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Guy Troubles
13 yr old
female
like i think guyz are intimadated by me cause im pretty and nice and fun. Like, i know tons of guyz who like me (or show signs that they do) and then neva ask me out. I like this guy and me and him became really close as friends and i heard him talkin about taking me to the dance and then he neva asked me to the dance and he didnt ask me to dance at the dance! But, when i saw him at the dance he was all depressed and stared out the window the WHOLE time! So, idk what to do and yah. SO how do i get guyz not to be imtimadated by me and how do i get this guy to ask me out cause i am SOO not asking him out! But one more question: Should the guy or the girl always make the first move? and should the guy always ask out the girl?
PLEASE ANSWER ALL OF MY QUESTIONS!!! THANKS!
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Okay, well if you're right that guys are intimadated by you which is unusual. You should ask some of your friends that are girls then you should ask some of your friends that are guys and see if they find you intimadating or think that other people find you intimadating. In order to stop being intimadating you have to find out what you're doing to be intimadating. If this guy really likes you then he will come around but in the mean time you could get one of your friends to go and drop a few hints saying that you like him and find out if he likes you. Then they could get you two together. It doesn't really matter who makes the first move, but if you make the first move that makes you bold. The guy doesnt' always have to ask the girl out. I hope this helps.
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volunteergirl
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Why should the guy always make the first move? He might be really shy and scared to ask you. It is a scary experience, after all - especially for people of a younger age.
You know what he would think is cool? If YOU made the effort to ask him to go somewhere or hang out. I think girls should do it more and stop waiting for guys to make the first move. If you wait for him, it might never happen.
At least if you ask, you know where you stand and you'll get a clear answer, instead of being confused, like you are now.
As for the part about guys being intimidated by you, how about you tone it down a little. Don't be ignorant around them. Be friendly, smile at them and make the effort.
Not all guys are down with doing all the chasing.
P.S. Don't forget you are only 13 years old. Youhave your whole life ahead of you.
It really shouldn't be top on your list of worries.
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Very few guys are confident enough to actually approach a girl to ask a guy out at your age. Unfortunately, it might take a while before guys actually start to actively ask girls out.
There's absolutely nothing wrong with a girl making the first move. It shows that you're confident and makes it possible for some guys to gather the courage to ask you out later on.
cheers,
stargirl
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ok your 13 you dont need to be worrying bout this
but no its not wrong for girls to ask guy
sometimes you just have to do things urself
guys are clueless
trust me on that one
you could be so obvious that you l ike them
and in the end they still dont get it
so you need to come out and say it
tell this guy you like him and want to go out with him
then see what he does
no guys dont always need to make the first move
sometime the girl has to be the ine to do that
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