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Family Trouble
I need some major help.My family and I are at the end of our rope. My mom broke up with her bf and he took all our money saying that he deserved it because of all the times my mom has borrowed from him. Now we dont have any money to pay the bills or anything. I can't confort my mom, which I usually do, because she says something negetive. Im about to cry with all the problems i have with school, friends, and family. Im up to my neck with problems. This is the first time Ive had a problem like this and couldnt concer(sp) it. Im scared and stressed, what should I do. I need it quickly because, i really am about to cry.
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Do yourself a huge favour. The best feeling in this situation is crying. Better yet, get a friend, someone close to you, and cry on their shoulder. Tell them everything that is bothering you. Always remember, things will get better. Maybe soon, maybe later but in the end if you pull together, you will work it out.
I know how it feels to have everything in life just collapse in front of you. Look at it positively and grow from there. While you may have problems with your friends, make sure they know you want them there for you (assuming you do), let them know you need them more than anything. Put your friend problems aside and if you're in a fight be the bigger person and appologize. Even if it wasn't your fault, the other person will see how difficult they have been acting and they will most likely appologize aswell.
Good luck and if you need anyone to talk to, give me a shout.
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Im sincerly sorry you have to go through this.
First you probably cannot afford a physician like the first person said. Therefore i say you talk to someone that is professional and free, your school counsler( if there is one ).
to help with stress:
DONT hold in your tears, cry , its good for you!
Write your feelings down if you cant talk to anyone trust me it will make you feel a bit better.
Take walks and just dont think about it that will help you calm down and feel refreshed.
Also you should consider getting an easy stressless job that way your earning money and it wont stress you out
for example get at job bagging groceries thats pretty easy =]]
or clean up at mcdonalds or a fastfood restaurant
if you need anything else just tell me <3333
god bless you<3
i thought about ure feedback and now i know ure 13 so i got more jobs maybe if u would like ::
- do chores for the elderly
- if its hott wherever you live you can offer to mow the lawn ( ring peoples door bells and ask :] )
- if snowy shovel snow?
- you can put flyers up for babysitting?
you can always tell your mom to get a job maybe if she can?
ohh and dont worry about friends if they are really mean or just plain fake dont bother you dont need them :]
just think about what you want
go after your dreams <3
hope this helped you out even more :]]
keep in touch :]]]
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Oh that is pretty scary. I think you should tell the cops about your moms ex. That is bad!
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im sorry about this whole situation..my mom got married to my step dad less than a year ago and hes a complete jerk and i think basically uses her but i can tell deep inside she doesnt care for him she just cant settle for anyone else..what i do when my mom and him had problems when they were just going out was to comfort my mom by telling her we would get through and just take things day by day and everything will evetually sort things out..keep it in your mind that everything happends for a reason and life isnt always perfect. no one is.just hang in there and have faith in yourselves
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ok.. calm down and relax. First I suggest going to a physician or a counselor. They can really help you with your problems. For school problems, talk to each of your teachers and ask for help. With friend problems... well i really don't know what kind of problems you have with friends but I think It's best to talk to them about it. And with your family... well i don't know how old you are but you can really help by getting a part time job at a store or something. Have a fund raiser, like a car wash or something. Look through your cities job newspaper and see what you can do.
The main idea is to think positive. If you don't think positive, negative things will happen. Sit your mom down and talk to her and say "it's not over yet, we can do this!" Stop crying, because crying won't do anything in life.
I really hope I Helped and everything goes ok. If it doesn't go to a physician or counselor.
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