda is.. I mean Im not the number one girl Adam could have! He's funny, Smells delish!!! no joke, and i donno everything about hims awsome. He has more options besides ME. I stayed back, im the Godzilla of the grade.. because im fat and im just al around not pretty. But people tell me other wise.. but ughh tuff subject.
Then today Adam at lunch was playing footsies.. and i was laughing and stuff when JJ tried making fun of him and started with my other foot COMPLETELY AKWARD btw when Adam stepped on his foot with FULL FORCE like as hard as possible!! Well all I can say is JJ wont do that again =) But the weird things is afterwards, Adam didn't stop. He continued holding me knee.. and playing with my foot. And in reading, he rubs knee\leg and we talked about how waffles are better then pancakes, lipgloss is better then lipstick (haha funny funny!) and if i looked better with or without glasses and he said eitherway..=) And I dont know what it's called but he keeps stepping on my hel when im walking and it kills SOOO much lol and Friday he hurt me and he was like Oh my god im sooo sorry and hasnt done it since.
Well, I didnt want to admit i liked him because he couldve been flirting with me on a bet or date, Ive seen those movie! or to just fuck with me. And I dont wanna make a big deal outa this if he doesnt. I dont wanna look like an idiot.
Well I kinda wrote this is my profile.
So Maybe I Do Talk To Much.
Expecially
About Him.
I might as well go to the tallest mountain..
And Scream It To The World.
"I Can't Lie."
After me and becky Had a talk about how I suck at lieing...
What do I Do???
Becky thinks he likes me too.
Well first of all dont think you are in a movie like never been kiss and shes the one. COME ON those are moives. when i was in high school i had ton of people ask me if i am going out with my guy friend and i said no and he hardly said anything but he said no sometimes. (but my friend is bi)the reason why he is not saying no, is because he probley is to shy to say it and/or doesnt want to say no because he wants to be a yes. I myself ask guys out because i liked them. sometimes guys these days dont have balls LOL. listen dont put your self down on how you look because i myself dont have a perfect body but i get a lot of guys liking me. he likes you but he is shy. he is frilting with you. now what you should do is ask him "Adam do you like anybody?" see what he says. or " do you like me?"
Is adam a shy guy? cool guy? class clown? is he popuarl? let me know...ok
There is a picture that the guy I like friend drew for him. (It's a re-enmactment of the Last Supper as him as Jesus) and there is a girl next to him. The thing really bothering me is that I dont know who this girl is. It might me be but I have glasses or his sister which makes sense. Then there is a girl who he's friends with that she could also be.
here's the pic:
I need advice!
Well dont think it is you because you might be wrong and it will crush you. ask him who are the people in the picture. belive me every time my crush says or do somthing i always think she ment me but then it truns out i was wrong.
me and my bf have been going out for like 6 months and i brokeup with him the other day and i found out that he has been calling and looking up things about suicide and idk what to do bc i dont like him anymore but i do love him and i dont want him to hurt himself
Maybe he is upset about the break up. or he is trying to get your attention. Sit down and talk to him. ask him why he is looking up stuff about suicide. let him know you are there for him and that you dont want him to get hurt. there is somthing he is hiding from you. so try your best to talk to him to tell you what is up.
help is well.
Is there a way to stop a female who has started bleeding and is in heat?
you cant stop her from bleeding its like how women have there period. but the only way to stop it is ge her fixed. if you dont want her fix and you want her to breed. then leave her out side clean her butt when she bleeds. or get doggie diapers.
My five year old son isn't interested in paying with other kids. My husband is VERY concerned. He will play with his sister and his cousins (all younger, all girls) and an occasionaly older girl who will act as a follower. My son likes to be in charge, he is the 1st born. Do you think any of theses characteristics are a sign that there is something wrong with him socially? He just seems to prefer the company of adults.
He wants to be a grown up. You said he always wants to be in charge so maybe he is trying to be a big boy and learn from the adults. ask him if he wants to play with the other kids and see what he says. I say talk to him first and find out what he does when he hangs out with the adults. does he copy you or the other adults or does he sit there quit? he might be a very shy kid and wants to stay with you. so talk to him and talk to a psychologist.
