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very awkward boyfriend, but i still love him
alright, ive liked this guy john for a long time, ill say since the end of last summer. and finally he asked me out after his best friend bugged him about it for a few days and did a lot of convincing. john asked me out online because he would have been too shy in person, i think. hes really cool like we have the same group of friends (its like a tight group of 10 people) and hes hilarious and not shy when hes with us. but when it comes to girls he has never really told anyone anything about who he liked or anything until recently, he went out with someone else earlier this year and it went badly (they like never talked).
anyway, ive been with him for about 3 days, but it feels like forever. and i like it a lot. its pretty awkward in the physical sense though. like the most i will get out of him is a hug if im realllly lucky. i dont care about the physical relationship though, i realized i just love being with him. but i have always loved hugs and if i could just get a hug from him occaisonally it would make me really happy.
he tends to accidentally hurt himself a lot... or he just does stupid things and i always tell him not to because i hate when he gets hurt. so recently when ive said that he will say im sorry and if were talking online sometimes he will say he will give me lots of high fives and hugs to make it better lol. but he never brings it up in person. is he just too shy for that? how can i make him more comfortable? how can i get a hug out of him? lol i really like this boy so much and if i could get a hug i would be verrry happy. ive been so happy i have trouble eating and sleeping just from him asking me out at all.
sorry that was so long. thanks if anyone can help me out here =]
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okay... i know im not a love expert or anything but it sounds like this boy wants to take it slow ive had a crush on people and i can say ANYTHIN to thm on msn or sumthin bein comfortable but when i see thm in person its WAYYYY different i get butterflies in my stomach and feel awkard maybe even studder a lil it sounds to me like he loves u alot and will do anythin for you but doesnt want to mess the relashonsip up jus tell him straight out you want things to go a little faster and when he's ready tell him......i hope i helped :-D
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