|
why are some guys are players?
why are some guys are players? and do you think nice guys arent that attractive because they are"nice"?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category?
Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
There are many reasons why a guy can be a player.First reason is that he can be a total ass and just want attention and wants girls to like him and loves popularity.Second reason is that when guys see sluts they think...why not?When a girl is all over a guy,he uses her,and why wouldnt they if the girls all over him and disrespecting herself?Third reason can be that hes getting revenge for one of his freinds that like the girl but the girl didnt like him back.There are maaaany reasons as to"why" guys are players.Most of all they do it for attention though.I think that attractive guys arent all mean,but there are some that are and its because they can be arrogant and think that everyone loves them for their looks.But ofcourse not all of them.Unattractive guys arent always nice either,some are and some arent.But usually unattractive guys are nicer then attractive iones,cuz they dont only care about their looks
]
ok well this is actually kinda complicated but i'll try to explain
first off, some guys are players because they're just plain selfish. they feel they're not getting enough out of ONE relationship (like making out or sex or anything like that), so they have two or more. myself being a guy, i don't think it's right when other guys cheat or do stuff just so they can get laid.
the next thing: not all nice guys are unattractive. with what i'm told, i'm a really nice guy. and i've also been told by quite a few people that i'm incredibly good looking. (sure that sounds vain, but it's the truth). it's just a myth that all the good looking guys are players. maybe you just don't know any of them that aren't.
there ya go
]
Why be a player? It's kind of a status symbol. Men are 'supposed to bang as many girls as they can'. At least, that's the idea that Hollywood and the music industry are conveying.
As for nice guys not being attractive... I have a friend who has only dated jerks. You know why? She judges based on looks first, personality later. I'm different, though. Every guy I've ever dated (including my current boyfriend) was a sweetie. To me, a guy being nice makes up for any deficiencies he might have looks-wise.
]
i think that the nice guys can be attractive to some girls
but then players
mainly it's like
girls sometimes like guys
they feel they cant have
and that's they "players'
message
to me anyway
and i know what you meann
but i think nice guys scare some girls away sometimes because they are nice and think maybe they'll get to attatched?
but usually most guys aren't like that
but i do not like players
they jus go around and hurt girls
for no reason
it's pretty pathetic if you ask me
but that's my answer =)
stick with the nicer ones
just try to see who they really are.
not what they seem to be.
]
Some guys like to see how many girls they can get. It's like a game for them (hence PLAYER) to see how many girls they can get to fall for them. They like the challenges of having many girlfriends. And like a chase. You know when you play the same game seven times and know everything, it gets boring. That's what girls are to a player, a game. And once a girl gets boring, he'll drop her and go to the next fun "game". Guys are players because they like this real life game, its simply fun for them. They don't realize they're hurting a girl.
Nice guys aren't unattractive just because they're nice, but to some girls they may be. For most girls, they like spats and scathing remarks, they'd rather have a jerk. Both are bad, the "nice guy" and the "jerk". Nice guys may let you walk all over them, which isn't good. A relationship should be both helping each other. Jerks can be too jerky and may come out verbally abusive.
The best guy in my taste is a funny, nice, yet still witty guy. Certainly not a guy who'd drop you when you get bored.
]
More Questions:<<< Previous Question: hugs?
| Next Question >>>
|
|