AHHH!!
please helpp.
okayy this is going to be kinda longg but sum1 please please please help mee
i like this guy and ive liked him for a while
he told me when we 1st became friends he didnt go out with freshman
and i respected that
so i waited until the end of the year
and nothing happened
but he kept flirting with me constantly..i mean like unclip my bra in the middle of class, kick my chair, always whipser stuff to me ( we have close last names so we sat close to each other)
and we would hang out everyday and when we hung out he would lay on me ( ex. my boobs)
and we would watch scary movies and cuddle
and he would call me everynight (school nights) and we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours until like 2 in the morning
but anywayy..thats the info you sorta need to know
just recently i told him i liked him and i asked how he felt back..he totally changed the subject and i asked him again and he signed off (i did this online) but the 2nd time he calls me later and asks me to sneak out with him...i didnt go.
so finally i bugged him so much and i got an answer..
he told me he liked me but prolly nuthings gunna happen between us and i was crushed and im told him i was confused cuz he "likes me alot" but "probably nothings going to happen becuase he cant predict the future"
and i cried for about a week
i really think i love this guy
and you know i wasnt letting him hold me back i hooked up with this other guy and he found out
he was CRUSHED. he was so mad he brought a bat the next time he knew i was with him
and then he told me he didnt want to ask me out becuase he "didnt want to ruin our friendshp"
and my couin whos 30 ( i talked to her about this)
told me thats a bunch of sh*#%
and she said to see is he relle likes me..dont im him..call him ..hang out with him and if he realizes it then hell do something
so it was abotu 2 weeks and i get a random im "hi i miss you =["
so she told me that he just likes to be liked and now that im showing him i dont care hes realizing like oh sh*% maybe shes moving on
but grrr i like him soo much
and i dont know what to do
pleasee shud i im him?
does he like me?
im soo sorry this is so long by the way
but please,,, HELPP!!
thanksss in advance !!
You should call him or meet him or IM him, but you have to tell him about how he is playing with your emotions, this guy needs to respect your feelings and his playing hard to get or very confused on what he wants. Tell him this: I like you and I always did, you being very close to me and jealous when I was with that other guy. You are not respecting how I feel and I want to know do you like me more than a friend?"
I been threw this and I hate when the other person is playing games (and that’s what he is doing) it is not fair for you and you are dieing to know. I hope this works out.
ok so i just had sex with this guy. he didn't use a condom, bad i know!! he pulled out and everything but now my best friend has me worried about pre-cum. is there anyway to tell if he came in me at all?
OR buy a pregnancy pill.
i agree with MATT
Ok so me and my bf of 4months had our first fight a few days ago and part of it was about me not talking to his friends when we're hanging out with them. Im really shy and i just find it hard to talk to people i dont know that well. So if i dont talk to his friends they end up thinking i hate them but i dont. it just takes me a while to open up to people. So my question is how do i start conversations with these people and get to know them better, like join in conversations when i dont know what or who their talking about.
I just dont know what to say to them.
Love, Jess
I am shy my self too, people say it can be rude but I say its hard to think of what to say and not say something wrong that will defended them.
What I do, I smile my hello or wave and I ask them what they like to do for a hobbies, career, work and school (major) those are great topics for any one to talk about.
Once you know what they like or dislike then you might know if you and your bf friends have in common.
And if you can’t think of something else to talk about then join in the conversations.
i'm female. i've been trying to find a cute back of the neck tatto like a little below my hair line. i want something small, but like i have no clue. i need some ideas, maybe pictures? i've been thinking about for a while but my creativity is being dumb haha
i've been trying to think of something like with meaning or just something cute.
any ideas/inspiration/info on neck tattoos would be sooo helpful.
thanks so much!
oh and i'm rtying to convince my mom to let me get a tattoo [i'm 14] i love tattoos and i thought maybe if i got one where i can cover it up easily she could possibly say yeah? what do you think?
Well I have a neck tattoo right below of the neck line. I got it on my 18th birthday. and it is a good spot to cover up with my hair down or if i wear a shirt. what i have is my zodiac sign (gemini) i got the design on www.tattoodles.com.
My sister told me that the best tattoo to get is your zodiac sign because it will have so many meanings about you. but check out that website they have great designs.
hope i helped.
Almost all my friends buy their clothes from this popular clothing store called Stitches. They have great clothes there but I think they're too expensive. So, almost all my wardrobe is from Frenchy's (I'm sooo lucky there!) Anyways, sometimes my friends buy the same shoes or clothes as each other and they freak out at each other.I always tell them to chill and its their fault they buy at a popular store. What can I do about this?
there is really nothing you can do.If i was them i will call up my friend ask her what she is wearing at the show or whatever we are hanging at and descide what we wear that night, so we wont show up as dorky twins.
they cant tell each other off because they like the same style , i mean right now there is a girl buying the same shoes and /or shirt too and they arent friends. i mean there is no clothes shop only for a particular person really. and sometime we borrow some clothes from one another, (but e never give it back)LOL
i hope that i helped.
my friend is masically the coolest one in our little "group". Anyways, everyone loves the expressions she uses. She says things like "OH BABY" and "come on noww". Anyways, are there any expressions that I can use that are kinda cute/clever/funny? THANK YOU SO MUCH. %% thanks %%
Dammmm!
