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There is something wrong with me! Everytime i start liking aguy i change myself (sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad). It's not just my peronallity it's also my intresets! I just want them to like me back! I am so affraid to show "real me", i'm afraid they will never like it!! And I have gotten to the point i don't know who the "real me" is anymore! I have just copied all the guys i have been intrested in and that's it...am i a hoplesscase or is there any light at the end of my tunnel? Please help me!

i had that problem for a long time..what always helps me when i lose myself i go back to my old friends who have always been there for me and i ask them how im not being myself..true friends are honest with you...but i honestly didnt really get much friends and guys untill i strarted acting liek myself im telling you it helps..dont be anyone but yourself cause if you are you will lose youself again and be nothign buy yourself if you wanna get more guys or friends cause theres nothign more annoying than a fake person..hope i helped

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I need some major help.My family and I are at the end of our rope. My mom broke up with her bf and he took all our money saying that he deserved it because of all the times my mom has borrowed from him. Now we dont have any money to pay the bills or anything. I can't confort my mom, which I usually do, because she says something negetive. Im about to cry with all the problems i have with school, friends, and family. Im up to my neck with problems. This is the first time Ive had a problem like this and couldnt concer(sp) it. Im scared and stressed, what should I do. I need it quickly because, i really am about to cry.

im sorry about this whole situation..my mom got married to my step dad less than a year ago and hes a complete jerk and i think basically uses her but i can tell deep inside she doesnt care for him she just cant settle for anyone else..what i do when my mom and him had problems when they were just going out was to comfort my mom by telling her we would get through and just take things day by day and everything will evetually sort things out..keep it in your mind that everything happends for a reason and life isnt always perfect. no one is.just hang in there and have faith in yourselves

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Ok my hair is frizzy! i straiten[sp] it and i use vo5 frizz stuff but it doesnt work and it would look very pretty if there was no frizz. and the part of my hair i think is the worst place. please help and tell me what i can buy thanks/

spray hair spray on your brush..dont soak it..but just spray like far away kinda..2 sprays on it and then brush your hair but if you use too much hair spray your hair will feel weird so dont use too much...it works for me everytime an i straighten my hair almost everyday

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we started balancing equations, and i don't really get it. i mean, i get the math and all that stuff. but for like, if an equation has a polyatomic ion, do you break that down or do you keep its oxidation number?

for example.

1. calcium oxide + water --> calcium hydroxide
2. sodium hydroxide + carbon dioxide --> sodium carbomate + water


can you give me what the balanced equation would be? i can probably go from there.

thanks.

well is it just words??we were given numbers and letters??

oxide and nate mean dif numbers..sorry thats probaly not much help..

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I met a guy, 4 days later he asked if I'd like to hang out at his place, I said yes and went over, after watching movies for hours things got intimate, after he didn't want me to leave so I stayed. The next day he asked me over again so I went and stayed until quite late. And yet again the next day he invited me over and I ended up staying until late into the night. We've chatted on the phone and he's said things like thank-you for calling and that it was nice to hear from me. Am I setting myself up to get hurt or does it sound like he might genuinely be interested in pursuing something with me?

it sounds to me like he likes you alot...just dont let your self get too attached...keep your heart at a distance that he cant reach..put a wall up.but dont shut him completely out

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i don't wear string bikinis or any kind of swimsuit that covers just my private spots or whatever. i want a new swim suit top that covers all of my upper body, like, from the chest to the stomach. i don't have to buy a bottom, since i have a blue boy shorts looking thing, so i'm not really worried about that. is there any sites i can get these tops? please nothing too expensive. like, $15-$20 tops.

thanks.

www.target.com
www.oldnavy.com
sometimes you can get them from dillards or macys

hope i helped

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14-f


do you know of any websites that tell you how to put a tampon in i am too scared to ask my mom even though she wouldnt care.

well girl..im 15 and i started wearing tampons when i was like 13.its really not that hard it just might seem like it..i duno if this website will help you much but its

www.gurl.com its got advice on almost everything..

and try not to be scared to ask your mom shes a girl too and has been in your situation before.

hope i helped ;)

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ok so i want to go out somewhere fun tonight with my mom. where though? if it helps i'm 13/f. any ideas are appreciated.

go shopping or out to eat.or even a movie.or just go walk around somewhere and just talk..sometimes its good to just talk about stuff..

