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How exactly would u position urself if u wanna give a guy a handjob? and is there a 'best' way or a more pleasing way 2 do it?

The position is the best thing to pleasure the guy.

The best way would be them laying down on there back & you strattled over them laying on there legs like below there dick.

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Can you get pregnet on your period?

mm,
do you mean,
if you have sex while your on your period then you CAN'T get pregnant.

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I gave my boyfriend blowjobs maybe 2-3 times every other day. I really enjoy giving them. Is that weird? But at different times, you know? Is that bad for him?

No of course it aint weird.
if you like pleasing your boyfriend, then go ahead,

just becareful,
that your boy don't got any disease down there,
because you don't wanna catch anything.

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im a guy, so any girls that read this will probably think is is a simple question, but i need help. My girlfriend wants me to finger her but shes never masturbated or used tampons, and she says its uncomfortable every time we try. I'm not able to even get half of a finger in her. Any advice?

Well first off to get the girl into the mood is to start making outt and stuff,
touch her butt, and kiss her neck.


Then when you start to get into the pants,
start rubbing her clit slowly to get her wet,
then start fingering her with one finger and if it doesn't hurt her, then use two,

Be very gentle, unless she tells you otherwise.

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why do girls moan when theyre doing sexual stuff? what makes them moan?

mm because it feels REALL REALLY! good,
and usually cant control it. unless their faking it so it seems like the guy thinks they like it.

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16/f
i stayed with one of my friends monday night and we were watching a movie but she fell asleep before it went off and her brother walked by and saw me by myself and asked me why i wasnt asleep yet because it was like around mindnight. i told him i wasnt really that tired and i couldnt fall asleep yet and he asked me if i wanted to come play ps2 with him in the living room and i said sure. well, were playing and all of a sudden he put his hand on my inner thigh and like started rubing but he was still looking at the tv. ive had a crush on him for like a year so i scooted closer and he moved his hand so he could put his fingers under my shorts. i cant really remember exactly how it happened but we ended up fooling around until aorund three but we didnt have sex. well then tuesday before i left that afternoon some girl came over and picked my friends bro up and she said it was his gf and i didnt even know he had one so now i feel really bad but is it really even my fault? i mean, he knew he had a gf and i didnt. isn't it his responsibility to tell me had a gf and he made the first move so waht to do? sorry its so long.

You shouldn't have to do shit,
You didn't know that he had a girl,
and he didn't tell you,


What were you supposed to do?
Ask him and make sure he didn't
You didn't even think bout doin that, yah?

Girl, TRUST: its not your fault.
i promise..

And if anybody else tells you otherwise.
just ignore that.

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Everytime people find out that I haven't had a boyfriend yet, and i'm almost 16, they act all weird about it. I didn't used to have a problem with it...but now..i don't know. its becoming weird to me too. In my opinion [not trying to be self centered] i'm not ugly or anything. Is there something wrong with me? Is it really that uncommon?

Theres nothing wrong with you baby girl.
And that is not uncommon, people think its weird because EVERYBODY has boyfriends and girlfriends before.


Think bout it.
Maybe you havn't found that right person that you wanna share your love with yet.

Keep taking it slow girl,
because all those people that have boyfriends and shit now, are probably having sex, and risking the fact of getting pregnant.

You don't want to go through that.
But once your ready,
and you feel that you found THE ONE boy that you wanna share your love with, then you'll know.

So don't worry bout` it.
I promise.

just wait what God has in store for you.

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what does it mean to have a high metabalism? people tell me i have one because even tho i eat so much i still stay perfectly skinny. why is that?

It basically means that your body burns calories really fast.

So if you play sports or your just very energetic,
you have a very high metabalism.

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About how much times would i have to run up the stairs( 13 steps ) a day to burn a pound or 2 a day?

Thanks in Advance

Okay, time your self.

First start out as fast as you can up then down once.
and see how much time you get down in,

and Then try to set a goal,
until you meet it.

The hardest goal that you make don't stop until you get it.

Drink lots of water,
stretch before and after,
and don't eat sugar, don't eat too much bread.. & carbs.

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well the thing is me and my boyfriend decieded to have unprotectd sex for the first time in our relationship. well i should have had my period 2 days ago and im afraid because me being on birth control i should have had it by now
i want to tell me mom but im afraid because i know she'll be dissapointed, how should i tell her?

Well if you think about it.
if you don't tell your mom, she'll be disapointed even more.


Be honest with her, because thats the only way she'll trust you.

Yah she will be a lil upset.
but honesty is the best thing to have with a mother and daughter relationship.

Don't ever have unprotected sex, even if your on BC, the only time that your perfectly safe from getting pregnant without a condom is if you have sex on your period.. & some people do, do that.

How to tell your mom,
just tell her straight up,
don't try to make lil pathways to what you about to say, just say it, straight up.