Lets get it started
Sweeet
Nicesss
IDK, sorry i tryed
i just watched donnie darko and im so confused. what is the meaning of all of it and was frank real and everything? im sooo confused someone fill me in
I just saw it on youtube, (GO youtube!) anyways what I think of the movie. its about Donnie who has two chooses, 1: live but go though losing your friends and famliy. or 2: die and dont let your love ones die but you.
Donnies number was up and God gave him the choose. i think Granny Death had that happen to her and she choosen life. she lost her loved ones and now she die inside,(hints the name. The point about Frank is the futuer ghost to Donnie and telling him that if you do those bad things you will fellow the path of killing me for running over your girlfriend. when that happens he realized he can change it. to not let every one die but him.
This exspalnes to you about how you can change your way of going on a differnet path and how death can change your life and to others. Donnie was a troubbled kid, and he had a choose. he made that choose at the end and now he is RIP.
well that what i think....watch it again if you want.
okay so this guy at my school made this video for the seniors. there was this really good song in it but i can't find the name of it or who sings it. all i remember are the words "i remember when.." then something about laughing. the band sounds like hinder. anyone know what song that is?
PLEASE don't tell me to google it. already tried.
Okay go to www.imeem.com and you can hear the song to tell what it is. try it out, cause i found some songs but i dont know what it sounds like.
in the movie clueless, with alicia silverstone, can someone tell me what she is saying, word for word, near the end when chers walking by herself and shes like "im in love with josh."
Well she goes on and on about how lazy and talks to her about news and him going out with women who are polictics or whatever. Cher starts to realize that he is on her mind, that Josh drives her up the walls and she cant stop thiknking about him no matter how annoying or mean he was to her she would ask herself why he was and so on. thats how funny love is. you think the person around you is your friend or your friends friend, but you slowly realized you like them deep down inside.
hope i made it clear.
i liked this guy for a long time and now i kinda over him. my friend likes him now and im all defensive. i cant talk to her cause i have a boyfriend. but idk if i like my boyfriend, but i just started going out w/ him today so i cant break up with him yet.. i went out with him cause we're friends and hes nice and hes like in love with me. i just dont feel the chemistry. this is my first boyfriend. im a wreck. i cant eat, think straight, etc.
xclueless
okay so your saying your new boy friend is making you cant eat? or is it the guy you like?
well i say dont go out with this new guy. belive me i know. i thougt i like this guy name aaron because he was nice and sweet. i went out with him but when i got to know him more i got annoyed by him. so i broke up with him. my point is dont go out with someone because they like you and you dont like them back. try to think in their shoes. i mean he problemly thinks your a wonderful person and he'll do anything for you, but then if he see you not liking him back it'll crush him. you got to tell your friend that you have some feelings about the guy you like and you are not sure if you like your boyfriend. so dont go out with someone cause of self pitty go out with them when you know you like them back too.
i hope i help, but i got a little confused on which guy that makes you feel like you cant eat.
So there's these two girls.
The first [Alex], is definately bi. At a friend's sweet sixteen, she tried to seduce me. We only went to second base though, not a huge deal.
So today, she asked me to come with her while she got changed after play practice. So I'm like, kay, whatevs, cuz we're good friends. And she keeps tryign to get me to look at her boobs. I'm not perverted like that, that I'd stare at someone's boobs. Anyway, so I finally looked, and then she gets this dawning look and starts rambling about her period. Any idea what that was about??
Two, [Becky] was single this weekend, and I realized I have a crush on her. then she got back with her scumbag bf, and thats over, but what the hell do I do now???
I'm superconfused.[more info, ask]
like how was alex trying to make u stare at her breast? are you sure it wasnt your imagation. and so what if she talks about her period, my friends do that.
and Becky is having some relationship prombles, she is going off and on with her boyfriend that means their relationship needs to be shorted out, if you like her tell her.
so far its hard to answer this because i need more info about this question.
my best friend zach, and now x-boyfriend, got locked up october 1, 2006. we had been writing for a long time untill it was time for his court date and that was the last letter i got. after that, they sentinced him for a longer time and also said he was not aloud to write me. durring that period that he wrote me, and when i found out that he couldnt write anymore, i cried every night. he ment so much to me. we told eachother everything and then it was like he fell off the earth. its hurt me ever since.
BUT since then, ive gotten a new boyfriend jordan. but i keep having dreams about zach. it used to be just silly dreams like him comming back and how happy i was to see him and what i did when i saw him. usually somewhat of the same dream. but once in a while, i get a wierd dream, and last night i woke up wanting to cry because in this dream i called zachs parents and told them to let him call me because if he didnt i was going to forget about him. he called me that night, and was like "please dont forget about me, dont leave me. i love you, you love me. please dont." and i just said "im sorry i cant, i cant do this i love jordan." he was just begging me and that hurt me so much eventually in my dream i was like "im sorry zach, i have to go..." and hung up the phone. the wierd part was i was like watching it from above. and it upset me all day...
so i guess im asking if anyone wants//could interprate my dream for me because im so lost. its just hurting me inside so bad. thank you.
