Heeeyy. (:
I'm Delesha.
I'm a 15, and a girl who always tries to make the right choices.
You need help? I'll always be there to do whatever I can.
Don't be shy with your questions, I'm very open minded.
Laterrrrr.
E-mail: deleshaj@hotmail.com
Gender: Female
Location: Illinois
Occupation: Student
Age: 15
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okay .. i'm 16/f, and my best friend is 16/m.
we met months ago and hit it off and gradually became closer; we are best friends, we love to hang out, talk, we're the first person each other texts, we love to hang out in groups together, and we basically can't get enough and i go to him for anything and vice versa. keep in mind -- this is still strictly friendship, we harmlessly flirt, it's no big deal, this is just how we were.
last night we went to a party type thing. we got dared to kiss, and him being my best friend, we were just like alright no big deal. so we kissed for 5 seconds.. and ever since, i just kept thinking about it. i didn't think anything of it for the next day or anything, we hung out and i didnt feel anything different, no emotional feelings attached, same with him..
but we were texting and talked about last night, and at first it was harmless again no emotional feelings attached, and then it got more intense.. mentioned how we could simply do it again and it wouldn't be a big deal, like on a dare again or something. suddenly my stomach began to get butterflies in them after an hour of texting.. i did NOT know where they came from.. it's been so long since i felt that, and now i'm utterly TERRIFIED of liking him. because i can not not not let our friendship go to waste.
ever since the butterflies - which began about half hour ago, currently still texting him - ive been sweating slightly and nervous, and i dont feel the same talking to him now.. i dont feel like we're just best friends, i feel the butterflies now and i feel like he's a different person..
what do i do, i can't let this friendship go to waste, i can't let things be any different.. i NEVER thought i'd feel this way. maybe i just need to sleep on it, but just in case things don't change, here i am...
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Okayy...
No joke, this actually happened to me yesterday..only slightly different.
I Suggest:
1) If You Want To Be More Than Just Best Friends- You should just talk about it with him, casually bring it up. I'm 15 and so is my best friend. We dated last summer and I broke up with him because we were best friends and I thought it was awkward. But yesterday we talked about when we dated, and he asked if I missed him. I'm not the confident, out-going kind of girl..but just like the person below me I thought "I'll never know for sure where I stand with him if I think 'what if?'. So I asked him if he thought it would be weird if I said yes because I didn't want to ruin what we had. He said no, so I told him I missed him more than anything. And..he told me he felt the same way. So don't worry about it, if he truly cares about your friendship he won't let anything get in the way of it, and who knows maybe he likes you too. (:
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2) If You Want To Just Stay Friends- Just don't say anything about the kiss or even tell him about the butterflies you have in your stomach. You might just be feeling awkward because he said maybe you could kiss again. But personally, I think if you feel that you might honestly like him..you should go for it and see where it leads. Maybe he could wind up being the love of your life and you didn't know it. (:
I hope I helped..good luck! (:
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Im 13 and im a 7th grader. At the end of the year there is a sunsplash trip and i wight like 165 and i want to wear a bathing suit but i cant right now and iv'e tried eating well i went to fitness camp but still kno resuts.
please help. if u kno wut i shoud do please tell me (link)
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Dude that is s werd im the same age grade and weight im like 5 ft 6-8 inches maybe at most and imhaving troube too but usually it hels me a lil wen i have track ptice for me it really doesnt go away but i feel healthier ...we aegoi to holiday world summer thats kinda weirdwe av those things in common
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any form of water that falls from a cloud is called what?
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Dont listen to the 1st person its called precipitation lol hope i helped leave a feedback please!!!
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hey there i was wondering if anyone could recomend some good sad songs, preferably hip hop, but i listen to anything if it's good. Thanks in advance. (link)
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ok the person below me had a bunch of songs but i think this one sums it all up Runaway Love By Mary J. Blige ft. Ludacris...its about tennage girls who are either abused or feel like they just dont feel like they fit in...here are the lyrics please leave a feedback tellin me how you like the song!!! PLZ listen to the Song!!!!
[Hook - Mary J. Blige]
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
Runaway love
[Verse 1 - Ludacris]
Now little lisa is only 9 years old
Shes tryin to figure out why the world is so cold
Why shes all all alone and they never met her family
Mamas always gone and she never met her daddy
Part of her is missin and nobody will listenin
Mama is on drugs gettin high up in the kitchen
Bringin home men at different hours of the night
Startin with laughs--usually endin in a fight
Sneak into her room while her mamas knocked out
Tryin to have his way and little lisa says 'ouch'
She tries to resist but then all he does is beat her
Tries to tell her mom but her mama don't believe her
Lisa is stuck up in the world on her own
Forced to think that hell is a place called home
Nothin else to do but some get some clothes and pack
She says shes bout to run away and never come back.
