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does he like me?!?


Question Posted Saturday August 11 2007, 10:17 pm

AHHH!!
please helpp.
okayy this is going to be kinda longg but sum1 please please please help mee

i like this guy and ive liked him for a while
he told me when we 1st became friends he didnt go out with freshman
and i respected that
so i waited until the end of the year
and nothing happened
but he kept flirting with me constantly..i mean like unclip my bra in the middle of class, kick my chair, always whipser stuff to me ( we have close last names so we sat close to each other)
and we would hang out everyday and when we hung out he would lay on me ( ex. my boobs)
and we would watch scary movies and cuddle
and he would call me everynight (school nights) and we would talk for like 3 or 4 hours until like 2 in the morning
but anywayy..thats the info you sorta need to know

just recently i told him i liked him and i asked how he felt back..he totally changed the subject and i asked him again and he signed off (i did this online) but the 2nd time he calls me later and asks me to sneak out with him...i didnt go.

so finally i bugged him so much and i got an answer..
he told me he liked me but prolly nuthings gunna happen between us and i was crushed and im told him i was confused cuz he "likes me alot" but "probably nothings going to happen becuase he cant predict the future"
and i cried for about a week
i really think i love this guy

and you know i wasnt letting him hold me back i hooked up with this other guy and he found out
he was CRUSHED. he was so mad he brought a bat the next time he knew i was with him
and then he told me he didnt want to ask me out becuase he "didnt want to ruin our friendshp"
and my couin whos 30 ( i talked to her about this)
told me thats a bunch of sh*#%
and she said to see is he relle likes me..dont im him..call him ..hang out with him and if he realizes it then hell do something
so it was abotu 2 weeks and i get a random im "hi i miss you =["
so she told me that he just likes to be liked and now that im showing him i dont care hes realizing like oh sh*% maybe shes moving on

but grrr i like him soo much
and i dont know what to do
pleasee shud i im him?
does he like me?

im soo sorry this is so long by the way
but please,,, HELPP!!

thanksss in advance !! <33


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chelle1862 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 8:07 pm:
first off, i would talk to him about it...and i dont mean on aim or im...i mean face to face. because face to face means so much more, and he will probably be more open to you knowing that its just you & him (he might think its a joke or someone is near you reading your convo with him over the interent) but when you talk face to face everything meas so much more.

<33 Chelle

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hershikissescanhelp answered Sunday August 12 2007, 3:19 pm:
HEY! First off, i understand how you're feeling and if i were you, i'd be confused too. Apparently, this guy is playing with your heart. Your trusting him with your heart, and all he's doing is just dropping it, over and over and over again. This guy likes to be liked. He likes the feeling that, a girl is obsessing over him.He DOESN'T like you. And every time he breaks your heart, he realizes what he did and tries to suck up to you..like ex. oh i'm sorry, or it's not going to work, or maybe we can just be friends..KRAP LIKE THAT..the best thing to do is just, FORGET about him.I have been in a VERY similar situation, as you are currently in right now, so i understand that you can't just get rid of your feelings over him, it's going to take time..maybe alot of time, but it's not good to like a guy, that is toying with your emotions and is basically wasting your time. Your beautiful, smart, and funny. you deserve better, a guy that will actually be upfront about his feelings and like you as much as you will like him.

HOPE I HELPED

***HERSHI WISHES HUGS AND KISSES***

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Lost_3v3rytim3 answered Sunday August 12 2007, 3:01 pm:
You should call him or meet him or IM him, but you have to tell him about how he is playing with your emotions, this guy needs to respect your feelings and his playing hard to get or very confused on what he wants. Tell him this: I like you and I always did, you being very close to me and jealous when I was with that other guy. You are not respecting how I feel and I want to know do you like me more than a friend?"

I been threw this and I hate when the other person is playing games (and that’s what he is doing) it is not fair for you and you are dieing to know. I hope this works out.

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kimberlygal answered Sunday August 12 2007, 1:04 pm:
IM HIM GIRRL!
BEFORE HE MOVES ON AND THINKS YERR OVER HIM.
yerr obviously not over him,
and yahh HE IS CRAZY FOR YOU.
please im him before he finds someone else.

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