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I am afraid to get fingered.


Question Posted Thursday March 22 2007, 3:36 pm

14/f

I have never been fingered in my life, only rubbed.
My boyfriend tried to finger me, and when he BEARLY pushed I asked him to stop because it stung...
Is this normal..i've yet to be fingered because I am afraid..
My question is this:
How bad does it hurt to get fingered..
Or anything along those lines for someone who has never done anything sexual..
:[ help, please.


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L0CACiiTA answered Thursday March 22 2007, 8:25 pm:
When it 1st happens it hurts maybe a little bit depending on ho fast or hard the person is doing it. But it starts to feel good really fast.

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iiyaBABYx answered Thursday March 22 2007, 6:34 pm:
Mm,
to be honest.
it doesn't really hurt that much.


just tell him to go slow
and soft.

and wait until your really wet, since its your first time.

but the sooner he sticks it in.
it wont hurt it'll start to feel really good.

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xoheretohelpox answered Thursday March 22 2007, 6:00 pm:
it doesnt hurt at all, he might be a tad too rough. in that case i think you should practice by yourself because really it doesnt at all. & then have him do it and if it does hurt when he does it but not when you do, its him.

hope i helped
♥

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Razhie answered Thursday March 22 2007, 4:28 pm:
It shouldn't hurt. Might feel a tad tense or uncomfortable if you are nervous and unsure, but it definitely should not be painful.

If it hurts at all, then you did exactly the right thing in telling him to stop.

A humble suggestion, you may try doing it to yourself for a second, to see how it should feel. Teenage boys are prone to making some mistakes down there ;)

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softballchickx28 answered Thursday March 22 2007, 4:13 pm:
It shouldn't hurt too bad unless he is being too ruff, and if he is you should either stop, or ask if he could take it easy. Have fun, you should enjoy it.

Love,
Nicole x0x0

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darkside89 answered Thursday March 22 2007, 3:58 pm:
IT DOESN'T HURT TO GET FINGERED... It's like plesure pain, Like it may just sting for some time but it will go away in a few hours... You dont feel the pain...All you get is the pleasure...So dont be afraid...
Best Of Luck sweetie, xxxxx DaRkSiDe89 xxxxx

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