[Hook - Mary J. Blige]
Runaway love [x8]
[Verse 2 - Ludacris]
Little nicole is only 10 years old
Shes steady tryin to figure why the world is so cold
Why shes not pretty and nobody seems to like her
Alcoholic step dad always wanna strike her
Yells and abuses, leaves her with some bruises
Teachers ask questions she makin up excuses
Bleedin on the inside, cryin on the out
Its only one girl really knows what she about
Her name is lil stacy and they become friends
Promise that they always be tight til the end
Until one day lil stacy gets shot
A drive by bullet went stray up on her block
Now nicole stuck up in the world on her own
Forced to think that hell is a place called home
Nothin else to do but some get some clothes and pack
She says shes bout to run away and never come back.
[Hook - Mary J. Blige]
Runaway love [x8]
[Verse 3 - Ludacris]
Little erica is eleven years old
Shes steady tryin to figure why the world is so cold
So she pops x to get rid of all the pain
Cause shes havin sex with a boy whos sixteen
Emotions run deep and she thinks shes in love
So theres no protection hes usin no glove
Never thinkin bout the consequences of her actions
Livin for today and not tomorrows satisfaction
The days go by and her belly gets big
The father bails out he aint ready for a kid
Knowin her mama will blow it all outta proportion
Plus she lives poor so no money for abortion
Erica is stuck up in the world on her own
Forced to think that hell is a place called home
Nothin else to do but get her clothes and pack
She say shes about to run away and never come back.
[Hook - Mary J. Blige]
Runaway love [repeats til end]
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okay, so i play volleyball, but i dont know if that has to do with anything. So at random times, my shouders feel on fire, like the top of my shoulders (where the shoulders are flat and even out at the bottom of your neck) i dont understand what causes it, and i dont know how to get rid of it. it feels as though nothing can get rid of it and i am uncomfortable for a long time...even when i lay down. help? ill take anything (link)
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yea, i play volleyball too...listen the person below me they are right. Just try to rest your shoulders. If that doesnt work try icy hot and bengay Hope i helped
plz leave a feedback -Lesha
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Well, my school is having a talent show. I suck at singing only... I can only sing in Japanese good! *laughs* Weird huh? Well, I was wondering if anybody had the lyrics to the Fighting Dreamers song that they used for the 4th season, I think it is, of Naruto. Or maybe the lyrics to these songs too:
Soramimi Cake/ By: Perfume
The Mean Kitty Song/ By: Cory Williams
Yellow Moon/ By: Akeboshi
Wind/ By: Akeboshi
Thank you so much! :3
p.s please, no rude comments on the Japanese music. I do not like Nazi's. :3 (link)
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Go to www.hotlyrics.net it has the best lyrics you can get!!! hope i helped :]
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okay well there is this guy that i like.
and like he always says like, even if i havent said anything like don't speak, or did i ask you to speak, but he like smiles at the end.
could that be a sign he could like me?
like there are other things, but i just want to know about that, like is he just being obnxious or do guys do that if they like a girl? (link)
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He might like you. You will never know if you dont play around back. Next time he says it to you say something like...well technically you asked me to speak if you were asking me a question its polite to answer...i know it sounds a lil gay but im from a country town and that how we talk down here hope i helped a lil please send a feedback!!!
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okay when i have a tampon in should i be able to feel it if i stick my finger up my vagina?like of course you can feel it but should it be like right therE? (link)
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When you insert it, it should feel completely comfortable. If you walk and it hurts or anything you might want to try inserting it a new way. It should be in far enough where its comfortable but you shouldnt be able to feel it...hope it helps ♥
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Me and my BFF(rachel) both like the same guy(Zach). I know she is angry that i flirt w/ him. I get angry when she flirts w/ him. Yes, i have talked to her about what would happen if one of us went out w/ him. She says shes fine w/ it. But it was so obvious that she wasn't a few days ago(when we had a "party" and he was there). I feel really bad about flirting w/ him and i have nightmares about me going out with him and kissing and she gets angry and runs away and never speaks to me again.
I am going to ask him if he likes one of us this weekend. Is there any way that IF he likes me that i can go out w/ him and still make my friend happy???? I know it's complicated buyt please help. Any advice is GREATLY appreciated!!! (link)
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i think that if she was a true friend she would not care if you went out with him and understood that he likes you more than he does her and if you ask him this weekend and he says he likes your friend you shood consider the same she wood have to you cant do anything bout it dont try to conflict the relashonship becuz it would break u to up over a silly boy hope i helped :P leave a comment
♥ lesha
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theres this song on a commerical and it goes;
"can i have it like that? you got it like that. Can I have it like that? You got it like that"
does ne one know what that song is and hoo sings it? thanks. (link)
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the person below me is right its can i have it like that by gwen stefani and pharrell williams
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Im a white 17/F..and i like a black guy name Tyron..the more i see him and spend time with him the more i like him...we both know we are very attracted to eachother and we want to date but there is one big problem..my parents..my dad already told me that i was forbidden to date a black guy..and my mom is worried that i will date one..im soo upset because im not the racist type..when i see Tyron i dont see black..i just see HIM. Hes a wonderful guy..im sooo hurt over this..what should i do? (link)
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do not listen to yur parents if you really lik this guy you need to do sumthin about it if you dnt later in life you would be thinkin wat wood of happened if i went out wit him and thur is NO reason y any one shood b racist if god didnt want any black ppl on the earth he woodnt hav any thats like a blck person i dont lik white ppl nuttin is wrong wit our race its our personalities its good yur not racist but srry to tell you this yur parents are fucikin bastards for thinkin tht
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you know how guys always call their girlfriend "my girl"?
