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Heartbreaker


Question Posted Wednesday July 11 2007, 4:45 pm

Theres these 3 guys who all really like me. The bad part is I don't like any of them. I like one of their friends. The cool part is that all 3 hav completely different personalities. I don't know how I should tell them. One of them stands out the most to me and I was close to saying yes but changed my mind. I can't handle hurting them.

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Ashumms answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 6:41 pm:
Like summer_is_love said, if the friend of the three guys likes you back he still may not go for it because of his friendships. But, then again he just might. You don't know until you try.

You should just tell all three guys that you don't have romantic feelings for them. You can tell them that you have feelings for their friend if you would like.

You shouldn't settle for a guy you don't have those butterfly feelings for just because you don't want to hurt his feelings. He will be upset, but he'll move on eventually. It would just hurt him more to find out the truth after you started dating.

You should go for it with the guy that actually gives you the butterfly in your stomach, heartracing feelings.

Remember this: You'll never make a basket if you don't shoot the ball. So shoot it.

Good luck.

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lovestruck823 answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 6:34 pm:
it might hurt them...but you need to let them know the truth...if you dont like them then let them know that

just say you like someone else so you cant like them...its better then leading them on because the more you wait when you finally do tell them they are going to be hurt more

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summer_is_love258963 answered Wednesday July 11 2007, 5:17 pm:
wow. lucky girl lol.
well the bad thing is, if these are the guy you likes really close friends. he porboally wont date you, just for the fact that he doesnt want to ruin his friendships. whichh really suckss for youu huh??

soo my advice to youu, is to try dating the guy that you said stands out the most to you, and if you were close to saying yes then you obviously have some feelings for him, but i could be wrong.

i really hope my advice helped you, and id love it if you'd keep me updated if anything changes. =D

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