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There is something wrong with me! Everytime i start liking aguy i change myself (sometimes for the good and sometimes for the bad). It's not just my peronallity it's also my intresets! I just want them to like me back! I am so affraid to show "real me", i'm afraid they will never like it!! And I have gotten to the point i don't know who the "real me" is anymore! I have just copied all the guys i have been intrested in and that's it...am i a hoplesscase or is there any light at the end of my tunnel? Please help me!
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my friend, there is always a light at the end of the tunnel,it just may take a while to reach it. First thigs first. finding yourself. when you have free time next, sit tdown in your room, by yourself, where your surrounded by stuff you like. (i mean, you like your room, nes pas?) Then take a sheet of paper, and make two columns. one column for stuff youhate, and one for stuff you like. now fill those columns. don't let anything untrue in them. if your not sure it's you talking or the girl who you've changed into to, then don't put it down. i hope i helped.
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Your not a hopeless case. This happens sometimes when someone likes someone.You just need to understand, that if a guy doesnt like you for you, thats their problem and not yours. Everyone is special in their own way. I'm into Jazz, and I like a guy whos not, i'm not changing my preference in music for him, because its something i care about a lot. Get what I'm sayin? The "real you" is still their, you just need to be yourself. Theirs a guy out there that has the same interests as you, you just need to take your time in looking for that guy. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
-Brina
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i had that problem for a long time..what always helps me when i lose myself i go back to my old friends who have always been there for me and i ask them how im not being myself..true friends are honest with you...but i honestly didnt really get much friends and guys untill i strarted acting liek myself im telling you it helps..dont be anyone but yourself cause if you are you will lose youself again and be nothign buy yourself if you wanna get more guys or friends cause theres nothign more annoying than a fake person..hope i helped
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i was the same way when this boy asked me out (my b/f now)he knew me as the real me but then when we started going out i just changed completely.one night my b/f just said to me why am i so different?why have i changed sence we started going out?well,i just said i thought he wouldnt like me if i didnt change and he just said why did i think he asked me out then?he liked me for the real me not for the false me.i know it feels hard to go back to the real you but its who you are and inside you know who you really are.if guys dont like you for who you are then their not worth the trouble of changes just to please them.i hope you realise you are liked by guys for the real you not the you you try to be.GOOD LUCK!xxaoifexxx
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this happens to a lot of people and it just might keep hapenning. its just something we girls do to get attention, but we sometimes make ourselves not as noticable becasue of it. its normal and all you have to do is try to find what you really like. if there is a time your just with your friends, try new things and maybe old ones too and see what you like and try to find the real you. sometimes it takes A GUY to find the real you, like in movies..i know stupid but true. i didnt know who i was at my new school until i finally just found sumthing....and you shuld to, my something was someone who i felt comfortable with, yu really should try to search for something you dont feel wong liking. Its not that great of advice..but i really do hope it helped
Lauren
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