theres a guy... & he flirts with me all the time. we hung out Monday and he was flirting with me so much and he called me beautiful and all this stuff. then one of my friends tells me today that he likes another girl. I was really upset because I felt stupid... i set my feelings on him and then this happened. i just don't know how i should act around him, because i'm not sure if he still likes me. i mean, i still like him but should i not show it? should i flirt with him even more? should i not even talk to him? any ideas?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Friendship? happybabe2 answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 6:12 pm: well either your best friend misheard something or this guy is totally playing you. If i were you i would like lightly flirt back like a fourth of how much he is flirting but maybe flirt with some other guys around him to show him that he isnt the only guy you can get. And if he confronts you about you flirting with other guys then thats a sure sign that hes interested. But play it cool...make him fall for you. If he has you whipped then he has you and thats sometimes a not so great place to be so unless you two start dating try not to like him too much. [ happybabe2's advice column | Ask happybabe2 A Question ]
ammo answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 6:08 pm: Just be yourself. You don't know for certain if there is another girl there (and if there is then I don't know what game he is playing at by wanting this other girl and making you think he has a thing for you as well). Sometimes guys flirt without even realising so this may be the case here as well.
Don't feel stupid though and don't act like anything other than yourself. Be yourself around him and just see what happens but if you are afraid that he may like someone else and is just messing you around then you can avoid the flirting with him. At the end of the day if he still likes this other girl over you then it will be his loss. [ ammo's advice column | Ask ammo A Question ]
chelsead1225 answered Wednesday March 28 2007, 6:04 pm: dont get too attached guys no girl needs them anyways.but play a little hard to get..but in a flirty way.dont just ignore him..and most importantly be your selff!!!!!and no one else but yourself!
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