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what does my dream mean??
my best friend zach, and now x-boyfriend, got locked up october 1, 2006. we had been writing for a long time untill it was time for his court date and that was the last letter i got. after that, they sentinced him for a longer time and also said he was not aloud to write me. durring that period that he wrote me, and when i found out that he couldnt write anymore, i cried every night. he ment so much to me. we told eachother everything and then it was like he fell off the earth. its hurt me ever since.
BUT since then, ive gotten a new boyfriend jordan. but i keep having dreams about zach. it used to be just silly dreams like him comming back and how happy i was to see him and what i did when i saw him. usually somewhat of the same dream. but once in a while, i get a wierd dream, and last night i woke up wanting to cry because in this dream i called zachs parents and told them to let him call me because if he didnt i was going to forget about him. he called me that night, and was like "please dont forget about me, dont leave me. i love you, you love me. please dont." and i just said "im sorry i cant, i cant do this i love jordan." he was just begging me and that hurt me so much eventually in my dream i was like "im sorry zach, i have to go..." and hung up the phone. the wierd part was i was like watching it from above. and it upset me all day...
so i guess im asking if anyone wants//could interprate my dream for me because im so lost. its just hurting me inside so bad. thank you.
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Okay the last people that left you that advice are pretty well said. I agree on both of their answers that they gave you. Now my advice is a little different. When I dream I look it up in a dream dictionary and look up the symbols I dreamt about. For example if I dream about an apple and when I ate it and my teeth become gold. Well the symbols are: 1) Apple 2) ate 3) teeth 4) gold. I look up the meaning of those things and read what it means. Okay what I read so far you dreamt about:
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1) Phone: To dream that you are having a telephone conversation with someone you know signifies an issue that you need to confront with that person. This issue may have to do with letting go some part of you
2) Parents: symbolizes power, shelter, and love.
3) ex-boyfriend:
A) to see an old ex-boyfriend from childhood in your dream, refers to a freer, less encumbered relationship. The dream servers to bring you back to a time where the responsibilities of adulthood (or marriage) didn't interfere with the spontaneity of romance. You need to recapture the excitement, freedom, and vitality of youth that is lacking in your present relationship.
B) To dream that your ex-boyfriend is giving you advice about your current relationship, suggests that you unconscious is telling you not to repeat the same mistakes that you had made with this ex-boyfriend.
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I hope that makes senses, if you can remember other things in the dream let me know in my inbox. And I would gladly interrupt it for you. (I go to [Link](Mouse over link to see full location))
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You never had closure he just stopped talking to you thats your minds way of giving you closure so you can be with your new bf. Sometimes our minds like to give us friendly reminders. Its just your minds way of letting go and moving on since you arent physically with him to tell him goodbye
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well it turns out that you have been having that dream cause you love him. But as you said you got a new boyfirend that you do love now since zach is in jail you can't just beat youself up about it. Maybe that dream about saying goodbye was a way of you letting go of him and spending more time with the person you love now. We all lose people we love sooner or later in dealth in break ups and we get over just the same way.
john
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i'm not someone who studies dreams particularly well, but i'll try for the sake of you.
it looks like you miss zach [a given] and that you might still love him but are forcing yourself to get over him because you're with jordan now and you feel you have an obligation to him as a girlfriend. [sorry for the run-on sentence.]
if you don't still love him, you might just miss him as a really good friend who you could tell every to, but its been a while and you don't want to be awkward when you finally get into contact with him again.
do not hold it against me if i'm wrong, but i really hope i helped. :3
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