well what would girls call their boyfriends,besides "my guy" because thats dumb (link)
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the most common i have heard is my man hope i helped leave a comment :D
-Lesha
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okay. i have NOTHING that vibrates and i am not getting anything that vibrates anytime soon. is there any thing else i can use to masturbate? plez help. i am horny and i don't know what to use.
thx (link)
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idunno if you are a boy or gurl but if you r a gurl sumthin i do is use the water in the bath tub wen u get in da tub let the water "flow" over it....it might work if u r a boy 2 idunno hope i helped leave a comment :D
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hey i'm a guy hust wondering what kind of hair girls might like- long, short, spiky, whatever. Just say what you would like thanx! (link)
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hey i love guys with long hair kinda swept to the side lik the person below me said you go gurl cuz jason dolley is hott but you do wat you wanna do wat ever you think is most comfortable :D
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how do i make out? i can't just "go with the flow." please help meeee! im so nervous. 29/m (link)
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ok do my answers sound lik i care mayb u have had a hard life but everyone does thts how life is so deal wit it
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Can you do anything to get rid of butt dimples? If so what can be done? (link)
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just like the person below me said do butt excersuses it does work im not bein funny or anythin but one excercuse is to squeeze your cheeks and let it out hope i hepled leave a feedback :D
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Hey! Help Needed!
15/f is there anything I can use to masturbate besides fingers?
thanx!
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i have the PERFECT thing i do this all the time when you get in the bath tub just let the water flow on your vagina it feels great until you get to your climax you should try it you won't regret it
Hope i helped :D
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when people r talkin about hvin sex and they say they have an orgasm...wats it mean (link)
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srry i made this question hvin was supposed to b havin my bad ppl lol srry
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alright, ive liked this guy john for a long time, ill say since the end of last summer. and finally he asked me out after his best friend bugged him about it for a few days and did a lot of convincing. john asked me out online because he would have been too shy in person, i think. hes really cool like we have the same group of friends (its like a tight group of 10 people) and hes hilarious and not shy when hes with us. but when it comes to girls he has never really told anyone anything about who he liked or anything until recently, he went out with someone else earlier this year and it went badly (they like never talked).
anyway, ive been with him for about 3 days, but it feels like forever. and i like it a lot. its pretty awkward in the physical sense though. like the most i will get out of him is a hug if im realllly lucky. i dont care about the physical relationship though, i realized i just love being with him. but i have always loved hugs and if i could just get a hug from him occaisonally it would make me really happy.
he tends to accidentally hurt himself a lot... or he just does stupid things and i always tell him not to because i hate when he gets hurt. so recently when ive said that he will say im sorry and if were talking online sometimes he will say he will give me lots of high fives and hugs to make it better lol. but he never brings it up in person. is he just too shy for that? how can i make him more comfortable? how can i get a hug out of him? lol i really like this boy so much and if i could get a hug i would be verrry happy. ive been so happy i have trouble eating and sleeping just from him asking me out at all.
sorry that was so long. thanks if anyone can help me out here =] (link)
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okay... i know im not a love expert or anything but it sounds like this boy wants to take it slow ive had a crush on people and i can say ANYTHIN to thm on msn or sumthin bein comfortable but when i see thm in person its WAYYYY different i get butterflies in my stomach and feel awkard maybe even studder a lil it sounds to me like he loves u alot and will do anythin for you but doesnt want to mess the relashonsip up jus tell him straight out you want things to go a little faster and when he's ready tell him......i hope i helped :-D
Lesha
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There's a guy who's my brother's friend. He's older than me by 2 years. He likes to poke me, he likes to come up and talk to me.
At a Scholar Bowl match last year (when we were both in the same scool), he picked an open seat next to me when there were other seats open. At my aunt's house I was sitting on the couch, he rolls me off, and I hit the floor. I get back up he pushes me on to the couch, says 'Rarr!' and pokes me before leaving me alone.
I've never caught him staring at me, but he looks in my eyes for EVERY single second when we talk. At a dance he took streamer and tried to make me a 'mummy' by wrapping streamer around my head, and that's about all I can think of. Do you think he likes me? I think he likes me as a friend but I'm not sure...
PS- I'm a lil tubby, and I'm 2 years younger, so that adds to my confusion.....
I'm a female, and I'm in 8th grade. I've known this guy for a decent amount of time. (link)
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hey sara its delesha i told u to cumto this site its freakin awesome man!!! and the person below me agrees tht me likes you too!! :D :D :D well haha i didnt go to school 2day neither did you..........wat a quinky-dink lol well c-ya monday -Delesha :D
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