Okay the last people that left you that advice are pretty well said. I agree on both of their answers that they gave you. Now my advice is a little different. When I dream I look it up in a dream dictionary and look up the symbols I dreamt about. For example if I dream about an apple and when I ate it and my teeth become gold. Well the symbols are: 1) Apple 2) ate 3) teeth 4) gold. I look up the meaning of those things and read what it means. Okay what I read so far you dreamt about:
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1) Phone: To dream that you are having a telephone conversation with someone you know signifies an issue that you need to confront with that person. This issue may have to do with letting go some part of you
2) Parents: symbolizes power, shelter, and love.
3) ex-boyfriend:
A) to see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
B) To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
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I hope that makes senses, if you can remember other things in the dream let me know in my inbox. And I would gladly interrupt it for you. (I go to http://www.dreammoods.com/)
I like this boy at school. I realy love hime so much. But, he doesnt like me.When I try to talk to him and tell him how I realy feel about him, I get nurvouse. What should I do?
Ask him if he likes Someone, if he replies’s no try to say, I’m interested to someone, and then tell him who it is like describe the personality of him and see if he gets the hint. Look him in the eyes or try if he not looking and flirt a little by touching his hand or leg.
Or
If he says yes he likes someone ask who it is. But still tell him (of the opinions I gave you.)
I hope I help, anymore question just send it to my inbox.
Okay so theres ths guy that i really like: (im gunna put it in like..bullets so its easier to read):
-and it all started last month around the beginning of March.
-and we've met before but never really talked much because we dont go to the same school but he lives in the same town as me.
-we work at the same place, and thats basically how we started talking.
-so over the weeks in March, we started to text all the time everyday; from the time we'd wake up to the time we'd go to sleep.
- everything was going good and i got the chance to get to know him a bit more and he seemed like a really sweet guy. just had bad luck with past relationships because of the way he was treated.
- only problem: we never got the chance to hang out because i had drivers ed 3 times a week, basketball 2 times a week and work on the weekends.
-->this was a problem because he was always bugging me about hanging out but i nevr had the time to.
So everything was going pretty good.
APRIL:
-So he then invites me like..last minute to some semiformal thing on a tuesday and the semi is on that saturday.
--im not able to go because my parents dont know him and i wasnt getting great grades at the time.
--> so saturday comes and hes like..really reallyyy sad i cant go.
--> a couple weeks go by, and everythings still going good.
--> then all of a sudden one day, he just starts acting wierd. and this carries on for 3 days.
- so i had to work one of the days and he was like "oh maybe ill stop by"
--> so he stops by and we didnt talk but just smiled at each other. he stayed for maybe an hour.
- so after work, i check my messages and there are three from him explaining how he was sorry he acted the way he did.
--> so days go by and then its vacation.
since i go to a catholic school in a different state but i live in the same state as him and he goes to public school in the state we both live in, our vacation is different.
- i ended up giong to florida for vacation for a week.
we texted the whole time i was down there and things seemed to be fine.
-until the last 2 days i was down there, he didnt respond to my txt messages.
so i was worried something was wrong.
-i get back from vacation, all happy to be home (sadly haha) and then i just look on his myspace, since i dont have one (not allowed) and it says "in a relationship"
--> so im like...ohh great what the hell happened now? then he signs on that night and tells me that his phone has been dead and it wont hold the charge.
so i asked him why it said "in a relationship" on his myspace and hes all like "What? i thought u werent allowed on myspace? i thought it was blocked? and im like...noo....its not blocked. i jsut cant have a myspace"
so then hes like...about that...i thought u were jsut leading me on the whole time and we havent even hung out yet so i was getting tired of it.
so iim like...okay, i told you before vacation that after i got back, we could hang out because drivers ed would be done with. and hes like..well i dont remmeber that and you didnt seem like you were interested in me that much because you never made plans to hang out.
--> i definetly remember making plans to TRY to hang out but they didnt work because of drivers ed.
and now he just wont talk to me or anything, and i dont know what to do.
what would you do if you were me?
Thanks,
steph
If i was you i'll realize this guy is not into me. i mean if he really likes you he'll wait for you when ever you got the time. dont waest your time on this guy, cause he seem like he is asshole. I'm sorry that you have to go thourght that. you need someone that wont care how busy you are and will have to wait no matter what.you did try to make time but you got important things to do and he should've respect that. so i would forget about him and move on. and if he realize how dum he was then he might crawl back to you. but still try not to trust every thing he says or do cause i was played before and it hurts. hope that helps.
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