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so theres this guy
so there is this guy. he really likes me, and i kninda like him, he yougner than me but ive finally decided it doesnt matter. The problem is like a lot of my friends like him and i really cant i mena CANT go out with him becasue im not like that too my friends, but htats not the problem. i think he thinks we ARE going out. last night he text me saying i luv you and all this shit about us, and i couldnt text him baq, dnt remember his reason, but now i dnt know how to tell him were not going out, and that i dnt love him i like him....i dnt know what to do or say, cuz now rumors are going to spread and i cant stop them becasue i dnt go to the same school[[anymore, so i know everyone]] wut shud i do about him and what he thinks our relationship is like, even though i still consider us as just friends
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When you're on IM, just tell him. If you don't, it'd be leading him on & making him think you feel the same when you don't.
Tell him, NOW.
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I think your best bet is to just call him. Tell him straight out that you think the vibe he's getting from you is not what you meant it to be. Just let him know that you just like him, and that your flattered that he cares so much about you, but, its just too much "lovin" right now. Do all of your friends like him or do they just think he's a cute kid or something, because if they dont actually have feeligns for him, you should consider actually going out with him, if thats how you feel. Hope I helped! Happy Spring!
-Brina
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hey, well you need to set the facts straight with that guy. there must be a way that you can contact him. aim, email, letter, phone, text, something. let him know that you like him, but just strictly like not love. also let him know the reasoning of why you wouldnt go out with him. im pretty sure that he will respect that you want to be a good and loyal friend. as for the rumors, denying is all that you can do. dont get annoyed when questioned about it or look like it bothers you that there asking -- even if it really does. if you act like you care even if you do, it will make people want to annoy you even more and they wont stop. you shouldnt let yourself get too bothered with people tho, because as long as you know that its not true, it shouldnt matter. also let the guy know that you do still want to be friends. good luck =].
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