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so my girlfriend and i are really into eachother
and she's given one of her ex's blowjobs and handjobs before
but i've never been with anyone who would do that
whats the right way to ask for one or do i just wait till she goes for it on her own?
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Try going down on her first, see how she feels and she'll likely get the idea. Don't be spontaneous about it though, if you're making out or something, feel her up and she might do the same to you. Just give her the idea, and she'll go for it.
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There isn't really a nice way to tell them to stop without sounding passive and unsure about yourself, in my opinion. You just have to straight up say something like, "You guys are acting really immature, and it's kind of annoying." You have to let them know they are embarrassing you or else they will continue. Hope that helped :)
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i want to put up signs for baking so i can make a little extra money, since i bake amazingly. but i have no idea what to write. any ideas as to a slogan of some sort? (link)
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Try this website for slogans, http://thesurrealist.co.uk/slogan.cgi?
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I saw this movie a really long time ago and I can't remember the name of it but I really want to see it again. Maybe someone will know the name. Heres what i remember of it.
It starts out my showing this girl being murdered by this other girl
than it goes to 2 years earlier
the girl that was murdered, Ill call her Lisa ,somehow became friends with this popular girl who had a boyfriend. Her boyfriend became attracted to lisa and raped in her this barn.
The popular girl saw and thought they were having sex so she hated lisa and did horrible things to her. Like try to kill her. They all went against lisa. And there was one scene were they were at the movies and they shoved her and beat her up pretty badly.
The day she was murdered,she was about to go live with her father because of everything that happened. the popular girl and her friends prank phone call her mom and say she needs to come into work , so she does. They break in and murder lisa.
Im sorry if this is confusing and doesnt make sense, but thanks in advance if you can help me! Or if there are any like search websites for movies. (link)
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Have you searched http://www.imdb.com?
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okay so Ive been talking to this guy named jake for about a week.and today is the day i want to stop. Hes a popular jock and is very hot. and hes been IMing me being a perv and saying how hot i am and like telling me to masturbate with him . He even sent PICS. He probably does think im hot, cause when i used a different SN to be other people he was just like eh. but I know he does not like me, and i obviously don't like him either.
I don't know whats wrong with me. but he gets addicting to talk to. I tell myself i dont want to , but i always end up talking to him.
He says for last few days, he's been masturbating like 20 times to my facebook picture. Does he actually think im hot?
but like when i comment him on it saying hi, he does not respond. i think he thinks that im gonna comment him back talking about the things he says to me.
He also tells me not to tell anyone that he's being perverted to me, cause he's usually not like this to everyone else. He tells me "I've never felt this way before." and when i told him, "well. people at school probably already know your really perverted." and he said "nah not really"
Im pretty sure hes embarrased that hes saying perverted things to a random girl.
but i dont know, what does this mean?
I also see him at school sometimes and i dont know how to react when I see him.
So i want to quit talking to him...or at least calm him down on the pervertedness.
What should i say to like leave him hanging? and leave him wanting to talk to me more?
thanks you dont have to answer all the questions :D (link)
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First off, get rid of him. A guy who tells you he masturbates to you has very very little class and wouldn't know the first thing about treating a girl. Also, you are adding to the situation when you lead him on. Yes it may be fun, but in the long run is it not awkward for you to be told someone masturbates to you constantly? I've been told that too and I was by far, better off not knowing.
It seems like you like the attention, of course, everyone loves to be loved right? So whether or not you like the attention is really the answer to your question. I'm getting mixed messages here.
good luck :)
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My hair is really straight and wont curl!
I have tried curling mooses and Curling irons
I heard that Curling shampoo works...
Or Curlers..
I just dont want to waste my money on something that doesnt work!
I really need it curly by this wednesday, i have a special event to attend
Any suggestions will work
Thanks
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I use a product called "Mesh", by I.C.O.N., www.planetbeauty.com/brands/Icon/4839.asp
it may work, it's not too expensive, it's used a lot in salons.
It gives your hair volume and makes it easier to "work" with, for example curling you hair will be easier after you use this product.
