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How to get with a certain girl
I am a male in high school. There is a girl I really like that Ive only seen at a class once a week for a couple of years. I want to ask her out but Im pretty shy and I dont know if she likes me. I am pretty friendly to her but I dont talk to her a whole lot, probably because I dont know what to say around her. How do you think I can get her to notice me and go out with me eventually?
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If i were you i would talk to her more often give her compliments and sit with her but i wouldnt be her friend cause once you reach that its even harder to get her to say yes cause she can only see you as a friend but if you reach that stage just dont stay there forever be risky girls like dat
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I think that you should start talking to her on a daily basis. It dosent have to be anything extreme just a hey whats up everyday....After you've been sayin hey everyday start with small talk...like how's your day going? hows your weekend? have you seen that new movie.....stuff like that?
While getting to know her- make sure you listen to what she says because girls LOVE when a guy listens and notices things...like complimenting her and things like that.
After a while, maybe she'll feel comfortable enough around you to give you her number...if not- offer her yours. Just take things slow and when you think the timing is right- ask her out...
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I think that you should start talking to her more, and if you cant think of anything to say, give her a complement! girls love that! just be really sweet to her. also try to find out what kind of things shes into like music, art, sports, and talk about that. then i think if you can start talking comfortably and your not nervous anymore, just ask her out! just walk up and say Will you go out with me? or something like that!
I hope i helped!
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I don't think you should just ask her out randomly. Get to know her first. Find ways to strike up a conversation. Start talking with her. You can bring up school, friends, outside activities, places in your area, etc. You can also talk about common interests. Basically, if you're really nice & friendly & talk to her randomly, you'll grab her attention. Be a friend to her first. Don't scare her off by asking her out right away. She'll notice you more when you become better friends. I'm not saying you have to talk to her every day, but a few times a week would be a good starting point. Just be friendly & smile a lot. She'll take notice. Once you become better friends & become more comfortable with each other, ask her to hang out & go from there.
-hope that helped!♥
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