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What should I do?
Hey guys
17/m
Here's the deal.
I like this girl. I mean, i like her a fair bit. But i'm not sure if she likes me back or not. I mean, recently she has been saying in quizzes (i know not the greatest source of all knowledge in the world) that she isn't sure if she fancies someone. And its just the timing is kind of coincidental. So I was just wondering what you guys think I should do?
See, i don't want to say anything and potentially ruin what could be a good friendship, but then again if i don't take the chance i probably never will.
So yeah, I was just wondering what you guys thing I should do.
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Well, you have to make your mind up bud. hahaah Do you like her? It seems to me you really do. Just keep talking to her everyday and you'll find out more about her and you'll see who she likes or if shes even ready for a boyfriend yet.
You have to be patient and find out more about her!
I hope I helped! that was a hard one.
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-Speakfreely
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ok this is kind of hard, i know im younger then you but ill do my best.
i dont think you should plainly come out and tell them, because that has gone wrong a lot for me. you could say oh i dont want our friendship to be ruined, but i kinda like you. that sometimes doesnt work, depending on the person. things may get awkward.
just flirt with her a little, your a guy and i expect you know how to flirt. show her that you have feelings for her without actually telling her. speak more with your touch rather than your mouth, that way you'll be able to see if she flirts back a little. also hang out with her more, ask her to go to the movies, which is the best place to flirt, or the mall where you could talk, and she probably likes shopping.
hope that helps a little :]
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You know what they say, no guts no glory.
There is a way to see if she likes you without jeopardizing your friendship. Call her up out of the blue one night and tell her you're really bored. Then, casually ask her to go see a movie or go bowling. That way, it isn't an official date, yet you two can still have fun together.
Casually drop hints that you think she's a really great girl and you'd like to get to know her better, you know what I mean?
Try to spend more time with her and flirt a little bit. You'll know if she likes you back if she flirts.
I say take a chance and ask her out. One little date couldn't possibly ruin a friendship.
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Hey. Im a 17 year old female and while its hard at times and kinda scary....I suggest that you tell this girl how you feel, be completely honest with her and also tell her that you admire her friendship. If this really is a good friendship then I am sure she will hear you out and listen to what you have to say...Also if she isnt sure if she fancies someone then maybe ya'll could take things slow and see where things lead you...
I hope I helped and Good Luck...
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I have been in the same situation SOOO many times with boys. (except not the ones that involve quizzes :])
BE HONEST WITH HER! What you should do is straight up tell her that you would want NOTHING to ruin your friendship, but for some time that you have liked her more that a friend. Tell her you have feelings for her and that you want her to tell you if she has feelings for you.
And as for the quiz thing- maybe it is you, or maybe its someone else. You never know. So ask her, and see if she feels the same ;)
HOPE I HELPED HUN
xoxo
-Peach
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