Another one I love is "Curls Rock", by Catwalk. It smells great and is the same concept. Just add it to damp hair, dry your hair, and go crazy with your curling iron.
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hey guys! ok here\'s the thing...my whole life i\'ve been avoiding dating guys becasue i keep thinking that i want a serious relationship one day and im a bit young for that now...(im 16) plus i have so many trust issues...i keep thinking that somehow..someway im just going to end up getting hurt...and something is going to go wrong! btw im the type of person who doesnt want to get hurt...well everyones like that but i try to stay from it as far as possible...and i also dont like hurting people...sooo...
so i've never went out with a guy before..never dated..never kissed...etc. (and im not allowed to date well no one is here ...but everyone does it anyway...and i dnt mind that so its not an issue)
yesterday i was asked out on a date for dinner by a guy who i barely know! like we've seen each other like twice and we talk online a lil bit and then he asks me online.. you see im not sure if its a date but im taking a hint and thinking it is :s
and we've planning on seeing each other again and hang out an everything because we're in different skools and stuff... so ya..
guy: hey r you free on thursday?
me: it might be a bit difficult for me to go out on thursday...but friday sure :d
guy: ok cool i want to reserve you on friday
me: haha you have a reservation on friday :p...what time?
guy: loool would you like to go to the inter. i have dinner invetations for 2 people
me: cool from who r the invitatoins?
guy: my dad's
me: cool....wat time?
guy: i don't know i'll see...wats your number
me: *number*
guy: kk i'll see and call ya
so anyways i think hes a nice guy and it would be nice to get to know him...but the thing is ive never been on a date before!!! so not only am i nervous but im seriously having second thoughts here....i told my friends i dnt want to date and theyre like then cancel it with him and go on a group outing next time...but part of me wants to go on a date...i dunno im getting pulled on two sides here!! help ppl...any advice would be much appreciated! :D . so should i go and have dinner with him or just say i cant today im sorry i owe u one ..then we go on a group outing to a movie or something... (link)
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Hun, don't worry about it, give him a shot, go to dinner and have a great time. If you like him, get to know him better. If you start seriously dating you will realize there is nothing to be afraid of. If you're not into it, or it doesn't feel right, you're not with the right person. There's only one way to sense whether or not you like someone and that's by spending time with them.
Going out with groups is great, but your attention might be directed towards your friends more than him, so things won't likely be the same. Hope things turn out alright. ;)
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Okay.. Please don't be like "HOLY COW SHES FAT" cause I know thatlol. I'm 14 years old and I weigh about 210lbs. I have a boyfriend who loves me and thinks im beautiful, and lots of friends, but im not comfortable with how I look. I really want to do this for ME. Does anyone have any good advice, diets, or good [low cal] snack foods that would help?? I'd REALLY appreicate it. I am going to try to get down to 120-130 over all [i know, alot]. But for now my goal is 160-170 by the end of July.. I'm pretty sure thats possible, but im going to need helplol. Also, its kinda hard cause I work in my school cafe and get a free lunch ever day.. Tips please?? THANKS!! (link)
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Okay, first off, you need to know it's a lot of commitment and work, EVERYDAY. So, if I were to go about doing something like this, I would make a plan, a list of things that I would feel comfortable doing.
Let's start with food. While you may go for a bag of chips or even a piece of pizza, it's so easy to supplement these with healthy snacks. It's really a mindset. For example here is a list of replacement foods:
Trail mix (may sound gross, but I personally can't stop eating it)
Low fat yogurt (mixed with granola and fruits is great)
Frozen yogurt (instead of ice cream)
Grapefruit (as well as other fruits such as oranges, apples, mangos, passionfruit, avocado etc)
Muffins, whole grain crackers, rice cakes (peanut butter is great with rice cakes)
Baked tortilla chips, with salsa are great just like pretzels
Switch from regular white bread to whole wheat
Cancel out soda and stick to juices, milk, water
**Limit yourself, don't say oh just one piece of a chocolate bar and I'll put it away, because chances are, you won't. You will tell yourself, just this once, it's not like it will make a difference, and this will continue, before you know it you've gained more than you've lost.