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theres a guy... & he flirts with me all the time. we hung out Monday and he was flirting with me so much and he called me beautiful and all this stuff. then one of my friends tells me today that he likes another girl. I was really upset because I felt stupid... i set my feelings on him and then this happened. i just don't know how i should act around him, because i'm not sure if he still likes me. i mean, i still like him but should i not show it? should i flirt with him even more? should i not even talk to him? any ideas?

dont get too attached guys no girl needs them anyways.but play a little hard to get..but in a flirty way.dont just ignore him..and most importantly be your selff!!!!!and no one else but yourself!

hope it helped.

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how can i talk a girl into kissing me and plz give helpful advise thank you
p.s. im 13 year old boy

welll she has to at least like you and then if you flirt alot and she kinda hints it.go for it..but i duno im 15 yr old girl..i cant remeber 13 that great but thats all i can tell ya.and its always best if you are going out but at least make sure she likes you..sorry not much help :)

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ok. so i have heard this song before, but i've never heard the name of it. i love love love it! but i just don't know what it is. it is a guy singing in it, and it talkes about like, rain and oceans and stuff. and its NOT "Make It Rain" haha jk. its a slow song. it sounds sorta kinda rockish. idk. please don't tell me to google it cause i already tried that. so please help me!!! thank you!

blue october,into the ocean maybe?its a great one.

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What kind of foods can I eat,
to keep my skin clear?

I normally have pretty clear skin,
and dont get acne or pimpes,
maybe the occasional zit, but hardly ever.

But what foods are good for your skin,
and can make your face glow :)?

i duno about foods but i used to have bad acne..but i went to the dematologist but uh dont drink carbinated drinks..that helps alot..and drink alot of water..it works wonders :)

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well, to start with, my boyfriend and i were together for 7 months and i'm pretty sure i loved him. i broke up with him because we fought way too much. for about a week we didnt talk and he literally went crazy..he was extremely heartbroken and he got very depressed and did drugs etc..after a few weeks we became close again..TOO close.. we still hung out and i began telling him i loved him again and it even got to the point where we were kissing and cuddling when we hung out. well, a couple months ago i had told him i hadnt kissed any other guys when i had actually kissed two and he found out and got mad and it started a big ordeal because we were single and i didnt see the big deal. i knew it was wrong that i lied though. anyways, about a month ago i hung out with this guy and started to like him, and my ex boyfriend got extremely mad and called me a liar and said i played him for kissing him and then starting to like another guy..but i couldnt control it..well anyways my ex boyfriend and i decided to stop talking, and about 2 weeks ago he left me EXTREMELY MEAN voicemails calling me a worthless slut, saying he hated me and to burn in hell and im a bitch, etc. i called him back and told him i didnt want us to be hostile (i was crying while talking to him) and he had no right to say that and he told me to stop crying and then he ended up being mean again so i hung up. shortly after, he left me MORE voicemails, not to mention got on aim and called me a whore, etc. needless to say, i completely stopped talking to him. about a week and a half later he called and apologized and i told him i'm glad he apoligized but i cant forgive him right off the bat and were better off not talking because that was just unneccessary and he really hurt me and he said that was fine because he had loved me way too much to be only friends with me. so we havent been talking for about a week and a half and the thing is..I MISS HIM LIKE CRAZY. im trying to move on and i didnt let any of it bring me down..but heres my question..should i begin talking to him..only as friends..and tell him i forgive him..or just let it be and let myself move on? i really do like talking to him and he was always here for me..but yeah..any opinions on what would be best will help! thank you and ahh im so sorry this is so long

comming from one of your best friends..thats hard cause if you miss him you might start to like him again and if you dont talk to him then you might move on...go with your heart..haha

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