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Perverted Guy again sorry but plz/
okay so Ive been talking to this guy named jake for about a week.and today is the day i want to stop. Hes a popular jock and is very hot. and hes been IMing me being a perv and saying how hot i am and like telling me to masturbate with him . He even sent PICS. He probably does think im hot, cause when i used a different SN to be other people he was just like eh. but I know he does not like me, and i obviously don't like him either.
I don't know whats wrong with me. but he gets addicting to talk to. I tell myself i dont want to , but i always end up talking to him.
He says for last few days, he's been masturbating like 20 times to my facebook picture. Does he actually think im hot?
but like when i comment him on it saying hi, he does not respond. i think he thinks that im gonna comment him back talking about the things he says to me.
He also tells me not to tell anyone that he's being perverted to me, cause he's usually not like this to everyone else. He tells me "I've never felt this way before." and when i told him, "well. people at school probably already know your really perverted." and he said "nah not really"
Im pretty sure hes embarrased that hes saying perverted things to a random girl.
but i dont know, what does this mean?
I also see him at school sometimes and i dont know how to react when I see him.
So i want to quit talking to him...or at least calm him down on the pervertedness.
What should i say to like leave him hanging? and leave him wanting to talk to me more?
thanks you dont have to answer all the questions :D
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What type of reputation do you have in school? Like, do you dress like a slut or anything? Because, it sounds like he wants to get some from you. It doesn't sound like your a slut though, so hmm, i dno. maybe he just actually likes you, and is like trying to get your attention. why don't you just say like.. why do you say this stuff to me? do you like me or something? and see what happens with that. just put him on the spot.
oh anddd, don't tease him and pretend you like him or something. guys hate that. girls will do that to my brother, and he ends up like stop talking to them. I mean, dont be like all over a guy, but don't act like you dont like the person anymore or something. That sends mix signals, and no one like that. because, hes kinda sending you mixed signals, and it doesn't seem like you like it either, so be careful on what you sayy..
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If you keep playing games with him, you'll end up still talking to him. If you want to stop talking to him, don't be a tease about it, be straightforward and strong. Tell him to go bugger off.
I completely understand why this feels so good! It's great to feel desired and sexy but you REALLY need to start paying attention to the little voice in the back of your head that says this guy is a little creepy and worrisome. He is creepy and some of what he is saying is sort of scarry.
Guys who say that they are masturbating to your picture twenty times a day are A.) Liars, and B.) Users. Guys who are too ashamed of liking you to admit it to friends will never have any real feelings for you besides lust.
I know the ego boost of being told you are sexy is addictive, but you break the habit before you get yourself in some trouble. Best case scenario: He gets bored with you because it doesn't go any further then talking and moves on to treating some other girl this way. Worst case: He starts to cross the line, not just the way he speaks but in his actions. He is already proven to you that he can two faced and perverted, can you imagine what would happen if he started to act that way in real life and not just on computer? You'd be in a very scary situation. He's obsessive, and though I hate to be the one to tell you this it has more to do with him being a creep then with you being sexy.
So just take the compliment and cut him out. No more talking online. Period. I promise you if you keep this up it won't feel good in the end.
If his behavior escalates after you cut him out, be prepared to tell an adult, because guys like that can do crazy shit. Keep yourself sane and safe.
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First off, get rid of him. A guy who tells you he masturbates to you has very very little class and wouldn't know the first thing about treating a girl. Also, you are adding to the situation when you lead him on. Yes it may be fun, but in the long run is it not awkward for you to be told someone masturbates to you constantly? I've been told that too and I was by far, better off not knowing.
It seems like you like the attention, of course, everyone loves to be loved right? So whether or not you like the attention is really the answer to your question. I'm getting mixed messages here.
good luck :)
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