As for exercising, running is the absolute best way to lose weight, and it's free. If you're not up to date with your endurance, consider walking for about two weeks about 5 km (3 miles), then start jogging progressively from 1.6 km (1 m) - 4 km (2.5 m). Try doing this everyday or every other day. Find a buddy to run or walk with you, this will motivate you much more.
If you find this too strenuous, try swimming. Again make this progressive, start out small at about 15-20 minutes everyday or every other day for about 30 minutes.
Indoor activities such as static stretches (stay in one spot) etc can be good in between every morning when you wake up type things. However, push ups, sit ups and pull ups do not help you lose weight, they simply add muscle which is heavier than fat, over your fat and make you look bigger.
I hope this helped ;)
Have fun, and good luck!
Check out these websites for more ideas:
http://www.kidshealth.org/teen/food_fitness/nutrition/healthy_snacks.html
http://www.cnn.com/HEALTH/library/HQ/01625.html
http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/public/heart/obesity/lose_wt/
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My best friend had been going through this really slutty stage lately and I'm getting really annoyed. She started to get this mind set that because i've hooked up with guys tons of times she NEEEDS to also (she never has). She thinks in order to achieve this goal she needs to be as slutty as possible. Shell go up to guys and like pull her shirt down so her cleavage hangs out!! Or shell ask them if they want a handjob! I've tried to tell her that hooking up is for people who care about eachother and not for fun (for me at least) but she tells me that I'm going at it all wrong.
Yesterday she sent a picture of herself topless to a guy friend and this is seriously the last straw. What can I say to make her understand that being slutty doesn't get guys!!? (link)
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Well, unfortunately you can't tell her that because half the time being slutty will get guys, just not for the reasons she may want. Ask her if it would make her feel good about herself if guys used her. If all guys thought of her was free sex. Then let her look at the situation through a guy's eyes. "hey I'm feeling horny, might as well go see [friend's name] for a hand job." Or worse.
I know exactly how you feel, it is the same with my best friend and I. I let her know I don't like what she is doing but it isn't my body so I basically say; here is what you're doing, this is the result. Yes I will be there for you no matter what, but I will be extremely disappointed if you make a mistake and you can't handle the consequences.
She may call you a hypocrite, she may get angry with you, but she needs to know that some guys don't give a shit about how the girl feels afterwards, and you do.
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I need some major help.My family and I are at the end of our rope. My mom broke up with her bf and he took all our money saying that he deserved it because of all the times my mom has borrowed from him. Now we dont have any money to pay the bills or anything. I can't confort my mom, which I usually do, because she says something negetive. Im about to cry with all the problems i have with school, friends, and family. Im up to my neck with problems. This is the first time Ive had a problem like this and couldnt concer(sp) it. Im scared and stressed, what should I do. I need it quickly because, i really am about to cry. (link)
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Do yourself a huge favour. The best feeling in this situation is crying. Better yet, get a friend, someone close to you, and cry on their shoulder. Tell them everything that is bothering you. Always remember, things will get better. Maybe soon, maybe later but in the end if you pull together, you will work it out.
I know how it feels to have everything in life just collapse in front of you. Look at it positively and grow from there. While you may have problems with your friends, make sure they know you want them there for you (assuming you do), let them know you need them more than anything. Put your friend problems aside and if you're in a fight be the bigger person and appologize. Even if it wasn't your fault, the other person will see how difficult they have been acting and they will most likely appologize aswell.
Good luck and if you need anyone to talk to, give me a shout.
