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my boyfriend is being weird around me.
Well im 14 and i have been with my boy friend for 9 months. and lately he hasnt really been talking to. kinda like avoiding me. i dont know what i should. i mean i call him and try to talk to him. and normally we talk for a couple hours. but he tends to be like "i gotta go bye" after like 15 minutes on the phone. i dont know if its something i did.
what should i do?!
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well just dont keep calling him, i mean guys hate being bugged about things like that. i know you wnat to because you feel like you need to fix the problem, but just let him have his space for a bit, and soson he will relize that he miss's you! and everything will work out,
let me know how it goes :)
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you know what you should do? don't talk 2 him yet , maybe he is just bored with the relationship and i think it would just annoy him.
ok first don't call him that often anymore. if you've been calling him everyday , trie calling him every second day from now on. he's gonna start thinking about you and what you're doing that is more important....lol
then when you do call him you gotta be just like him. just say "i gotta go bye". that way he'll now how you feel!
maby he's gonna get the message that way and is gonna care a bit more about you.
it will also get him 2 wonder whats going on , and that will make the relationship a bit more interesting. guys get bored if your making the whole thing so easy. be misterious and stuff like that. trie 2 act like it doesn't really bother you that much.
i know this is probably weird , but trie that it really works!!!
but don't completely avoid him. you still have 2 let him know that u love him , just trie and keep ot on the down low lol
hope everything works out
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Talk to him about it, nobody else can answer his actions but him.
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ok, well just take a deep breath and relax. Maybe he just needs some space for a little bit. You might need some too. Like not breaking up but just talking every-once in a while. Maybe he's busy and can't talk long.
If worst does come to worst
he might be interested in someone else
which is scary. Just ask him like the first 5 minutes you talk ask him and be like
hey is everything alright?
you know don't be too concerned or worried just be calm about it.
good luck!
-stephanie
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