No exuses, and don't ARGUE with her,
because that will make it even worse. Just say in your head, "mom your right." if she says things like it was your fault and all that, say "i know mom, your right."

Just be confident.
everything should be iight.
Good Luck

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ive heard alot about itt.
but what exactly is an orgasm?

An orgasm is when your having intercourse or anything else of that nature, it is when you reach the climax of the pleasure, its the stimulation of the sexual organ

So when it feels the best of sexual intercoure

hope i helped.

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15/m
last night my girlfriend was telling me she wants me to finger her next time we see each other. anyway i just want some tips on how to do it. i've never done so (nor has she ever been) and just want to do a good job.

thanks

Well first off to get the girl into the mood is to start making outt and stuff,
touch her butt, and kiss her neck.


Then when you start to get into the pants,
start rubbing her clit slowly to get her wet,
then start fingering her with one finger and if it doesn't hurt her, then use two,

Be very gentle, unless she tells you otherwise.

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how do you give a hand job. like i know that you have to rub the penis but like, how?

Okay,
well, First you need to get in into the mood, iight.

Make out with him, kiss his neck and touch him down there, rub yur ass on his dick and make him want it.


Then once you get into his pants what you need to do is put the hand that you don't use to write on the base of his dick, so you can use your writing hand to rub him.

Take the other hand and make sure that you rub him up and down on his dick, more by the head of the dick.

Go slow then start going fast, then slow down.
Watch his face expressions, cuz that will show how he likes it.

Talk dirty to him,
start moaning, and look at him like your getting pleasured.

And make sure to have a towel or something of that nature so clean it up with if he busts.


I hope i helped.

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okay. so i want to masturbate but i need to get horny. how would i do that? i have two younger sibs her at the house with me so nothing too inappropriate in case they walk in on me. or websites. they don't come over to the computer while i am on so i don't care how inappropriate. and when i am horny are there any house hold items i could use to masturbate? i have nothing that vibrates. imediate answers appreciated. and so are a lot of answers. thank you. oh yeah... 14/female. thx.

Well,
if your afraid of your younger siblings walking in then go into the bathroom or into a room that has a lock for about 10-15 minutes.

To get you horny,
would be too, think of some things that get you in the mood,
watch porn, look at pictures.

What you can use is your fingers, to finger your self

pillow, stuffed animal.. to rub on your clit.

every girl is different,
some girls like getting fingered, and some girls like getting their clit rubbed

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I had sex with this guy that i really really like. It was my first time. And I hated it. It hurt so badly. And I was bleeding a whole lot. Why did it hurt? And why was I bleeding? I am 14/f

Well your you need to kno that your first time isn't going to be most pleasureable thing in the world.

Its going to hurt, because your so tight.
It hurt because he is sticking a big dick down your little hole, and maybe split your skin, and/or popped yur cherry.

and you were bleed because..
yah he did pop your cherry.

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how do you finger somebody?

Well first off to get the girl into the mood is to start making outt and stuff,
touch her butt, and kiss her neck.


Then when you start to get into the pants,
start rubbing her clit slowly to get her wet,
then start fingering her with one finger and if it doesn't hurt her, then use two,

Be very gentle, unless she tells you otherwise.

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this is real embarassing to write, but in my va jay jay there is like some piece of wrinkled skin sticking out. its like a little less than an inch long, and it looks like its dried up, or maybe its just cause im black. and im wondering... what is this? is that the clit? or do i have a female and male pody part? o_o ew but i dont think i pee from there since its before the part i pee. HELP

No that is not a boy/girl body part on you. lol.

And no thats not the clit is that lil ball thing above your hole.

go here if you want to know more.

coolnurse.com

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how do you have sex

How do you have sex?

Mm,
Okay well, you insert the boys penis into the girls vigina, and go up & down.

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I think im ready to lose my virginity.
but i wanna know.
How bad does it hurt when you get popped?
and how much would i bleed?
and for how long?
and how long would it hurt?
thanks

Mm, If the boy that you were having sex with was big, then it will hurt when there about to pop your cherry, if he is small then it will still hurt but not as much, also depends on how far he can go in on the first try of having sex.

You probably wont bleed that much, just a lil bit, and it will also show up a little big on the condom.

And if the boy is big,
and the sex did hurt,
you may feel pain for a few days after.

I hope i helped
-Soraya

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i think im ready to have sex.
but i wanna know, how bad does it hurt when my cherry pops?
and like, how much will i bleed, and for how long?
and how long does it hurt for?

Well it depends on how big the guy hurts.
the small the guy it the less it will hurt the biggere he is the more.

When you pop your cherry it does hurt.

It pretty much depends on your body how much you will bleed,
but normally,
what most people would say you only bleed for a little bit, and not for long at all.


And like i said in the beginning, it might hurt the morning after if the sex hurt.


I hope i helped outt,
-Soraya

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