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Okay sorry this is so long....
ight....my name is sarah,im white and im 15...i date this boy named brandon,hes black and hes 17 and i just turned 15 in march and hes about to turn 18 in may...well we been dateing since march 24th-2007 and when we were on the phone he said babe are you ready to fuck me and i told him no because im still a virgin and we only been goin out for 2 weeks.He said i better set a date or its over.So i told him ill be ready friday.Well we just started talking and he was like babe i got somethin to tell you but i wanna say it to your face but I LOVE YOU!!so i said i love you too.WEll he always tells me well be together forever no matter what.Well all my friends tell me were rushing but i never felt this way about a guy befor in my life.I just dont no what to do because my plan was to brake up with him thursday because im not ready to fuck him yet.Hes everything i ever wanted in a guy.The only thing is he wont wait until im ready.and everytime he says i love you and he blows kisses in the phone and always calls me baby...well when ever i hear his say that stuff to me its like i cry all over again and i just dont no what to do with him...
HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! (link)
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It sounds like he is using you for sex. If he is telling you either you have sex with him or he will dump you, he obviously doesn't want a relationship based on more than that. If he only says I love you when you give into his demands he is lying.
I would dump him, while he may be ready, you aren't.
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15/f, this girl who i've known since 6th grade had a sweet 16 last night. We became pretty good friends in 7th grade, and we have an inside joke. Now, I'm in 9th grade (she turned 16 because she's asian and her parents kept her back a year so she could learn the language better or something lol) so now, I have science class with her, and I'll talk to her occassionally. I've always been nice to her and everything. But she didn't invited me too her Sweet 16. Yet she invited people she just met this year. And yeah, maybe she's become good friends with them, but still. I'm pissed!! Idk, maybe she thought if she invited me, she'd have to invite my 2 best friends, but she didn't want to because she's not as close to them. And then that'd start a whole drama thing. But it wouldn't. UGHH! I'm mad. Should I say something to her or would that be too bitchy? And do I have a right to be mad?Thanks! (link)
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It seems like she sees you more as an acquaintance than a good friend. Maybe you see her as a better friend than she is. What I would do is talk to her outside of class and say something along the lines of: "Hey, we used to be such good friends but we haven't hung out in such a long time. Do you want to do something this weekend?" or "I miss hanging out with you, remember when [insert memory here]"
If she sees that you want to be better friends again she will probably consider hanging out with you more often, then you will be close like you used to be.
I don't think you should be offended by not being invited to the party. I've been in that situation and it is almost always that you think you're better friends with the person than you really are.
Hope that helped ;) good luck!
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I'm really bored with my hair. I want to get a really good haircut. Any ideas?
Heres a picture of me if that will help..
http://i14.tinypic.com/2ef58oi.jpg (link)
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I would cut it just above your shoulders but with lots of layers. Also, if you're bored with your hair maybe try colouring it darker or even getting highlights.
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I was wondering if you guys had some bands/songs that you really liked that are similar to my favorites.
Some of my favorite artists are Red Hot Chili Peppers, Dashboard Confessional, Switchfoot, Jacks Mannequin, The Audition, Houston Calls, Cobra Starship, The Matches.
So could you give me some of your favorite alternitive rock type bands and songs? (link)
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If you go to Last.fm you can search for an artist you like then click on a link to a radio that has similar artists, or what artists other people who listen to that band like.
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OK, onne of my closest bffl's is getting on my last nerves. She's always saying that she is getting more guys than me. GRRRRR, its driving me nuts. Just because she has a bigger chest than I do and atracts older guys, doesnt mean she gets more guys than i do, right? I dont know, all i know is that im tired of her always bragging. If she wants to act like a slut and bitch , fine. But what should I do about the problem. I DONT KNOW IF I CAN TAKE ANYMORE. Can someone PLEASE help me?!?!?!?!?! (link)
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It's probably just to make her feel more confident in herself. Everyone likes to know they're "special" and if that's how she gets her pride than so be it. I personally think it's rude but maybe she doesn't see it. You should talk to her about it, and make sure she understands how it affects you. The key to a friendship is honesty and with honesty comes confruntation.
Also, don't ever let that get you down. It's about quality not quantity. If you feel you are getting guys because of reasons other than big boobs etc than that should make you feel great about yourself. It means they think there is more to you than sex, and they will probably want to get to know you in better ways than sex.
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